Male Libra secret girlfriend.

I'm in love with a Libra. We have been friends for years and he has always said that he thinks I'm hot. A few months ago he told me that as we had become closer he has fallen for me. We text all the time and hang out and he tells me he loves spending time with me but I have a feeling he is still with his ex girlfriend, actually, I know he is but he tells me they aren't together and that he wasn't happy. Any ideas on where to go with this, I'm so scared I'm going to get hurt but I really care for him and want to be in a relationship with him. what do you think is going to with the girlfriend. they have been together a good few years.

but i'm the girl on the side not his girlfriend

I am the girl on the side, when he is going home to his girlfriend every night. I know for a fact he has a gf but he says he doesn't. I think in his head they aren't together anymore but he is just to scared to leave her, I think he has the mind set of it's best to have someone than no one at all, I have told him ages ago that I don't trust him and that is why it would never work between us.

one more question if you please...I told him last week that I don't want to sleep with him as im worried that he is going to hurt me. how do I show and tell him that I trust him now, I really don't want to sleep with him until im sure that he wants me.

This is retarded...

If you know all the fatcs uo front, a.k.a. you're his chick on the side, what are you afraid of? Some people might fear findong it out later but you already know. You either accept it and move forward or you tell him he's a lying pig and you're done. What's the confusion?

This libra is clearly already made his choice who he wants to be with otherwise he would have left the girl already

He is using the feel sorry for me card to get you close to him, I would never trust a man that still lives with another woman

Libra style have his cake and eat it to

If you want the guy tell him to make a choice me or the girlfriend, if not stay his firmed then with no sex, the sex will make it weird between the 2 of you

Then you will be the one with your heart broken