Libra silent treatment

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Krazy Libra on Saturday, September 8, 2007 and has 9 replies.

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@Krazy Libra
18 Years

I left this on the libra board as well....I am a Libra and I have such a HARD time giving the silent treatment.....How are some libras able to do this successfully? what does this mean?

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@Krazy Libra
18 Years

I think it means that you've got a pissed Libra on
your hands,lol!

I was looking more for a "hurt libra" because he hurt me....so I was attempting to throw him off balance, tip the scales way out of wack. Lol all my efforts got was silence!

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

a hurt and/or angry LIbra— ouch!!! I think you may have tipped those scales and it might just take a bit of time for him to balance them out again.

As you are a Libra yourself you'd know that Librans need lots of time and do the weighing up thing and then decided, undecide, decide again and yada yada yada....Oh God so hard to watch!!! painful even LOL. The silence thing? yes I've been through that with mine...it might mean nothing or you may really have pi $ $ ed him off...sometimes that's a good thing though, it opens their eyes but Librans are very forgiving....time, time and more time.

Thank God I am more spontaneous as my Libra friend told me on Saturday (he said that's a good thing and wishes he was more like that and then said Im good for him as he is so indecisive)....OMG 2 Librans together— I can only image how that would go:.

"where would you like to go for dinner?"..."I don't know, where would you like to go?"...and so on!! arghhhh

*giggles*

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@Krazy Libra
18 Years

Lol yeah...........I try to be decisive so Im decisive about MAJOR THINGS but small things..NO WAY! I apologized to him and still nothing.....this is a hard week for us both its my boyfriends bday this week.....again I thought libras were compassionte? I am! however he seems to be LACKING in that area...lol he's making me really not like him at all. It's ok though ya live and ya learn...stay single and never trust men!

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Some guys, whether Libra or not...find it incredibly hard to help somebody else. Yours, as you said, is going through a hard time for the same reasons you are, but he may not be equipped to handle the pain for both of you?? Don't give up too easily.

Try to get through your grief and keep busy with friends/family....lots of chocolate helps too hehehe....oh and retail therapy— I can totally recommend it but then again I am a Leo!!!

This too shall pass 🙂

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@Krazy Libra
18 Years

lol im the original retail therapist....too much so! I dont have anyone i can really talk to so I deal with it myself.......

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

well its always good to come here when one feels like that....people on here are VERY helpful....I stumbled across the site as most do I suspect.

Lots of hugs Krazy Libra....I forgot to mention C.O.C.K.tails help a lot too 😛

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@CapyWife
18 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

you must have really pissed him off... cause when i was with my Libra i swear there was nothing i could do to piss that guy off. And us Caps are bossy if you let us take the power. He didn't seem to mind and when i was bit@chy he didn't even yell at me. In my opinion it takes a lot to make those guys mad.

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Yeah I've not noticed an angry Libra but OMG I can only imagine him when he's angry...it would not be nice...he's very tall and has a very deep and distinct voice....but he's very calm and gentle....

He is good at giving the silent treatment though - just a few days of not hearing from him but it is never in spite.