Sagi Woman too grown for Libra Boy games...

Ok so I was single for 7 years before this guy came along...only been in one relationship that lasted 7 years and it took me that long to open my heart again. I meet Libra and for some reason I fell head over heels FAST. Everything was always good when I catered to him...the minute I started noticing disrespect and said something to stand up for myself a fight would ensue and his reaction was always self serving and he always manipulated me into thinking what I did was wrong without him ever taking responsibility for his part in things...now I am 29, independent and have no family...he is 32, dependent on his best friend for everything (they live together, his BF owns a shop he "runs", his friend has no car or license so Libra taxis him all over the place, etc...) and has a great family who adores him...

Recently he and I fought over him always jumping for his best friend who is a needy behind Virgo who is always flirting with me and making snide remarks about me being with or having sex with him RIGHT IN FRONT OF LIBRA'S FACE! I tell Libra I am not comfortable and to make a long story short Libra chooses his friend, the same man who tells him he isnt doing drugs and then tells me not to tell Libra that he really is...And Libra's words: "I am not sure I can be with you if you dont understand I need to be there for a person/family who has been there for me my whole life."

We just had a HUGE falling out to the point where I am not sure that when he decides to come back around (even though he has said he doesnt know if things will work but needs time to think) that I will be there to be his side kick when his "best friend" isnt around (this Libra slept at my house, I bought food, cooked for us, cleaned after us, washed his clothes, etc...he told me he wants a family with me, I met his whole family, I caught him in a few stupid lies and he only does the bare minimum in the relationship - if you can even call it that)...after reading several posts it appears that Libra men like to do the disappearing and reappearing mind game thing...a thing that this sexy Sagi IS NOT HAVING! When he does decide to contact me I plan on ignoring him (IK he will contact me...I have never met a man who didnt try once I moved on...); my question is: is ignoring him the way to get him to see I am NOT the one or should I go about it differently? I would like some advice because I am not the playing games type.

Hmmm you have a point there then...he can come back all he wants but I will NOT be second best to any friend...especially one who lies to my man or makes blatant sexual remarks to me right in front of his face...

Thanks...I have my solution.

Goodbye Libra.