I can't feel the compatible-ness with libra

Hello.. First i would like to give brief description about me n my boyfriend..
Me - aquarius (11/02/1988)
- broke up with taurus (we've been together about 5 years)
- longing for someone that will always be there for me n do more actions rather than keep creating promises n sweet talks

Him - libra (22/10/1986)
- broke up with pisces (10 years relationship) and his ex going to marry someone else soon

We met each others thru social network and i didn't expect that we will fall in love with each others.
The beginnings of d relationship goes pretty well n sweet.
He always call n text me .. Sometimes, he sing n play guitar for me .. We had late night conversation until we asleep..

Ok, not to mention that he's such a busy person i ever see. He work as auditor at AIA.
Sometimes he work till night.. And by the time he's working, he can't be disturb..
He's so passionate with his job.. At first i was amazed with his seriousness of his work.
But then.. Sometimes i felt like he's avoiding me and didn't feel appreciated..

After that i tell him about my dissatisfaction, about the way he treat me that goes like on and Off
He said that im his priority and etc but i cant trust him because he keep on wrongly calling my name as his ex gf name
And i try to act cool with that and didnt really take it seriously..

After i confess about how i feel, like he didnt really text or call me.. Didnt pick up my call
And only contact me when he feel like he want to.. On weekend also hard to reach him..
And i asked him if he really want me or not.. He said its up to you..
Then i asked him back .. "then why you say you love me at the first time if u nt so sure what you really want?"
And he confess that he dont want to be so commited because he's phobia with his previous relationship..
Yupp he do lot of changing for his ex.. Cuz he is actually a bad guy and now i realize that he is better than he was..
From what he told me about his past..
However, after that, he just like chipsmore.. Dissapeared without telling me what on his mind..
After that i asked for break up n wanna be friend with him first and after that our relationship became worst
Avoiding me and i feel like a idiot..
So, right now i giving him some space and i guess he already decide he doesnt want to proceed this relationship
But if so, why he didnt tell me about his decision and left me hanging like crazy..

Before i had libra as my partner and i never argue or never f

Before i had libra as my partner and i never argue or never felt not been appreciated..
I wonder why my current libra was so different with my previous one..
Is it because he's still in broken hearted?
Ohh please help me. I confuse and i feel so headache thinking about our relationship..

There's no relationship anymore. You wanted to stay friends after the break up, but it seems he's not interested. He may be heartbroken and needs time to recover, or he may not care at all and he's happy he found a way out of the relationship. Whatever the case may be, my advice is don't invest in something that doesn't work.

He texted me once after i sent something funny.. And its quite a good respond but then he dissapeared again..
Are libra usually just left things unsaid? By the way, i texted him that i take back my words about asking for break up..
But there no respond until i send something funny..

Posted by SweetDandelion
He texted me once after i sent something funny.. And its quite a good respond but then he dissapeared again..
Are libra usually just left things unsaid? By the way, i texted him that i take back my words about asking for break up..
But there no respond until i send something funny..

You can forget about him explaining himself as to his feelings or the break up. That's the way they are. They will leave things unsaid, unexplained, and I'll not discuss it unless they want to. To them, it's your fault for not figuring it out. To be fair, a lot of mn are this way and I'm not being critical of anyone sign. In time and itch healing, he may be able to explain things, but by then youve probably will hav moved on.

Posted by SweetDandelion
He texted me once after i sent something funny.. And its quite a good respond but then he dissapeared again..
Are libra usually just left things unsaid? By the way, i texted him that i take back my words about asking for break up..
But there no respond until i send something funny..

You can forget about him explaining himself as to his feelings or the break up. That's the way they are. They will leave things unsaid, unexplained, and I'll not discuss it unless they want to. To them, it's your fault for not figuring it out. To be fair, a lot of mn are this way and I'm not being critical of anyone sign. In time and itch healing, he may be able to explain things, but by then youve probably will hav moved on.

Thx for ur respond, by the way.. I send him a drawing me n him n i said i love u then today he send a msg "its my fault n in sorry for everything" . Is that mean he is ok already? Am i still hv some hope to start over again with him?

No, he has apologised and that is that, if he wanted you back he would have asked you out or invited you out with him. He didn't, just apologised for the away he treated you.

Move on, SD, don't lower yourself for someone only half interested!

Posted by sweethearts
No, he has apologised and that is that, if he wanted you back he would have asked you out or invited you out with him. He didn't, just apologised for the away he treated you.

Move on, SD, don't lower yourself for someone only half interested!

+1

winks @ BS

Posted by sweethearts
winks @ BS

BS winks back 😉

Thx a lot guys .. N u know what... He actually just want to give me a lesson that love is not something that u have to text or call your love one 24 hrs..
Now i realize that im still childish and i deserved the punishment lol. Hihi he still love me.. Btw thanks for all your advices 🙂 his silence really give me something to ponder..

You're welcome