My libra friend

Brown eyed girl it seems to me that was his polite way of letting you know he wasn't interested in you more than a possible friend (Libras love having friends), they don't like to be pushed, so seems he felt you pushed and pushed too far so he politely ended all ties...

browneyedgirl, from your post, it sounds like to me he's not really that nice of a guy---'could be wrong, but maybe you can will us in why you'd want to pursue this dude?

browneyedgirl according to what he told you. If you read between the lines, it seems he thought you were being pushy... Although you gave other friends a v-day balloon, gifts, he said to him friends are contacted when he wants etc... Selfish. When a libra really likes you selfishness is rarely exposed. He was nicely telling you. He isn't interested in you as a mate and you were being extremely persistant in wanting more than a friendship. Try rereading your initial post and tell me if you agree or not.

Browneyedgirl. Let it go.

BEG,

I totally agree with QS. I was told this by a guy in my younger days. he told me he wanted to call all the shots. Everything had to fit to his schedule. Well, he lost me then. This guy is not worth the trouble, headache or heartache.

You ladies are right on! (And I'm a GUY telling you this!).

Browneyedgirl... Your life is yours, you should never change that for any man or anyone else. Libras are not normally this unkind knowingly or as selfish as this. He is trying to tell you in a nice way that you are sweating him and he is tired of it....

Let it go. He also told you to email him when you changed? WTF!!! And you are still wondering if he has any interest? If he did the persistance killed it.

* if when a libra feels that they may have treated you unfairly, or taken advantage, does just the sight of you bring those feelings back to them?

Oh ... he doesn't feel like he treated you unkindly at all. He feels like you were smothering him, not taking no for an answer, and he did what he needed to do.

He isn't interested in friendship or other with you.

* Libras are not normally this unkind knowingly or as selfish as this.

We are when we are pushed into a corner.

* He also told you to email him when you changed?

I read it as if anything changed with her ... i.e. changes job, moves to Alaska, is getting married to a great guy, etc.

I know it hurts but this guy doesn't want a friendship with you. You'll be okay. There are lots of people that do want your attention and friendship. Focus on them.

Hi BEG 🙂 My opinion is that this guy is not worth the effort, period! His behaviour shouts 'loser' from miles away. Unless you acted like a total stalker/psycho, and assuming that you were friends up to the point when he said what he said, I cannot justify his behaviour as that of a friend. A friend by definition cares about what he says to you and about how you feel. Even if you were a bit too pushy for him, humans have something called 'The Mouth', which they can employ to convey information. This guy is obviously confusing his mouth with his bumhole.

Verdict: He either thinks he is the 15th Dalai Lama and should only be contacted through royal courier (i.e. arrogant/selfish/thinks we all should be like him) or he has a really funny/ineffective way of communicating his feelings. Take his advice and drop him like the sack of c**p he is 😉

Disclaimer: I could of course be totally wrong, and he may be the next Dalai Lama. Oh please God forgive this sinner fool hehe

He felt pushed, they don't like that. They are generally nice and polite people until someone doesn't get the message.

Define strength Atom.

I don't see anger as strong. Anger comes from fear.

Compassion is strength.

(I feel soooo Buddist! lol!)

ummm ignore that post. Wrong thread. lol!

BEG, that is exactly what you should do. Walk away and not turn back. He probably won't contact you, but make sure you don't contact him again. Move on. You will find someone who can give you what you deserve.

He just isn't the one nor does he want to be.

LS, I won't get in an argument with you. Strength is putting up with his BS for so long about his ex. Anger as a whole does seem to come from WEAKNESS. She has a STRONG personality--not passive or insipid. And even in her feedback she is strong---not putting up with too much "stuff." ARGUING certainly doesn't show strength too much---on either side. My opinions.

Atom

I am not arguing with anyone over anything. lol! I am more discussing, throwing out thoughts, trying to provoke thoughts.

Atom and LS, I think you are on the wrong post. LOL!!! Should be DD's.

I agree. That was why I posted to ignore this. He just answered here ... so I answered here. I imagine he will respond here, then I will ... and then the wheels on the buss go round and round. lol!