Libran man fancied piscean girl for a year

Hi there, I am a piscean ...and met this libran man 19th Oct, about 2 years ago in a club but he was without a good job, car and home and lived with his dad who needed looking after at the time, he use to chase me like there was no tomorrow, in fact when we went on a date as he was very charming, the first date was really nice until he text me literally back to back every minute, called me all the time and I felt I couldnt breathe so had to tell him pull away its too intense I need space. So he did and a few months later I met someone else.

Unfortunately as our social lives were different it didnt work out, so the libran pursued me again noticing on facebook my status from relationship was now single....He asks me if I want kids and marriage I said, well at the moment life is great, there is no real hurry and kids not sure depends as my work always comes first, to which is true and naturally need someone the same as me for it to work , no clingy men I told him I couldnt date him 2 years ago because he wasnt sure where he was in his life nor did he leave me alone as he was OTT and he realised this. This time around good job, car etc.

After him texting me about 3/4 times a week over the last month, he meets me at my house and that night we slept together for the first time, it was nice...however he was, shall we say quite intense, forceful in a nice way and that was it.... as I get us a drink he shoots up really quickly and says "I get embarrassed and not confident being naked!" and gets dressed and sits on my sofa and starts saying the most weirdest things...."I have been chasing you for a year do you know that?"....erm yes I reply..."you know I have been fantasing about you for that time....you know you have me under your thumb?!"

Really I reply, what are you talking about, this guy was completely freaking me out— As he leaves after this and leaving me thinking what was all that about, he says I will text you tomorrow, he does and the next day and the next and asks me what I am doing over the next few days...however after those comments and he even said dont get into his head— that I have been wary meeting him again and pulled away...he still texts me about 3/4 times a week same as before but I am not meeting him, nor have I suggested it...he tells me to text him while I am out and I dont, I text him hello and he replies but this is the most weirdest scenario ever as I do like him but why those comments?

You should watch out for that guy. Libra's can lie like no tomorrow and make up stories that are unreal lol.....

^^^^^ EVER dear some do tell big lies to make themselves appear to be something other than they are......which is scared insecure clingy little cry babies lol.

you would be correct.

He's still caught up in phase one of Libras in "love."

Give it a few and watch him balk and run. "I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT!!"

Sounds as if he's obsessed with something that he couldn't have. Now he's happy that it's getting to that stage. I wouldn't be surprised if after all this hard core chasing that he'd start to slam on the brakes and change his story.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I usually am.

Oh I forgot to mention arrogrant as well lol....

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Jeez, all the usual suspects are here!

That would include yourself...you do realize that!

Posted by rockyroadicecream
He's still caught up in phase one of Libras in "love."

Give it a few and watch him balk and run. "I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT!!"

Sounds as if he's obsessed with something that he couldn't have. Now he's happy that it's getting to that stage. I wouldn't be surprised if after all this hard core chasing that he'd start to slam on the brakes and change his story.

+1. This is very typical of a libra guy in the beginning of a relationship. The sappier and hardcore clingy they are at the beginning, the more chances of the flame burning out with something horrific like them disappearing.