need advice about a Libra woman (Page 3)

your input is much appreciated...believe me...to all of you

no comes with this

hey look, you're using 'if and when' --- very soon it'll all be 'whens' no 'ifs' we hope

see...progress....il take it

OH THANK GOD. I got on here this morning praying I would find that you wrote the damn email. 🙂 I did, really, I came straight to this thread.


Now here's a thought...next you call her.

:O

how long before i call her? Because i want to give her time to email me back....If she dont email back...and i wind up calling her...do i ask her if she got my email—

Lol.........I don't know if I want to smack you or squeeze you.


Call her next weekend and see what she's doing/if she wants to hangout.
Don't ask about the email. You'll know if she got it. You don't want it to seem like you made the video for her or she'll be creeped out considering you two don't even talk.

First step: talk to her.
Second step: hang out.
Third step: get married. 😄

I'm rooting for you.

LOL Briana - SQUEEZE definitely!
God sure hope they get married too ! 😕 erm, so you had better not mess up young man!

Anyways, yea it's not a good idea to mention the email as might make it overly special. If she replies or not, doesn't matter much for now 😛

Better to call her whenever, keep the communication constant

ok...now...i will call her on tuesday, but If she doesnt answer, do i leave VM....and if so...what do i say? I always tense up during VM's cause im a pretty silly person, and sometimes people dont get my humor...idk...see, there i go again with the idk's. But listen you two, im going to call her on tuesday, what about the vm

Hmmm. I would say leave a vm if she doesn't answer. Just make it really informal since you two don't talk. Just say something along the lines of "just calling to see what you've been up to, call me back when you get a chance."

yea that sounds good...you know, not for nothing...but its sunday, im assuming she checked her email today, especially since its sunday, you know? And i have not got an email back from her yet. I know i only sent it yesterday, but still...she had to of checked her mail once today. Not a good sign. If tuesday comes and i still didnt hear from her, doesnt that tell me my answer right there. why would i call her when i pretty much got my answer, u know?

F that...i spoke too soon...guess what? She did read it and she responded. I just checked my mail again (you know, the OCD) and she replied. Heres what she said:

"I liked it. You did a great job. You look nice in your outfit."

Ok you two, we have work to do. What does this mean? What do i do? 🙂

Awww, you seem sweet ^_^.

You already have plenty of help so I will not intrude -- seeing as I am really late.

no no..intrude...the more the merrier

Well, if she is saying you look nice in you outfit ... and that you did a great job with whatever you were doing ... then I say this sets the tone for better things 🙂

Did you call her yet?

no, i havent done anything except read the email 35 times over and over.

I checked my mail at 9:00 clock pm and there was nothing...checked it again at 9:30 and thats when i saw her email. I dont know what im going to do, or when im going to do it.

I checked my mail at 9:00 clock pm and there was nothing...checked it again at 9:30 and thats when i saw her email. I dont know what im going to do, or when im going to do it.

Well, if you are worried about what to say, then call her tomorrow, you have time to think about what you were say to her. Just make sure it doesn't sound too rehearsed 😉 You seem to want to go out with her but you don't want to sound to eager or else you may scare her away and you don't want to do that 🙂

yeah wait til mid morning at least and give her a quick casual call and just ask her how her Xmas was, etc, keep it casual and then when all is going well (which it will), ask her what her schedule is like over the next (whatever time you have) and go from there....sheesh, you have her attention now....grab it 🙂

No more freaking what ifs ok—??

but its like...she emailed me tonight (sunday night)...then BAM monday im calling her...you see? IDK if that looks to good. I was thinking of maybe emailing her back tommorrow and calling her on wednesday. thats my plan. I dont know if i want to call her tommorrow because i think its too soon since she just emailed me. but again...IDK

Just tell her the truth, say I really like you and I'm wondering if we can hang out!

Food for thought, Libra women like aggressive men that take charge!

CALL HER. This week. Who cares what day. Stop over-thinking it; don't plan it out or you will sound awkward. You obviously had some kind of connection before, or you wouldn't feel the way you do now - you wouldn't miss her. So just talk to her like you talked to her when you had the class together. Nothing should change just because you realized you liked her alot. Don't be awkward. She'll appreciate how silly you get over her much later - probably not so much right now.

Cool. Calm. Collected. Confident.

Okay?

Ok you two, we have work to do. What does this mean? What do i do?
SORRY SORRY SORRY ! Stupid time zone difference - damn it!
It may mean anything but you need to find out now by keeping the communication constant...

Now so you've read it like 100 times now eh, call her like briana says ! don't make appointments in advance in your mind - you'll freak out 🙂
if you get nervous about calling, then respond to the email, asking casual questions...like 'do you have any videos on youtube yourself?', 'do you play any musical instruments?', etc...

From my view, I would make her a friend then find out where she's at with love life...if you make your intentions immediately obvious and she says no, then you may not even have the friendship, right? but UCME has a point too - idk 🙂

Dude, theres nothing wrong with calling her. The more you wait, the more you will miss opportunites 😉

i defenetly want to go with the friends thing...alright...i will call her...but when? Should I email her first today? I was thinking email her back today...call her on wednesday. Or cut out the email all together, and just call on wednesday. Now i have a lot of topics to talk abotu with her on the phone, "hows the new job", "how was xmas" "whats ur plans for New Years" etc etc...but do i just keep it casual conversation and end it like that, or do i ask her what her plans are for the weekend and see if she would like to do something?

i will call her...but when? Should I email her first today? I was thinking email her back today...call her on wednesday. Or cut out the email all together, and just call on wednesday.

DON'T MAKE US COME DOWN THERE!

Why are you picking days? what's wrong with contacting right now?

come down.....i live in North Jersey...5 min from GW bridge or Lincoln Tunnell 🙂

phsss - anything not to make a phone call 😛

(I swear I'm going to strangle him.)


Again...stop thinking about it. Just call her. If it's not natural it's not worth it.

no he's idealised her to the point he wants it too much and gets stage fright...

happened to me before with a LIBRA guy !!! sheesh - my hands used to get sweaty and I used to panic --- had flee that scene...was too unreal 😕 mmm... in hindsight was my first major crush - if I saw him now, probably won't bat an eyelid - LOL...

Denny needs to not let it get to that stage 😛

You are driving yourself crazy over this Denny.

She did e-mail you back and it seemed to be positive feedback right?

Pick up the phone and call her. Talk to her about her holidays. Let her talk too. That should help you with what to talk about next. Us Libras females aren't too shy about talking.

Do it...... Let it happen naturally. You will figure out what to do next.

driving himself crazy— LOL My head is spinning!!

ok...i will not email her...but I will call her...and i will have some topics in the back of my mind to talk about...but I will let the convo flow...and im going to try to be the one to end the convo..because the last few times we talked, she ended it...so i will end it this time. 🙂 sound good?

tommorow i will call...

dude ! I am shocked ! there was only ONE question mark in that last post...
you've come a long way grasshopper 😛

haha...you see..im making progress. So i will call her tommorrow..hopefully.

Oh, here is another video:


Should i send this to her also or no?

I love that song Denny!

when you call her, ask her if she wants to see another vid --- if she likes dave matthews even 😉

oh don't worry, we'll remind you to call her, you'll see 😛

ok good video but again, the room just doesn't go with your cuteness, really...
I mean if I was anywhere near NJ, I would stalk you and make you forget this libra chick, but your room will make me flee like so

hahah...ok...but my room is a part of who I am...so there is no way Im going to start taking things down and changing stuff because im afraid a girl may not like it...you get me...my room is a part of me. So if a woman, such as this girl, is going to like me...well shes gonna have to accept it.

It just takes a little getting used too. When your actually in it, its not that bad.

Briana: Im glad you like it. Its a nice song. Should I send it to her?

I did ask her the first time we talked on the phone a while ago if she liked Dave Matthews, and she said she really didnt know who he was. So I let it go. So wahts my next move?

I know im going to call her...hopefully tommorrow...but do i email her back tonight? Do i email her the video? Or do i call her and ask her if she wants to see another one...(thats kind of putting her on the spot, i doubt shell say no". Im thinking about emailign her because she did pay me some compliments and i want to thank her for them...IDK...im probably over analyzing it.

ok...I kind of want to email her...and then call her on wednesday...or not email her and call her on tuesday. And i want to send her the video also. Thats waht i want to do. I need to hang out with her to work my charm...thats why as God as my witness...just give me 1 little date...or one hangout session...then i can be me...and work my charm and she can get to know who I am...its just getting that "one" chance is hard. Thats why im on here...you are women...so put yourselves in her shoes. What would I have to do to make you want to come out once with me. Is dinner not the right choice for a first "date"? I think its nice cause we can talk...what does a poor italian libra have to do? Give my kidney? Il make an appointment w/ the surgeon...just tell me!

LOLOLOL!!! my sides are splitting here !

I keep telling you, it's about keeping the communication constant - no mater how liberated a woman is, they like a guy to show he's the MAN !
If the communication's not constant, women fill in the blank spaces - a Libra, Aries, Leo, Sag or Aqua woman will probably not be contacting you back - they're masculine signs so will be logical about it - you need to engage their romantic feminine side !
You can't do it by second guessing yourself, they'll move on --- they got loads of pride.

If you wanna call, call, make her think about you as much as you're thinking about her. don't wait for the date...work it on the phone, email, any opening you have...

nothing worst than finding out she met a guy while you were analyzing --- trust me Libra women have loads of admirers

*passes out*

alright I think im going to email her back tonight with the other video...what do you say?

where are you guys? Im on the verge of sending an email....come on 🙂

im about to send this...where are my women at?

ok heres what I sent:

hey, I'm glad you liked it....here is a link to another song...its short, only 2 minutes..you can tell me if it sucks or not

yo....she emailed me back already...i sent her an email at like 11pm...i just checked my mail before i shut the comp off...she emailed me this back at 1am:

GOOD TOO. YOU MUST BE ENJOYING YOUR TIME OFF. Nice you're going into you 3rd semester already, see how fast it goes 🙂

Now first off...why did she write the first part in all caps? also...THIS IS F'N AWESOME. Its so nice to converse with her and not have to wait days before i get a text back. I think that with the videos, shes starting to get a glimpse of me outside of school...i hope she likes. But why the first part in all caps? Is she getting annoyed i sent her the second video? Come on, what woudl u be thinking if you were her? Is she trying to start conversation with me by bringing up school? My head is in a million directions right now...but nevertheless, im going to bed with a little smile on my face. Damn i have it bad for this girl. Alright this is good....now your input.

i want to ask her if she likes any songs that I may know...then i want to learn how to play it for her...il practice it 13 hours a day...until my fingers are bleeding...and send it to her as a surprise.

Ok, don't worry - I like your room - it's got character, just messing with ya...

hahahaha - went to bed !

we should give you our home numbers for a conference call so we can debate on your next move 😛

Wouldn't worry about the caps - my Libra friends use that when they want to mock in a loving way...so what ever it is, CAPs signify some kind of raised mood level so it's not detached/neutral - happy days 😉

good idea to ask if there're any songs she likes so you can play it for her...if it's carlos santana or ac/dc stuff or harder guitar stuff, you're screwed ! 😕

ok whatever you do, just keep the communication constant till you find out where she's at with relationship...if she's not discouraging you, then pull out the big charm cannon 😛

Oh and make sure you really like her and not getting high on the chase and how ideal it'll be to be with her...if she switches up to all lovey dovey on you, can you handle that?

Aw. 🙂

I'm trying to put myself in her shoes. I would probably think it was really adorable if you asked me what my favorite song was and told me you were gonna make me a video playing it. & Sags and Libras aren't THAT different...we're still women. I don't even like romantics...but I'd say she'd think that was cute.

Better yet - you could research Columbian songs and do one of those. I know a few Columbians, I could totally find out a well-known/traditional Columbian song. I'll get back to you on that.
She'll propose...I'm telling you.



I think you just need to be persistent.
Back in my single days I would purposely ignore guys that were trying to take me out, just because I wasn't sure if I wanted it to be an official date or not. If we were just hanging out with a group of people I was fine...but one on one I was hestitant.
Only the very persistent ones got to take me out...simply because I got annoyed with them constantly calling and texting and showing up at my house or mysteriously showing up where ever else I went. Eventually I would think, there must be something not worth missing, and it's not like I had anything to lose...if I ended up having a horrible time I just wouldn't go out with him again.

Sooooo, convince her you're not one to miss out on. She'll give in.

PS: Men were built to be conquerors. Do your thing.

yea...im going to email her back...im going to ask her what songs she likes that I may know...but im not going to tell her its because I want to make a video...im just going to do it and send it.

If you can get me some general Columbian songs that she will defenetly know, tell me...il try my hardest to get it down.

I am going to email her back within a couple of hours from now...and MAYBE call her later.

And I do really like her...I mean, we defenetly need to hang out at least once before I know how much I like her...but I wouldnt be putting myself through this if i didnt...and yes, i know that sometimes we get enfactuated in the chase...but I think its beyond that this time.

So far so good though right

Dude, did you purposely leave out the question marks? 😛

hey I've got a Columbian friend - might ask her, I've been avoiding her though...
Columbian chicks're really HOT too 😕

Brazilians are hotter. But Columbians definately come in close second.

There's really just something about latin women in general though......