Ok this doesn't relate to my Libran friend - well I havent noticed it anyway (he has enough strange habits but we'll leave that alone LOL), but I work with 3 Librans...not closely I have to admit but one is the head boss of our division and I've noticed something about him and the other 2 as well...
OK well we all know about the making decisions/weighing things up and down, etc...yes torturous to watch for even the most patient person LOL, however, it seems, especially the boss, goes into some sort of hiding when he has a big decision to make......he will suddenly change the way he behaves, he gets even busier than he was before (and trust me he is full steam ahead most of the time), and then when he's made everybody else busy he goes into a sort of hiding to do his great thinking.....even his wife said he changes behaviour and acts kinda weird...her way of describing it was "its like peeling an onion, he sheds his layers and then when there are none left, he'll come out a new person"
The other two Librans, well they do it to a degree but of course its not so noticeable as they dont need to make HUGE decisions like the boss does (well not around us at work anyway) but when there are decisions to be made that affect them personally? they do kinda go into hiding for a while....stop doing certain things and so on.
Does that make any sense to you guys?
Ive also noticed that Librans in general LOVE talking about astrology even if they're not really into it - it fascinates them!!
I guess what Im asking is....Do you tend to hide away for a while when you have decisions to make, I mean meaningful decisions, like sacking somebody (LOL,just kidding)...ummmm I dunno, buying a house for example, going on a trip away, or getting into a new r/ship, changing jobs, changing hair style s hehehe, etc.
To me it seems painful to go through what I have noticed in these people as I am quite spontaneous and sometimes I do live to regret decisions but whatever!!! I am a Leo, I will always land on my feet *giggles* but to you guys, it just seems like you're content thinking, re-thinking, over-thinking, days on end!!! OMG that would hurt my head so much.!!!
I dunno Chatz, my ex libra wasn't that kind of Libra, maybe their are the shy, timid, hiding types but I guess it has to do more of a persons past history and their chart. My libra was very open and forthcoming, he didn't hide much but he did need his me time, time to do what he wanted to do (which was mostly NOTHING), he day dreamed a lot, libra's have a boyish charm which can be interpreted as shy, very stubborn when it came to how he wanted to do things, it was his way period when it came to the way he chose to live his life, you could show him a better way but he needed to do it his way or he wasn't happy at all, he didn't hide feelings, wasn't shy or timid, he saw me and claimed his woman. I think this sign is misinterpreted in a lot of ways.
I'm sure their are libra's that hide and so forth and someone else can shed light on that, I personally never experienced that. My other libra male friend was outgoing, very charming, dazzled a room, not shy at all, he was somewhat of a diva, picky, great sense of humour, made all kinds of friends but I do notice that they don't like their space invaded when alone time is needed.
Have to remember air signs live in their heads, this is their home.
Decision time is very important to them and YES, when they are dealing with things they sometime block the rest of the world out for awhile. Nothing personal.
Yeah thanks guys...that has shed some light on this particular man's ways....regarding the downsize comment? yeah....that's gotta be tough on him and that's exactly what he's going through....good pick up LOL.
Interesting studying these Librans...it really is hehehehe....love your comment Tiki.."but he did need his me time, time to do what he wanted to do (which was mostly NOTHING)" LMAO....THAT is so true with my very own Libra friend but he's another story all together 😛
talking about astrology is interesting for us bcoz we are curious and have observed a lot about people and astrology suddenly start making senses here and there where we once had no rational explanation.
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Ok this doesn't relate to my Libran friend - well I havent noticed it anyway (he has enough strange habits but we'll leave that alone LOL), but I work with 3 Librans...not closely I have to admit but one is the head boss of our division and I've noticed something about him and the other 2 as well...
OK well we all know about the making decisions/weighing things up and down, etc...yes torturous to watch for even the most patient person LOL, however, it seems, especially the boss, goes into some sort of hiding when he has a big decision to make......he will suddenly change the way he behaves, he gets even busier than he was before (and trust me he is full steam ahead most of the time), and then when he's made everybody else busy he goes into a sort of hiding to do his great thinking.....even his wife said he changes behaviour and acts kinda weird...her way of describing it was "its like peeling an onion, he sheds his layers and then when there are none left, he'll come out a new person"
The other two Librans, well they do it to a degree but of course its not so noticeable as they dont need to make HUGE decisions like the boss does (well not around us at work anyway) but when there are decisions to be made that affect them personally? they do kinda go into hiding for a while....stop doing certain things and so on.
Does that make any sense to you guys?
Ive also noticed that Librans in general LOVE talking about astrology even if they're not really into it - it fascinates them!!