Need to vent...sorry

My relationship with my virgo/libra (23 Sep) on of almost 8 yrs feels humdrum. I feel like im a different person to when I met him at 22. Im stronger now and struggling with his need to control absolutely everything. No idea when or if i should give up here. Should we even be compatible. Communication issues seem to be constant also.

This is also my problem in the past i never had problems with leaving things that didnt "feel" right anymore. Now I feel like I have this tendency to question if i'm doing the right thing-im less impulsive and i don't like it!
Ive been living in the middle east for the past 10 years and just dont know if I belong here anymore but definately don't want to go back to UK-cold, dark and wet-no way! Again, lacking the guidance..or action to JUST DO IT!

I feel like ive lost my guardian angel or something. I dont like this whole new cautiousness about me...its who my family have always wanted me to be though guess theyre prob happy with it lol. IN A RUT!!! And trying to avoid the Patron to forget about the fact 😕

Have you had any intense dreams lately?

Posted by cherishedlibra
Have you had any intense dreams lately?

YES! Extremely and very visual, I can remember them well when I wake. Some have been fighting with my mother. Others have been end of the world type dreams. Alot of struggling and fighting and I actually wake up feeling it! Still tired and aggravated.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by cherishedlibra
Have you had any intense dreams lately?

YES! Extremely and very visual, I can remember them well when I wake. Some have been fighting with my mother. Others have been end of the world type dreams. Alot of struggling and fighting and I actually wake up feeling it! Still tired and aggravated.

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Write them down. Your spirit is trying to tell you something. Be on the lookout for hidden messages it could come in many different forms. The universe is listening.

Posted by cherishedlibra

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by cherishedlibra
Have you had any intense dreams lately?

YES! Extremely and very visual, I can remember them well when I wake. Some have been fighting with my mother. Others have been end of the world type dreams. Alot of struggling and fighting and I actually wake up feeling it! Still tired and aggravated.

Write them down. Your spirit is trying to tell you something. Be on the lookout for hidden messages it could come in many different forms. The universe is listening.

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Thanks, I guess this is true. Its sure telling me alot but in which aspect of my life im not entirely sure! I guess I should take it one by one and not just jump ship and blow everything off like my younger self would do.

...wait, so who's the Cap you were going on about?

Something else you need to consider is that you were an entirely different person at 22 as he probably was at that time as well. What may have been then isn't now. This is why you see these couples who were together since their early 20s totally fall apart by the end of their 20s. It's not even the same brain at that point.

What happened to the Scorpio?