i'm trying again! Gemini female/Libra male

Sorry about all the "mistakes". This should get through! I've been absolutely captivated by a Libra man and I hardly know him. This has never happened to me before and I find myself constantly thinking of him. He is a sports doctor and he operated on my knee.I've seen him about 6 times. At first, I didn't pay much attention to him even though I experienced a classy kind of erotica coming from him (way he studied me----mmmmm) but now I can't get him out of my mind. We're both air signs (my last husband was a taurus, never do that again) and we're both divorced. My next appt is in 4 months. I'm trying to figure a way I can see him sooner but when I think of me ever getting to the point where we just go get coffee - seems impossible
I've read almost every Libra entry on this site and put to use what I learned. When I saw him the other day, I tried to be subtle yet compliment him, (compared his charm to other doctor). I felt (truly with my eyes closed) he was really looking at me. I think we are very much alike - verbal, passionate, engaging etc.
I am bright but not as brilliant as he is and I worry about thatl I don't know how intellectually snobbish or demanding libras can be, if that's the case, needless to say, the relationship wouldn't work. Hope someone out there has some creative ideas. THANKS!

Go get him, its better to be verbally/communicativley frank about your feelings.

Don't stall - bad idea, just be honest.

Don't worry about his intellectuality - what I've noticed about Libras is that they always come with a steep *glitch* an obstacle that you have to overcome to get through. My latest Libra crush is a moslem Somali girl, she speaks Somali and kind of knows every other Somali in this community, she even wears that thing around her cute nut, its quite intimidating when I listen to her speak her language with other Somalis. Ordinarily the communication/chemistry is great its perfect although I'm interested in intimacy; flirt some but be honest about yourself towards him.

Thanks to everyone who gave me support. I feel in a way, he might not be interested at all in me or it's just the "flirt" in him.
The only thing I can think of is to come in for an appt. and tell him I have some extra tickets to whatever.
That I am going to be there, let's say Sunday at this whatever event, and if he can meet me there, that would be great.
But if he says he's busy, I'll die inside with the reject.l

So what do you think this of this Gemini idea!!!!Thanks everyone.

Yup, don't wait. Librans like to be admired. They like to be told as well.

I think you would be making a mistake in an attempt to pursue him.

why is that gemini girls have some weird attraction towards the name Daisy— 😢

oh yeah, there's another gemini girl on here named Daisy, too. maybe it's the same person>?

not here. one that i know use the nick daisylilgrl. 5 I know use the name Dayana. may be its the letter D. Know around a dozen gem girls with their nick names starting with letter D.

ha ok. it's deardiary i was thinking of.

ok HP....put the detective hat down now LOL

All I can say is its a fine line between letting them pursue you and you pursuing them.....the more you pursue it seems the more they run, the less you do, the more they come running......craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy but kinda cute.

*smiles*

oh i'm not playing detective tonight-too tired.

I seriously wouldn't do this if I were you. You could get him in a lot of trouble. I would chalk it up to a fantasy relationship and let it go.

Hi Little Sparrow, When you say 'I could get him in a lot of trouble" I know you must mean a doctor is not allowed to date a patient.

But if the patient stops seeing him, why can't they date?

It's hard to believe that there are no couples out there that might initially through doctor /patient relationship.

this gemini must find a way. ........despite what many boards say, this gemini is not superficial but has a lot of "soul" sorta speak!

Looking forward to feedback....thanks again everyone

He must be having his profile in some social network websites. track him down online and add him there and see how it goes. 😉

QS, email me. I have a dilemma. 😢

You could coyly flirt with him in double meaning. Next time you see him, you could say something like "So, I need your opinion on something. I have this friend, and she has a total crush on her doctor. She isn't sure if he feels the same way, but would maybe like to go to cofee with him or even a date if he does feel the same way. She is too embarrased to say anything because she is afraid he is not in to her at all and also because she has no idea if he would even be allowed to say, go to coffee with her......Saturday afternoon......If he is available.............What do you think."

It will be obvious to him after the first sentance that you are talking about you and him. Libras really appreciate sly, subtle, and between the lines kind of humor. Technically it also clears up the whole doctor patiend delima because your asking without having to really ask. You will get your answer, and good or bad you will get a rise out of him and 9 times out of 10 even if he can't or doesn't want a date it won't be akward or embarrasing. Libras, actually the males more...probably have the least painful rejection style out there. A libra guy can make a girl walk away smiling after being turned down.

bad idea, people...bad idea.

"bad idea, people...bad idea."

Why? If he isn't interrested it gets aired out in a non confrontational manner and if he is really interrested he can refer her to another physician if seeing a patient will compromise his profession. You have to take into account that her interrest for him is comming out, possibly in an akward way. My idea works.

If you decide to persue him you will need to find another doctor, that is all.

Thanks everyone for your ideas. Keep them coming. It really is a strange situation for me. It wouldn't be so tough if I had met him under different circumstances. I hear two things about the Libra man, which are quite opposite. That, he does the pursuing and does not like to be pursued or he likes a woman that shows interest in him. But the catch is that woman must be subtle, classy and
smart. I really don't know if I, the witty gemini, is thatttttttttttcooooooooooooooool. Help still! Also, do Libra men hide what they are really feeling about a woman. In other words, our pupils must have dilated nonstop, when we looked into each other's eyes.
It was a hypnotic connection. Wow...But, maybe, this Libra, realized he needed to balance his scales, and snapped out of it!

"Wow...But, maybe, this Libra, realized he needed to balance his scales, and snapped out of it!"

If it is obvious he was attracted to you then "snapping out of it" it probably has to do with maintaining a cirtain level of professionalism. We also don't like comming across as openly or uncontrollably attracted. We play it cool. That might be all he is doing. Letting you do the comming to him.

Those darn Libran eyes. Get me every time!

Their smile and touch is what gets me every time.

I have huge pupils. People always think I am more attracted than I am. Tred carefully. I still think this is a bad idea.

" I have huge pupils. People always think I am more attracted than I am. Tred carefully. I still think this is a bad idea."

You brought up a good point. A courteous smile and eye contact gets random people thinking i'm attracted and it is all up hill from there trying to back out of that tactfully.

I am happy that in my experience, I know it takes more than a look and smile. Even a couple stares from a Libra to know they are interested. The flirting is fun though.

Oh yes. The look, the touch, the eyes.

Gee, I hate Librans!!

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Hi everybody, We can all speculate about the"pupils" of our eyes so it really boils down to the "sense" you feel and YOU and only YOU
can interpret that! And hopefully interpret that "objectively! Well, I guess you can say, "the proof will be in the pudding" which means if i decide to make a move, albeit a very creative move, to test his (Libra's) interest, I'll learn a lesson, whether good or bad.

I firmly believe that in some cases, if a woman doesn't show any kind of initiative, then the possible relationship situation is lost forever.
That to me is very sad. So, i'm working on my strategy. Keep the Positive support coming and anything I can further learn about the Lib ra male will be greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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WHAT!!! Libra men are natually charming..this means its just part of they're personality. SO it may be that you are possibly *reading* into the mans body lingo. But if you are interested in him, you may want to ask him out on a date. But of course tell him that rejecting you at his office would be well..unprofessional. SO then hand him your phone number and tell him to think about how hes going to spare your feelings and call you tonight =D HAHA

Just do it..it may work =D

I am a TRUE Libra, and I can honestly say that being yourself is your best bet. Libras will usually know when you're being anything other. You have a little time before you see "Dr. Handsome", so you can totally prep yourself to make an impression during your next visit. Libra males/females are lovers of beauty and love, and have the tendency to be seduced by all things that surrounds it. Set the tone, wear something cute/sexy without making it appear you are trying too hard. Fragrance can also be alluring, make sure your hair smells fresh, and wear a hint of perfume behind your ears and since he will be around your legs...well...you know where to dab it! lol. All in all, Libras also like wit and charm...a smile or flirt here and there but with a hint of mystery. As Libras, we flirt by nature and moreso when we are attracted to someone so it wouldn't be far fetched if you said you sensed he was staring at you. Just be the amazing you that you are, and I would say to make the first move if you can. ...Write something cutesy on his prescription pad, ....something of that sort. ...Good luck!