My arie & i fall apart...

Got her a engagement ring 2 months ago and planning to propose to her on christmas... but what we had fall apart ... she want time apart and decide to move back to her parent in california... That's what you want i respect that, so i took off also to Tokyo Japan to be alone for awhile yet i miss her like crazy and i don't know what the hell to do anymore... it's been 3 weeks already and we still havent speak a word to each other... i want to give her a call but something tell me to give her more time... i'm a lost libra.

We been together for 2 years & she a year younger than me 27(me) 26(her), communication is there just that her trust issue toward me is bad after my business trip to california which i post up few months ago... Some dxp members know... i feel like she hold that against me and mention about it often and i hated it when she keep repeating it so we end up agrueing ....everytime we agrue i just leave the house , afterwhile she decide we should split up for awhile to think things through... sorry i should of giving more detail of what going on... here my post from few months ago https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/ashame-2125428/

This songs describe my relationship well...

Posted by amethyst2002
^ FYI he had an issue awhile back because he did something like kiss another girl or whatever.

You must be an arie cause you sound just like my gf... i didn't kiss her.

Hi Diddylibra,

So sorry to hear about what's happened 😢

From what youve posted I know you love your girl with all your heart. Its been three weeks and I know you dont want to pressure her and give her some space. Maybe attempt giving her a call and let her know you love and miss her. Dont know a woman that wouldnt want to hear that. Tell her how much you want to make it work with her. You dont have to mention anything about the engagement ring....just take it slow and let her know that your thinking of her and only her....

Just some words of advice from a Leo but you do what your conscience tells you Diddy and I hope all works out for you.
Best of luck!

Omg the man was just flirting! He came clean when he probably should have stfu but now of course she has trust issues! Diddy, the walking away doesn't help but I totally understand why you do it... But that is for yourself... She obviously needs to re- hash over this incident as it's nit resolved in her mind and you need to stick it out for her now!! See why you should have kept this one under your hat??

Not sure though if this is the reason she has made this decision though, can you answer some if libraluv's questions?

It's definitely a libra thing walking away from conflict but it's a selfish thing because we can't handle the staying! I've sat through an ex crying but I had to and the way I coped was to zone out completely!!

Sometimes you got to do what you got to do Amy just to find peace!

Posted by amethyst2002
Is it really peace if you've walked away from an unresolved issue that's going to hang over both your heads? How can you have peace if the air isn't truly cleared between you two?

I walk away from uneccessary confrontation, but when it comes down to serious stuff I will argue it out till the end. Infact I am usually the one following the other person around the house(or locking them in the house haha) until everything has been argued out. I hate unresolved conflict.

But if the conversation is just going round in circles I will walk away or if the other person isnt listening to what I am saying. If what I am saying isnt going in I might aswell talk to a brickwall so I will walk away and find a wall to talk to 🙂

@diddy not really got anything helpful to say really except theres no harm in one phonecall, couldnt really make the situation any worse so it's worth giving it a go. I'm sure she will let you know if she isnt ready to talk yet and you never know she might actually be waiting for you to call.

Maybe you could try writing her a letter? I tend to do that these days as people always misinterpret the things I say but in a letter you can clearly explain everything to her and let her know exactly how you feel, without interuption or shouting. Good luck!

I remember your post from your trip, and I wondered how much longer it would last. From my experience with my Aries, it's a done deal, your future business trips will always be a "hoetrip", she won't let it go.

Your little Arie will use this lil incident as an excuse to tie you up to do whatever she likes.. and make you feel ashame of every little thing, boiling down to who you are..

I mean, Libras are masochistic; and their tolerance level is so high.

More power to you, if you say your GF sounds like amethyst, you must be a saint, man..

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
My aries moon,cappy sun girlfriend is the same when it comes to arguments, she'd lose huge respect for me if I were someone who walked away from arguments, you may not realize it..but walking away is even more insulting/painful than yelling at each other, at least by staying you can give yourself and each other the chance to cool off and talks things through (THERE is when you need to use your Libra-ness..when the aries and you come back to your senses, then you can do the LIBRA talk succesfully and since Aries temper is short-lived..even better)

Poor shakala boomdoom, your GF tries to make you feel small when you don't do whatever she likes and you come here to say Libra should do as Arie pleases? It just shows you love to be dommed against and nothing more.

Different types of men.. those who like being whipped will choose Mars as their woman.

Amethyst can read my posts, she's just pretending - AKA feigning innocence. I don't respect that especially since she revealed on another post she could read them too.


I blocked Amethyst first, FWIW, but DXP is not infallible, you can still read the posts of people you blocked when you feel like reading some ugliness.

Would you like me to block you, too, Shaks? I have LG89, BM2 and A2002 on my block list. Just wish they'd disappear for good, or get roasted like the sheep they are.

By the way, Shaka_ladomboom, I wish all the Aries on you this Christmas. 🙂

I do like some Aries women, can figure out how evolved their spirit is, but 80% of the time you have the rotten eggs and peeps can't tell the difference.

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
But merry xmas to you too anyway 🙂 and a very Aries-free 2011 LOL (I say it before you block me 😛)

Thanks for the well wishes arie lover. I may or may not block you, but read you posts I still can 🙂
And wishing you plenty blessings with your Cap, have many many more Aries babes. Oops I meant babies 😉

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
I cant wait to find out whether you block me or not, in fact thats all Im gonna be thinking about today 😉

An Aries daughter would be awesome btw! 🙂

Sad to say there's no real way of finding out on the boards.. Wait, there's a way but it's a bit of a secret to keep 😉

Yeah my crystal ball I took from the pavement says you're going to have 5 Aries babies. 4 Girls and one boy. You'r going to have your hands full, Earthboy..

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Dont worry, if thats the case I'll get myself a Libra nanny 😛 or two lol since they can handle Arians so well (wishful thinking hahah)

Gotta get back to my books, laters girls and play nicely please 😄

Do I see a Virgo runner? Run Shaks, you're almost there!!

Hahahaha Libra nanny.. (looks for a paper bag)


Virgs handle Rams way better. Libs want peace, and to put an Arie in our midst, peace will never prevail, so you're cruel to have a Libra nanny, Shaks, unless you pay her 60K per year for all that trouble.

Oh and good luck with the books. You seem distracted by the net alot..


😉

"I think she threatened the same thing with me, but never did it."

For sure I did it, want a printscreen JPG?
I just "love" how you still pretend you can't read my posts because you could read it on another thread.. damn fakezoid. I don't regret blocking you because I dont sense any genuinity coming from your side..

And for Bluemoon2, who accused me of not blocking her, this is little "proof" for you.

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
I think sweethearts just walked away Libra- style 😛

Had to run....

And in my defense... When all is said and done and the other person is not hearing anything you have to say anymore.. What do you do—? I zone out.... So shoot me yo!!

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Everytime you argue with her you leave the house? excuse me but no wonder things have deteriorated between you two, communication is probably the single most important thing in a relationship, whats the point of being with someone you cant talk things through with?

Really that is so true. I think what you both need to do is talk about your emotions and feelings toward each other. Since I'm sure whatever huge fight you got in scared both of you alot. You both need to feel safe again.

Because, I like the world to know amethyst2002 and bluemoon2 are similar, disgusting, lying freaks.

You know what? Aries are very lucky their opposing sign is Libra. Libras are unlucky they have Aries as opposing signs. I can only pray that less Libras get caught up with Aries because I know who they are and I won't pretend to say otherwise.

And bluemoon, I felt the need to post it only because of your violent, vindictive post on it being a lie that I blocked you.

You can lie to the world about your identity, but you know who you are..

Aries lowlifes should follow this dictum by Democritus: "Happiness does not reside in strength or money; it lies in rightness and many sidedness.. I would rather discover one true cause than gain the Kingdom of Persia"

Aries goes about things the opposite.. they take things by force, in the most unscrupulous ways.. they rejoice if their lies go undetected because it means they are one step closer to winning. But what do they gain in the end? Definitely not love nor respect except from the gallowglasses - their likeness.

Posted by DetailsPlease
LOL, awww Bluemoon and amethyst are blocked.

Are you Invigorate_Me?

You seem like her, but I guess not. She's pretty much the only Aries I adored here. Too bad she's gone.






Damn Shaka, hope your mantra for me comes true. Aries free 2011... If there's any Aries I'll just send them your way, Boomdeboom!

Posted by Diddylibra
i want to give her a call but something tell me to give her more time... i'm a lost libra.

That something is your intuition. You're having doubts.. You want to give yourself more time, not her.

From your picture, I see her energy just jumps out and s totally incompatible to yours. She will move forward. And you'll find someone else who fits you way better.

Posted by sozen
Aries is no match for Libra . Libra is just too strong and cunning for the simple and naive Aries . As the sign of Justice it will almost always destroy Aries , thought not in a loud and brash way .

People underestimate Libra way too much .

Not trying to offend any Aries , but its just been my experience . I am a Leo BTW.

Devil's advocate, much?

If you say Libras are stronger then I hope you're right. Remember Libra's not a fighter. Perhaps they're the magistrate who'd sentence Aries to death for unlawful killing.

Intellect is more powerful than brute force. But Libra must uncover all Aries' lies.


Leos are clueless 🙂

I want nothing more to do with bluemoon2.. I hope she goes to haunt other boards where she can fool them about her real identity.

Bluemoon, you're a real disease to life.

At least Sozen knows how disgusting an Aries woman can be.



Actually, bluemoon, I'm here to bait you to show your true ugliness, can't you see that? I have seen it and I'm sure Libras have too. I just like to expose Aries as much as possible. Because You're the EPITOME of the Aries I am speaking of.

I cant be bothered to read what that santa ram typed. I hope she implodes with that bluemoon lowlife.

Goodbye, I realised a bit too late you weren't worth a second of my time, Blue. Count yourself lucky I wasted my productive time on useless endeavours and people. That's punishment enough.

And I'm not gonna see any more of those posts. All I need is to log out, fwiw, an Aries taught me that. Hope bluemoon and that silly ram with a hat go on a merry cruise together.

Posted by amethyst2002
It could be trust issues, or it could be her tired of him walking away from arguments. I mean, if it were me, that's how I'd be in that situation. He came clean, so whatever. As long as he didn't show any weird, suspicious behavior, fine. But anytime a conflict came up and he fricken leaves the house? What a pussy.

But it's hard to say because he hasn't left very many specifics, like WHAT these arguments were about. :/

Many questions yet i would like to answer you first , we agrue over things like money issue (i don't even think nothing wrong with my income) trust issue like all the other relationship out in the world and why i walk away really your an arie you should know you guys always have to take the win just to shut up & sometime you continue to make it worse so what us libra do? what else we can do but walk away from the drama... no matter how many time i apologize even though i know i'm not wrong we always end up agruing over things like that again. It all started after that business trip in califorinia , back then we don't even agrue much.

wtf is all this posting? becoming a mini e-drama? anyway i call her & we talk for a good 4 hours 🙂 so i ask her if it's okay i catch a flight from Tokyo to California to spend time with her on christmas, she cool with that so we gonna take our time to see if this gonna work out 😄 pack my luggage and fly out tomorrow morning, thank everyone for helping.

Posted by Diddylibra
wtf is all this posting? becoming a mini e-drama? anyway i call her & we talk for a good 4 hours 🙂 so i ask her if it's okay i catch a flight from Tokyo to California to spend time with her on christmas, she cool with that so we gonna take our time to see if this gonna work out 😄 pack my luggage and fly out tomorrow morning, thank everyone for helping.

She's lucky to have you, and not the other way around..
I'm pretty sure its a trap to get you to do whatever she wants, but you're already in it.. you havent got a choice..!

Posted by oldskoolflavor
as long as a fellow is happy,
the bigger picture don't really matter.

that's how it goes.

"..If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad.."
Sheryl Crow

😄 no drama please i had enough thank you lol it's all love for her here , she always been there for me thru good and bad time like no other girls had done for me... ima do my best to patch things up.

& Merry Christmas to everyone here! gotta catch my flight back to America 🙂 enjoy and be safe lol

Anyone who marries lovelygirl89 is seriously cursed. Yeche..
it must be that aries and gemini combo.. wicked witches of the west..

UglyGirl reminds me of that evil Aries/Gemini psychopath
If I ever go to forensics, I can identify this energy easily. DXP has taught me loads!

Good Luck Diddy!!! I think your Aries is set, they usually don't go back once the trust is broken. What kind of job do you have where you can just fly away and come back— Are they hiring?? Be careful, protect your heart at all cost, tread the water lightly. I think you're making a mistake returning to her. I don't hate Aries, but they just can't move on, and the ones that have money problems or money is an issue, it's usually like that for them for a long time. I wish you happiest.

Everything is okay so far , we talk things out if it don't work we just be friends as of now we both still have strong feeling for each other...I'm a dental technician i run my own lab when its slow (November-December) i can take off whenever i feel like it.

i'm not a libra type that give up on someone that easy i will fight for our relationship as long as she don't give up on me like all my ex's gf.

Once you lose the trust of an Aries, you'll never get it back ... yes you can make mistakes and we'll forgive you, but when it comes to trust, when it's gone it's gone ... she might get back with you, but she'll never trust you again ...

That's why I stick around Capi's ... trust and honesty before love ...

ohhh aries gal running bak home is a regular story. all u need to wait is 2-3 hours to make that phone call. DONT EVER DELAY IT. They can get pretty pissed in no time and can cool down in same speed. and dont forget to remember all the nasty dialogues they made when they were pissed and tease them back after they cool down.

my aries wife did ran back home couple of times during our starting months and i made the call in 2-3 hrs and she was back. tats abt it. i still tease her for all those dramas. lol!

and @lovelygirl89, spica has been here for ages and been one of the respectable posters in libra forum contributing genuine help to those in need. so why dont u get out of here and go where you belong?

Posted by thelibran
and @lovelygirl89, spica has been here for ages and been one of the respectable posters in libra forum contributing genuine help to those in need. so why dont u get out of here and go where you belong?

Thanks for stickin' up for me!


Well Aries will always trespass territories to conquer through lowdown means. I don't mind her one bit. I've had people like that all my life, and they're all Aries. I've gotten rid of them all, only the internet you just have to see them.. That 89 person is worth nobody's time at all.. don't worry about it.

Take this fighting crap to it's own thread, we'll all jump in there and mock each other.

Posted by Diddylibra
i'm not a libra type that give up on someone that easy i will fight for our relationship as long as she don't give up on me like all my ex's gf.

It's good that you are willing to fight for your relationship. Just make sure what you are fighting for really still exists.

Good luck to you.

ahhh well lovelygirl89, your idea of logic is not libras idea of logic. So lets not go in there. If you are an aries, you need to understand that aries is kinda bad with the concept of logic to begin with. For aries, logic begins and ends with "I" or "Me". Its totally opposite for a libra. Aries gal and libra female will always have some form of friction in terms of understanding each other. its purely nature and that means your idea that spica picks on other aries gal is only yours and other aries gals way of seeing it. not reality. In reality may be she was picking on you gals. May be she was trying her best to explain LOGIC into an ARIES brain. its painful to make an aries understand a thing or two about being fair and logic. I live with one. So dont question this wisdom.

Now this is a libra board where libras provide some kind of so called help to whoever is in trouble. it looks totally silly in my eyes when a non libra sign takes the pain to come to this side and then start arguing with libras here trying to prove them wrong. Its just plain stupid to even think that you can possibly comprehend what we were talking about in the first place. When we are in our own world, we talk in our own ways which only a gemini or aqua can make sense of. rest others will see it in ways which cannot be even justified. You cant get our words right in its right intended meaning. So dont bother arguing. Ask question to see if you got it right before you even proceed to the part where your brain try to convince itself that he or she is talking sh!t and not being fair.

Posted by spica

Posted by thelibran
and @lovelygirl89, spica has been here for ages and been one of the respectable posters in libra forum contributing genuine help to those in need. so why dont u get out of here and go where you belong?

Thanks for stickin' up for me!

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The best way to argue with an aries is not to argue with an Aries. 😄

Posted by thelibran

Posted by spica

Posted by thelibran
and @lovelygirl89, spica has been here for ages and been one of the respectable posters in libra forum contributing genuine help to those in need. so why dont u get out of here and go where you belong?

Thanks for stickin' up for me!

The best way to argue with an aries is not to argue with an Aries. 😄

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Yeah well, they think they can use dirty, ugly words to make us submit to their tyranny.. I mean, who uses that tactic, only Aries women.. they just don't know how ugly they are.. and to Libra, ugliness, especially in speech, is a sin. Sorry Aries.. curse as much as you like, it only makes you look bad.

Take your negativity with you and wrap up 2010. I won't bother you again, 89, so don't bother me, stay at your home (Aries board), else you're like that homeless person who follows people around begging for alms. Happy 2011, and may you find the Libra man of your dreams. But first, get rid of your foul mouth, then you'll succeed. Cheers!