Perfect life....

This board has been boring lately...

What's the perfect life for you Libras? Re: work, social, financial, living...Where you want to be in your life and if it's a goal for the future or do you live that life as much as you can now?

How satisfied are you with yourself and where you are at or going?

i've been thinking about that a lot lately. i thought i knew what i wanted, but right now i'm not so sure.

like, i really want a boyfriend, but i also really like my independence. i want to move around a lot, but i really like my hometown and apartment and don't want to traumatize my cat with a lot of moving. i like my job, but i feel like i should be learning other skills and preparing to move in another direction with my life. stuff like that.

I'm having a sh*tty time these days. I honestly don't know what I wanna do in life. I also fantasize about the future too much and spend less time in reality trying to fufill them. Also my relationships with people are somewhat going to just friends level. I don't have many great friends around me like I used to and just have them as friends. I don't really have so much faith for the future either making me emotional at times but I think it's just my cappy moon.

Haha at CV, yes I think that's just a Libra thing, happy but not completely satisfied because there is always another side to the coin. I'm like that always so when i am I'm completely at harmony just to leave things the way they are until I'm pulled or motivated enough to want to change them. problem with that is I can be sooo content that I feel lazy because I'm not trying to do more...

@ Lib also a Libra thing I think...just learning to accept who you are and also that it's in your hands to change things. Like the friends thing for instance I fine that you have to make the effort mostly to invite or be inviting to friends as most dont like to impose and therefore wait for invitations. Lately I have been feeling tired so havent been organising get togethers or inviting people to mine preferring to go out on invitation myself. So the great friends are busy with their own lives...think it's just the end of the year thing when there is soooo much to do before Xmas!

I have to say I lost too much hope to be optimistic these days. And I'll admit that not doing anything about it isn't helping at all but what's there to chase after I keep wondering. I feel like I'm going in the wrong direction right now. I was hoping that Saturn in libra would get my act together but I think it's getting worse.

Dont you find that sometimes you just want alone time— I mean we have our whole lives to be chasing after something, whether that be the all mighty dollar or a fulfulling relationship but then there are times where you just dont want to, or have to, put in the effort and you just sit back and relax and let life run it's course for a while, without much effort from you...that's how I feel from time to time anywho.

Dont be down on yourself because you havent got all the answers at once or you havent any drive....I find when it's right you'll bounce again 🙂

Focus on the power of now - Eckhart Tolle fantastic book about being content with NOW not the future or the past.

Posted by sagiluv
Why are you Libras so Indecisive—...are ALL Libras like this—?

we're very decisive.

we just have to decide first. but once we do, we stick to it. it just takes a while to weigh our options. and we've got to make sure it's the right time and circumstances and such.

sagittarians jump into whatever seems interesting and often abandon one project for another. they decide quickly, but they aren't decisive either, because they often don't stick with something.

life is great here but why i alwas think in my head i'm still missing something...Financial got it, Work Love it, Awesome gf and yet im lost.

"we just have to decide first. but once we do, we stick to it. it just takes a while to weigh our options. and we've got to make sure it's the right time and circumstances and such."

Yeah, I have noticed that people close to libra's for a long time don't really see Libras as indecisive but those who are not that close or are for a short period of time do because they just see parts of the decision process....the back and forth. Once we come to a conclusion we stick to it as well or better than many other signs.

Fire signs are often seen as decisive and they are in the aspect of making decisions quickly but they make many more decisions that differ from their original where as libras weigh the options many times before coming to a decision that they tend to stick to. In the big picture I think the latter is a better description of decisiveness because it accounts for the amount of time the decision stands up to.

Libras also make very precise and fast decisions in high stress situations and become overly contemplative about little things that are not that urgent.

Welcome back Nic, thought you'd gone out withthe mass exodus lately!

Libras also make very precise and fast decisions in high stress situations and become overly contemplative about little things that are not that urgent.

i find this especially true.

it's almost creepy what a cool head i can have in really serious situations, then once they're over i go someplace private and freak out.

i wish i didn't think so much about things that don't matter, but i'm pretty sure i just do it because it's something to do so i don't get too bored.