Libran Women Are you Picky With Potential mates

I'm soo picky when it comes to finding a man! It frustrates me at times because I know a lot of good guys fall through the cracks. I wonder if its because my venus is in virgo or its just a libra female trait? Sometimes I wish I could make a male version of me and I'd live happily ever after lol Tell me your thoughts!?

Posted by SweetLibra
I have to say that I am. But in the sense that he has to make me feel a certain way. My cousin cracks jokes on me all the time. She told me once "Jesus did not have a brother. Pick somebody already". Lol. I can't really explain it. I have met some wonderful men but that feeling just wasn't evoked within me that made me want to take it further. There are just so many levels we need to click on that I just can't find that with everybody. I have a quote from the movie Meet Joe Black on my profile page that really resonates with me:

"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived."

Everything you've said is so true to me, I have to feel and love your energy and I totally agree that I have to be compatible with you on so many different levels just for you to catch my attention. It kind of sucks but i guess it just really weeds out people who will last a summer and people who will last a lifetime.

I BS a lot about how my boyfriend should be like, this and that, but I feel that at the end I will get some sweetheart, that is great in making love, and that will make my days brighter and happier. I think I should get over the material side that he should have. I will make him become rich, and well known person. Fuck rich guys, I will look for an ordinary guy from now on.

I guess I changed all of a sudden.

Posted by GiftfromVenus
I'm soo picky when it comes to finding a man! It frustrates me at times because I know a lot of good guys fall through the cracks. I wonder if its because my venus is in virgo or its just a libra female trait? Sometimes I wish I could make a male version of me and I'd live happily ever after lol Tell me your thoughts!?

My venus is in virgo also...I mean I am complicated when it comes to finding a proper guy,idk what to do either...

Is the feeling I get from the beginning more than a list of things I look in a partner. Of course there are non-negotiables like please have a job and no addictions...but I have met guys that are great catches and crazy about me and If there is no that feeling it goes nowhere...

So yes I am picky...

I agree with you ladies, my friend tells me the same thing, just when u think most women or men for that matter want what they want, but then libras really do say what they mean, but how hard does one have to do to get u to decide what is right or wrong for you, I find with my BFF libra she would be with some really good men, one guy did everything for her, he was even patient, but she wouldn't spend that much time with him, maybe once a week, but would call him everyday, would hangout with me and the other friends but wouldn't spend time with the guy, I don't understand why she does that, but then gets mad when the guy moves on, you can't have a guy wait that dam long and expect him to understand what your going through, if the guy wants to spend time with you, phone convos are not a relationship, hell its not even a friendship, you can't expect a good man to wait while u do your pros and cons, it's not fair, how can the guy go with the flow if your not around?

I am very picky about my mate. Down to looks, tastes, music, hygeine, manners, friends and especially how they make me feel. It causes a lot of problems because when I finally do find someone that matches this criteria I go into freak mode!

im picky who i go out in public with like you know the "official" one .. but if i go underground with someoene like just you know when youre single but you really dont have the time and energy to be comitted and you just want that someone who can bang your kitty if i need to i can definitely slash off some in my checklist.

the things i need if youre just a good time would be :

clean no stds and shit
knows how to follow instructions in case we need to perform intricate moves
a dick the would match my kitty (this should be number 2 )
always on time ( sorry but i want to get laid if i want you there becuase if your late i can just whip up my vibe if i cant hold it any longer and you will be knocking on a door that will only open the next day)
and should know how to shut his mouth unless he's in bed with me.


if its official


I dont have actually have one no until i get to know the person more. and then i weigh if i can stay with that person w/ his flaws or not.

I'm picky if he's picky. I know what i can offer to a relationship so i have the right to get what i want 🙂

Im very picky.. and shallow too. I went on a date with a virgo last week and i couldnt stop focusing on his nose, because it was big.. and I know im not perfect myself.
and yeah music too... he had lil wayne on his car radio. bye bye

Venus in Virgo = picky picky picky !!! trust me on this one !

I have Venus and Mars in Virgo! Picky doesn't even cover it!

Posted by size zero superhero
Let's put it this way, I have standards.
Picky? Maybe in comparison to Jane Doe dating the guy with kickin' body odor and a foul attitude to match. And I'd much rather be single and lonely, over settling for less just to be in a relationship. That's shamefully unfair to both parties.

My feelings as well.