I have been thinking about the Secret Garden song. The secret garden where I won't let you - for me - is having to 'verbalise feelings'. I have realised this on different occasions in my life. You can ask me anything and I will answer truthfully (facts of any sort) but don't make me talk about how I feel. So in the song whereever everything will stay a million miles away - it's just that. The bit where you cannot go - but it's not said outloud, it remains untouched. But all served up with a smile indeed...
But I think that not all libras actually REALISE that they do keep people out.
It's a vulnerability thing, afraid of being ridiculed, afraid of not being loved in return. Even now, when I send out an email I go to the 50/50 line but not beyond. I would love to but am terrified of what I might receive back.
If we let you down gently by making you the one to let go of us because you are getting so tired of not hearing from us or not receiving any clarity, I think we do this for ourselves as well. I let myself down gently by showing a little bit of how I feel but not all, so that you can break my heart a little bit but not completely.
If I said 'I love you' and you did not reciprocate you'd have to respond with 'I don't love you'. If I said 'I like you' you'd have to say 'You don't know me'. If I said 'Want to go for a coffee?' you'd say 'I don't have time'.
I can deduce from the coffee line just as much as from the love line. So it's safer to go with the coffee line.
coffee is safe. but this always went wrong for me with aries girls. When i say coffee, they say dinner. and it keeps going but someday when i say love, they ask me if am nuts. 😢
She'll let you in her house If you come knockin' late at night She'll let you in her mouth If the words you say are right If you pay the price She'll let you deep inside But there's a secret garden she hides
She'll let you in her car To go drivin' round She'll let you into the parts of herself That'll bring you down She'll let you in her heart If you got a hammer and a vise But into her secret garden, don't think twice
You've gone a million miles How far'd you get To that place where you can't remember And you can't forget
She'll lead you down a path There'll be tenderness in the air She'll let you come just far enough So you know she's really there She'll look at you and smile And her eyes will say She's got a secret garden Where everything you want Where everything you need Will always stay A million miles away
I have been thinking about the Secret Garden song. The secret garden where I won't let you - for me - is having to 'verbalise feelings'. I have realised this on different occasions in my life. You can ask me anything and I will answer truthfully (facts of any sort) but don't make me talk about how I feel. So in the song whereever everything will stay a million miles away - it's just that. The bit where you cannot go - but it's not said outloud, it remains untouched. But all served up with a smile indeed...
But I think that not all libras actually REALISE that they do keep people out.
It's a vulnerability thing, afraid of being ridiculed, afraid of not being loved in return. Even now, when I send out an email I go to the 50/50 line but not beyond. I would love to but am terrified of what I might receive back.
If we let you down gently by making you the one to let go of us because you are getting so tired of not hearing from us or not receiving any clarity, I think we do this for ourselves as well. I let myself down gently by showing a little bit of how I feel but not all, so that you can break my heart a little bit but not completely.
Ciao