LibraTopcat
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Male Libra oct 20, Female Gemini May 28
Posted by LibraTopcat
The first time I met Steph, I knew I was attracted to her. I bascially waited until she initiated any conversation. She noticed that I rode a Harley and said, "I love to ride", Well, this was around the beginning of spring 09. She said this again around end of Spring, again beginnig of summer and once during the middle of summer. Well at the end of summer I finally said, give me your number and we can go for a ride. (I didn't really pursue her because I had other interest). We rode on my bike 2-3 times just as friends. Then on Labor Day we went for a ride and she said, "I thought to myself the last time we rode, "Why couldn't I have sex with you?", I said, Yeah, "why couldn't you? ha ha ha"
Well, we ended up having sex. We have basically been spending almost everyday together since then. We get along really well. It's almost like a typical Libra/Gemini relationship, Perfect 10.
Just for ships and giggles we read her astrology book and had some fun doing so. I never really put any interest into my being a libra. But after reading up in the last 4 days it actually explains alot...
1) Thoughts—?
B) How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?
4) How much wood can a wood chuck, chuck, if a wood chuck could chuck wood?
Me, female, May 27 Him Libra, male, Oct 17 started this thing around first of April, been on/off on his part and mine all summer, funny, how close and yet how far........
How many licks? First you gotta get started to count.......
How much, that is entirely up to you how much, how long. ....spoken from a Virgo male
Thoughts, it is a damn good combo when he allowed freedom and no restraints........he wants it, but, that would change this mans outlook on females, for he indeed is a womanizer......a damn charming one at that!
Thank you for replying.
First) I am such a Libra. But a mature one at that.
B) This one was joke number 1. Remember the Owl, One, Two, Three CRUNCH. Three Licks to get to the center of a tootsie pop..
4) As much wood as a wood chuck could chuck, if a wood chuck could chuck wood. My dad used to always say this when I was young.
First) I am such a Libra. But a mature one at that.
B) This one was joke number 1. Remember the Owl, One, Two, Three CRUNCH. Three Licks to get to the center of a tootsie pop..
4) As much wood as a wood chuck could chuck, if a wood chuck could chuck wood. My dad used to always say this when I was young.
Posted by LibraTopcat
Thank you for replying.
First) I am such a Libra. But a mature one at that.
B) This one was joke number 1. Remember the Owl, One, Two, Three CRUNCH. Three Licks to get to the center of a tootsie pop..
4) As much wood as a wood chuck could chuck, if a wood chuck could chuck wood. My dad used to always say this when I was young.
Topcat, I too was replying in humor to tootsie and wood chuck, LOL
But how true did it ring? LOL
Such a Libra, well, he is about to be 44 if he is not mature yet, will he ever be? hmmmmmm?
He states he is "shy" I call BULL he will sing to me wonderfully anywhere anytime anyplace in front of ANYONE! He will not hesitate to attempt "control" of me in any way he thinks he can gain it.
He has no problem stating his feelings when he desires, good or bad
I am the perfect girlfriend according to him except one thing.....I still dont know what the one thing is or was?
etc etc etc
Posted by Perfect Gem AngelPosted by LibraTopcat
Thank you for replying.
First) I am such a Libra. But a mature one at that.
B) This one was joke number 1. Remember the Owl, One, Two, Three CRUNCH. Three Licks to get to the center of a tootsie pop..
4) As much wood as a wood chuck could chuck, if a wood chuck could chuck wood. My dad used to always say this when I was young.
Topcat, I too was replying in humor to tootsie and wood chuck, LOL
But how true did it ring? LOL
Such a Libra, well, he is about to be 44 if he is not mature yet, will he ever be? hmmmmmm?
He states he is "shy" I call BULL he will sing to me wonderfully anywhere anytime anyplace in front of ANYONE! He will not hesitate to attempt "control" of me in any way he thinks he can gain it.
He has no problem stating his feelings when he desires, good or bad
I am the perfect girlfriend according to him except one thing.....I still dont know what the one thing is or was?
etc etc etcclick to expand
friday he called me a lil lady, today he calls me friend......I think he likes me, I think he likes me......(sang like sandra bullock did in ms. congeniality)
Ok, Miss Perfect Angel Gem,
Did yah notice my 1) B) 4) numbering of my questions?
I always loved that in Home Alone.
Big Sis: Aren't you afraid Kevin will be all scared and alone?
Big "Mean" brother: No! And I'll tell you why. 1) Because nothing ever happens in our neighborhood. B) Kevin will never leave the house and 4) I couldn't be that lucky....(Note: In my mind the number 1 was really a ROMAN NUMERAL I, but only few would even get what I am saying. ah ha ha)
Ok now that I pointed that out....
As I mentioned in the original thread. I have never really put any thought into my being a Libra. It kind of explains some things. I have spent the last 5 days reading about Sun Sign compatibility, Moon Sign, and ascendents etc...Mean while the entire time being very happy with how Steph and I are toward each other and with each other. Almost every compatibility I read said Libra and Gemini's are perfect matches. Since Steph and I are getting along so well, I enjoyed reading it saying that it should. Then I read something that I didn't find appealing. So I looked for other opinions. I found some that I liked and was happy again. (It's kind of like getting on the scale and telling myself if the scale number is below what I expect then I will be happy.) Then I read something that I will paraphrase. It basically said, The information that you read should not really sway you one way or another, it should be in fun. And that's where I am with it. Sure. I read about Libra Sun signs and I am like OH YEAH, I am soooo that way, but I also recogonize that there are experiences and other factors that come into play that make me who I am....As far as relationships go,
I have found the following to be true. As much as I hate to admit the first one. These are in no particular order
1) I can either be HAPPY or Right.
2) Jealousy is never attractive
3) I need to be myself and the sooner I can feel comfortable being myself the better off I am
4) I have one side of my brain that makes ship up and the other side buys it. I have to be honest with myself and live in reality.
5) Everyone needs space. It's not healthy for me to become EMESHED with someone, I have to keep my own friends and spend time with them as well as alone time.
6) A Healthy realtionship should be based on Honesty, Good Communication, Sharing and Giving and open and loving SEX and totally without expectations.
7) People Change, feelings change and it is what it is
Did yah notice my 1) B) 4) numbering of my questions?
I always loved that in Home Alone.
Big Sis: Aren't you afraid Kevin will be all scared and alone?
Big "Mean" brother: No! And I'll tell you why. 1) Because nothing ever happens in our neighborhood. B) Kevin will never leave the house and 4) I couldn't be that lucky....(Note: In my mind the number 1 was really a ROMAN NUMERAL I, but only few would even get what I am saying. ah ha ha)
Ok now that I pointed that out....
As I mentioned in the original thread. I have never really put any thought into my being a Libra. It kind of explains some things. I have spent the last 5 days reading about Sun Sign compatibility, Moon Sign, and ascendents etc...Mean while the entire time being very happy with how Steph and I are toward each other and with each other. Almost every compatibility I read said Libra and Gemini's are perfect matches. Since Steph and I are getting along so well, I enjoyed reading it saying that it should. Then I read something that I didn't find appealing. So I looked for other opinions. I found some that I liked and was happy again. (It's kind of like getting on the scale and telling myself if the scale number is below what I expect then I will be happy.) Then I read something that I will paraphrase. It basically said, The information that you read should not really sway you one way or another, it should be in fun. And that's where I am with it. Sure. I read about Libra Sun signs and I am like OH YEAH, I am soooo that way, but I also recogonize that there are experiences and other factors that come into play that make me who I am....As far as relationships go,
I have found the following to be true. As much as I hate to admit the first one. These are in no particular order
1) I can either be HAPPY or Right.
2) Jealousy is never attractive
3) I need to be myself and the sooner I can feel comfortable being myself the better off I am
4) I have one side of my brain that makes ship up and the other side buys it. I have to be honest with myself and live in reality.
5) Everyone needs space. It's not healthy for me to become EMESHED with someone, I have to keep my own friends and spend time with them as well as alone time.
6) A Healthy realtionship should be based on Honesty, Good Communication, Sharing and Giving and open and loving SEX and totally without expectations.
7) People Change, feelings change and it is what it is
Posted by LibraTopcat
Ok, Miss Perfect Angel Gem,
Did yah notice my 1) B) 4) numbering of my questions?
I always loved that in Home Alone.
Big Sis: Aren't you afraid Kevin will be all scared and alone?
Big "Mean" brother: No! And I'll tell you why. 1) Because nothing ever happens in our neighborhood. B) Kevin will never leave the house and 4) I couldn't be that lucky....(Note: In my mind the number 1 was really a ROMAN NUMERAL I, but only few would even get what I am saying. ah ha ha)
Ok now that I pointed that out....
As I mentioned in the original thread. I have never really put any thought into my being a Libra. It kind of explains some things. I have spent the last 5 days reading about Sun Sign compatibility, Moon Sign, and ascendents etc...Mean while the entire time being very happy with how Steph and I are toward each other and with each other. Almost every compatibility I read said Libra and Gemini's are perfect matches. Since Steph and I are getting along so well, I enjoyed reading it saying that it should. Then I read something that I didn't find appealing. So I looked for other opinions. I found some that I liked and was happy again. (It's kind of like getting on the scale and telling myself if the scale number is below what I expect then I will be happy.) Then I read something that I will paraphrase. It basically said, The information that you read should not really sway you one way or another, it should be in fun. And that's where I am with it. Sure. I read about Libra Sun signs and I am like OH YEAH, I am soooo that way, but I also recogonize that there are experiences and other factors that come into play that make me who I am....As far as relationships go,
I have found the following to be true. As much as I hate to admit the first one. These are in no particular order
1) I can either be HAPPY or Right.
2) Jealousy is never attractive
3) I need to be myself and the sooner I can feel comfortable being myself the better off I am
4) I have one side of my brain that makes ship up and the other side buys it. I have to be honest with myself and live in reality.
5) Everyone needs space. It's not healthy for me to become EMESHED with someone, I have to keep my own friends and spend time with them as well as alone time.
6) A Healthy realtionship should be based on Honesty, Good Communication, Sharing and Giving and open and loving SEX and totally without expect
for some reason my answer to this is not showing, so, it must not be meant to be, dang and i love to share, i too like you, want that relationship, exactly how i described it to Virgo last year or before. I understand and seek much of the same, I believe i can have it w/another, i stand for that, and it is what i will give as well!
Libra and I are still talking, man, I am so mad at myself, so mad. He keeps doing things that are attempts to "disempower" me, within my own desires and borders, my own rules, morals, beliefs, what works for me, why?
Libra and I are still talking, man, I am so mad at myself, so mad. He keeps doing things that are attempts to "disempower" me, within my own desires and borders, my own rules, morals, beliefs, what works for me, why?
Just an update: This relationship was Short and Sweet. Lasted 2 weeks.
It was hot for a 2 weeks and now has grown cold. I am dealing with the loss of what I thought it could have been.
But will not/cannot live with Drama. I don't understand how people can have drama in their life. I love peace and serenity way too much.
It is what it is, and it ain't what it ain't.
It was hot for a 2 weeks and now has grown cold. I am dealing with the loss of what I thought it could have been.
But will not/cannot live with Drama. I don't understand how people can have drama in their life. I love peace and serenity way too much.
It is what it is, and it ain't what it ain't.
Mmm Gemini girls seem to like drama a lot of time. Libras, definitely not so much LOL Libras like things peaceful and serene, even arguments and disagreements are more like.. quiet discussions. I love that, it's exactly what I needed!
I probably was more dramatastic in my youth, like most women - had to learn the difference between drama and excitement, the difference between peaceful and boring. I've dated my share of "bad boys" and had my share of drama-filled relationships, and as I grew older I found myself yearning for a peaceful, loving relationship. I finally found it with a mature Libra. We both wanted harmony and balance, not screaming arguments and jealous rages and bullshit drama. Being constantly on edge, always on your toes, that becomes draining after awhile.
I suggest you find a mature woman, a peace-loving fellow Libra or Pisces or maybe Aquarius. Though Libras are often attracted to Sags and Gems, those women are usually more uhhh.. vivacious? Yeah, we'll go with that. Youthful Sag and Gem girls aren't into the peaceful relationships, usually - they find them "boring" and "dull" most of the time. Once a Libra man gets older and more mature, he usually finds himself less attracted to girls like that, and more attracted to the quiet, gentle types.
You'll find her, sweetie. She's out there right now, wondering where you are. 😄
I probably was more dramatastic in my youth, like most women - had to learn the difference between drama and excitement, the difference between peaceful and boring. I've dated my share of "bad boys" and had my share of drama-filled relationships, and as I grew older I found myself yearning for a peaceful, loving relationship. I finally found it with a mature Libra. We both wanted harmony and balance, not screaming arguments and jealous rages and bullshit drama. Being constantly on edge, always on your toes, that becomes draining after awhile.
I suggest you find a mature woman, a peace-loving fellow Libra or Pisces or maybe Aquarius. Though Libras are often attracted to Sags and Gems, those women are usually more uhhh.. vivacious? Yeah, we'll go with that. Youthful Sag and Gem girls aren't into the peaceful relationships, usually - they find them "boring" and "dull" most of the time. Once a Libra man gets older and more mature, he usually finds himself less attracted to girls like that, and more attracted to the quiet, gentle types.
You'll find her, sweetie. She's out there right now, wondering where you are. 😄
P.S. This is something I loved SO much that you said - it positively oozes Mature Libra Man!! What a catch you will be for some lucky lady!!
"I have found the following to be true. As much as I hate to admit the first one. These are in no particular order
1) I can either be HAPPY or Right.
2) Jealousy is never attractive
3) I need to be myself and the sooner I can feel comfortable being myself the better off I am
4) I have one side of my brain that makes ship up and the other side buys it. I have to be honest with myself and live in reality.
5) Everyone needs space. It's not healthy for me to become EMESHED with someone, I have to keep my own friends and spend time with them as well as alone time.
6) A Healthy realtionship should be based on Honesty, Good Communication, Sharing and Giving and open and loving SEX and totally without expectations.
7) People Change, feelings change and it is what it is"
If I wasn't so happily taken, I'd snatch you up! *wink*
"I have found the following to be true. As much as I hate to admit the first one. These are in no particular order
1) I can either be HAPPY or Right.
2) Jealousy is never attractive
3) I need to be myself and the sooner I can feel comfortable being myself the better off I am
4) I have one side of my brain that makes ship up and the other side buys it. I have to be honest with myself and live in reality.
5) Everyone needs space. It's not healthy for me to become EMESHED with someone, I have to keep my own friends and spend time with them as well as alone time.
6) A Healthy realtionship should be based on Honesty, Good Communication, Sharing and Giving and open and loving SEX and totally without expectations.
7) People Change, feelings change and it is what it is"
If I wasn't so happily taken, I'd snatch you up! *wink*
Thank you Nefer, And to think I wasn't sure if anyone was paying attention. hehehe...
And thank you for the 2 comments. 1) She's out there sweety. and 2) If I wasn't taken I snatch you up. Put a geniune smile on my face and laughed out load literally.
And thank you for the 2 comments. 1) She's out there sweety. and 2) If I wasn't taken I snatch you up. Put a geniune smile on my face and laughed out load literally.
* I am dealing with the loss of what I thought it could have been.
Blech. I hate that feeling. Hopefully it won't take long. Sometimes the shorter ones seem to take longer cause you have more fantasy than reality to deal with. Ya know? "The saddest part of a broken heart isn't the ending so much as the start."
Well happy healing.
Blech. I hate that feeling. Hopefully it won't take long. Sometimes the shorter ones seem to take longer cause you have more fantasy than reality to deal with. Ya know? "The saddest part of a broken heart isn't the ending so much as the start."
Well happy healing.
The most painful part is passed for me. The hardest thing was losing a PARTNER in CRIME.
That is the biggest thing I miss. I am always looking for someone to jump out of plane with, or spend time with and do fun and exciting things.
It's actually not that easy in ERIE, PA to find people with money and time. But Hell's BELL's I'm going to start FLIRTING again and just start DUCK SHOOTING again... ha ha ha
It's actually a relief. As funny as that sounds, but I was kind of stuck in INTERNET DATING and then I met Steph. She was right in front of me all along among my friends.
I am guessing that she thinks things are status quo, because she likes drama. But either way, I am totally not into drama and am practicing getting over it and moving on because I honestly can't live with DRAMA.
NOTE: I have actually learned more in the past 2 weeks about myself than in the last 2 years.
I actually feel invigorated and refreshed.
That is the biggest thing I miss. I am always looking for someone to jump out of plane with, or spend time with and do fun and exciting things.
It's actually not that easy in ERIE, PA to find people with money and time. But Hell's BELL's I'm going to start FLIRTING again and just start DUCK SHOOTING again... ha ha ha
It's actually a relief. As funny as that sounds, but I was kind of stuck in INTERNET DATING and then I met Steph. She was right in front of me all along among my friends.
I am guessing that she thinks things are status quo, because she likes drama. But either way, I am totally not into drama and am practicing getting over it and moving on because I honestly can't live with DRAMA.
NOTE: I have actually learned more in the past 2 weeks about myself than in the last 2 years.
I actually feel invigorated and refreshed.
Little Sparrow,
I just wanted to say, Sorry you are going through painful feelings.
I can relate, so, I will keep you in mind and prayers...
Topcat
I just wanted to say, Sorry you are going through painful feelings.
I can relate, so, I will keep you in mind and prayers...
Topcat
awww thanks Topcat!
I'm actually fine. Well a little estatic at the moment. Going to the states for the weekend to see my bro and sis-in-law. Haven't seen them in a year and a half. REALLY looking forward to it.
I was just sympathizing cause I hate dating. I seriously think it is one of the worst things we do to each other. lol!
But no. I'm okay.
😄
I'm actually fine. Well a little estatic at the moment. Going to the states for the weekend to see my bro and sis-in-law. Haven't seen them in a year and a half. REALLY looking forward to it.
I was just sympathizing cause I hate dating. I seriously think it is one of the worst things we do to each other. lol!
But no. I'm okay.
😄
Your sweet and laid-back, yet feisty and spontaneous partner in crime is waiting for you, LT!
I'm SUCH an adrenaline junkie! I'm not only not afraid of heights - I LOVE them. (I don't get vertigo - isn't that strange?) I was 10 years old when I climbed about 30 feet up my Aunt's big Oak tree - and jumped - because the neighbor boy dared me to. I landed on my back, and was knocked out for over 20 minutes. I thought my Mom was going to kill me when I said I wanted to do it again!
And my Libra's just like me! He drives in demo derbies/races - I don't drive in them, but saw a "Rollover Contest" a couple weeks ago - man, I would SO do that, gas pedal to the floor getting to the ramp, front tire hit the edge, crank the wheel hard and fast, flip that sucker and see how many times you can make the car roll, like a Tiddlywink! He doesn't think HE would do that, says I'm crazier than even HE is! We drive too fast down dirt roads, we race/jump the quads at night, and the snowmobiles, as fast as we can make them go. We play softball together, we dance in thunderstorms, and dive off cliffs and bridges. We canoe and kayak and jet-ski on the Lake. We play cash poker tournaments, we dance like fools on crowded (or empty) dance floors. We ride the wildest, craziest rides at the Fairs. We go two-trackin' and muddin' and climbing big hills in the Dodge - and that's just the stuff we do that's close to home! We ARE partners in crime - never does one tell the other to grow up or slow down. We bring out the wild and crazy in each other. We're very spontaneous - we'll do anything that pops into our twisted, crazy little minds, especially sexually!
If we could travel more, or spend more money getting our adrenaline fixes, we'd be sky-diving, and climbing mountains, and bungee jumping LOL
But our relationship with each other is very smooth, serene, deeply loving. We rarely argue, and only once did we ever raise our voices to each other. You CAN have both, LT - so don't settle for less. Excitement =/= Drama.
I'm SUCH an adrenaline junkie! I'm not only not afraid of heights - I LOVE them. (I don't get vertigo - isn't that strange?) I was 10 years old when I climbed about 30 feet up my Aunt's big Oak tree - and jumped - because the neighbor boy dared me to. I landed on my back, and was knocked out for over 20 minutes. I thought my Mom was going to kill me when I said I wanted to do it again!
And my Libra's just like me! He drives in demo derbies/races - I don't drive in them, but saw a "Rollover Contest" a couple weeks ago - man, I would SO do that, gas pedal to the floor getting to the ramp, front tire hit the edge, crank the wheel hard and fast, flip that sucker and see how many times you can make the car roll, like a Tiddlywink! He doesn't think HE would do that, says I'm crazier than even HE is! We drive too fast down dirt roads, we race/jump the quads at night, and the snowmobiles, as fast as we can make them go. We play softball together, we dance in thunderstorms, and dive off cliffs and bridges. We canoe and kayak and jet-ski on the Lake. We play cash poker tournaments, we dance like fools on crowded (or empty) dance floors. We ride the wildest, craziest rides at the Fairs. We go two-trackin' and muddin' and climbing big hills in the Dodge - and that's just the stuff we do that's close to home! We ARE partners in crime - never does one tell the other to grow up or slow down. We bring out the wild and crazy in each other. We're very spontaneous - we'll do anything that pops into our twisted, crazy little minds, especially sexually!
If we could travel more, or spend more money getting our adrenaline fixes, we'd be sky-diving, and climbing mountains, and bungee jumping LOL
But our relationship with each other is very smooth, serene, deeply loving. We rarely argue, and only once did we ever raise our voices to each other. You CAN have both, LT - so don't settle for less. Excitement =/= Drama.
Thanks Nefer, I couldn't settle anyway, I would never be content
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Well, we ended up having sex. We have basically been spending almost everyday together since then. We get along really well. It's almost like a typical Libra/Gemini relationship, Perfect 10.
Just for ships and giggles we read her astrology book and had some fun doing so. I never really put any interest into my being a libra. But after reading up in the last 4 days it actually explains alot...
1) Thoughts—?
B) How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?
4) How much wood can a wood chuck, chuck, if a wood chuck could chuck wood?