Do Libra's get controlling after sex??

My ex hubby and I had a great friendship in high school before we started having sex. Then we started dating seriously and having sex and I noticed slowly he started becoming more controlling. After we got married he was jealous and controlling all the time but of course always tried to make light of it... then we divorced and moved into a friendship w/bene's. I had no love for him, but the sex was still good so I figured why not... He would always start getting all crazy after we had sex. If years went by and we did not do anything we were the coolest of people, laugh, joke, hang out, no worries... but as soon as we started that up again... he changed.

I really like/love my new libra friend and I don't want the same thing to happen with him. We are very good friends now but I fear this may be a libran trait. In all the astrological things I have been reading, possessiveness and being controlling is a typical libra thing.. and I notice a lot of times he has to be in control of the relationship... even though we are just friends. He very seldom gives me any control in this and as an aqua we like to have some wiggle room to take control if we need to.. but it is impossible with an ironclad noose around your neck... now mind you when I am in his face, I have all the control, but when I am not, which is most of the time, he yanks it back out of my hand...

Do you all find this to be true in your lives?

I dunno if i was ever controlling after sex. 😢 but i know i was jelous a lot initially since she wasnt seeing me exclusively. 😢 Even now as and when i start getting interested in someone (esp libran and aries girls) i feel that jelousy part coming back. 😢

and abt 2 libras 22nd oct and 25th sep. I personally feel that libra means those born inbtween 23rd sep to 22nd oct theory is not accurate. Also the cusp factor doesnt make much of libran sense. 😉 I guess its more of a gradual process. from 23rd virgo slowly moves out and somewhere disappears and some fine day scorpio slowly appears and becomes at its peak by 23rd Oct. So in that way your 25th libran will be having certain traits of a virgo and 22nd will be sharing some with scorpio.

Well thats my theory since few case studies pointed in that direction. can be wrong though

I haven't found this at all with my LIbran...he's very easy going and gives me space....only recently have I noticed him being a little more interested in knowing where I've been if I've gone out and what time I got home, etc but I think that's just because it looks like he's realised how he feels but he never gets jealous that I've gone out, etc as long as I am honest with him which I have been. I am not sure whether this would be a LIbran trait or not....God I hate not as I only recently (6 months ago) finally got out of the most controlling relationship with a Gemini!! Now THAT was controlling.

The libran....how did you show your jealousy when you felt it? on the inside only or did you show it in no uncertain ways?

Chatz..

I asked my libra about this today and he said he does get jealous, but not to an extreme. He is controlling though, in sneaky ways.. or ways one may not think of as such.. but it is. They can be obsessive too.

Oh dear!!!! Nooooooo I did not want to hear/see that LOL......hmmmm any hints on the "sneaky ways"??

Someone else is going to have to chime in...

I have heard everything from.. looking you up on the internet, to.. I think Thelibran said he followed some girl or something to see when she arrived at the bus stop everyday. He figured out, where she worked, when she worked and something else... he is going to have to let you know about this one... it was many many threads ago... but yeah.. can be down right ugly at times.

hmmm come to think of it mine has started taking his daughter to parks around my area rather than his own (we do live about 10 minutes apart by car so it could be a co-incidence) and he'd never been to these parks before he met me. He does question a few things I do but I wouldn't as yet put it down to being possessive or jealous but he does ask where I went out, when I got home and who was there and I thought it was just cute but when you put it that way, I start worrying especially after the Gemini before that - OMG they were bad times.

Hmmmm I'll keep a look out as to whether he's showing any of these signs

My libra ex hubby was crazy. Uhh, not to scare you but he would get mad if I was 5 minutes late coming home from work... I would just candidly admit to screwing a guy in my car on the short drive home.. he never thought it funny and we always had to argue for hours about why I was late... Now that's crazy.

Or.. the time I just glanced at a guy in the mall and he swore I was sleeping with him...

I have never cheated on anyone in my life, nor have I wanted to.. that is just not an aqua thing.. so we just have to chalk that up to C-R-A-Z-Y!

hhmmm... I have a sneaky suspicion I may get busted here... Something is telling me my Libra is at work right now... Don't ask me why I feel this way.. They say Aqua's have a 6th sense... I don't know... Weird.

Now you are scaring me but reading through some more information it looks like I have missed an important LIbran trait....I will keep my eyes open but I doubt I'll have an issue with being late coz my Libran is ALWAYS late!!! He calls it being fashionably late lol but I don't mind as I am late for almost everything, not just him!! Busy, busy, busy and all.

Your ex hubby sounds like my ex Gemini!!! OMG talk about a mismatch in us.

Thanks for the advice though - it'd be interesting to see any further posts on this subject....there I was thinking he could be perfect - if there is such a thing as a perfect man lol

You two will be fine... I guess any man can be crazy just like any female can also no matter what sign they are.

thelibran.."Even now as and when i start getting interested in someone (esp libran and aries girls) i feel that jealousy part coming back"

I am wondering if it is something these women are doing to make you feel insecure and jealous? Because it is strange how you just picked out two of all the signs, that make you more jealous than the others... What does that mean, the other signs you are compatible with make you feel secure and unchallenged (by other men)?

ohh busstop was during my late teens/weirdo days. That was stupid and silly. But driving factor was curiosity and not much romance.

Jelousy came in with my relationship during early 20's. I was jelous inside and tried hard not to express it. I dunno if i was sucessful in handling my tone and facial expressions and eyes during that time. Libra and Aries girls flirt a lot. and whem am interested in one of them, that kinda kills me watch them flirt and hang around with other guys. i guess i was quite insecure since i knew the real value(as well as the nature) of the ones out there in someone else hand. But with time these jealousy part died away. atleast tats wat i thought until i encounterd another libra girl a month ago. mmmmmm.... its not easy to put it in words....

and u know sometimes it sweet being jelous.. 😉

lol that is so cute!!!

I'm not. I am a big believer in respecting privacy so I don't shuffle through your things or drill you about where you have been.

I hate people who are late though. I think it is disrespectful. 5 minutes wouldn't bother me but 25 minutes and I would be pissed.

This is funny.... My Libra ex would get jealous a often, but never controlling. I knew how to get my way with him. He would go crazy if some guy looked at me or watched me walk pass if we were together. As fine as he is, woman always gazed him up and down, however, it never bothered me, just made me laugh and I told him they can look all they wanted. Just not touching. I find this ironic they would get jealous, since we all know that the Libra male has a wondering eye for the opposite sex in general...

My current Libra friend (now without the bene's) once told me early on in our friendship with bene's that he could be getting jealous, when I went to Vegas for one of my girlfriend's wedding. I was in total shock and really took it as a joke, but now that I think back he asked a lot of questions when I returned.

Funny....

thelibran...
Basically you are going through with your libra friend (new acquaintance) what we girls are going through over you libra men.... torture. Now you see why we are having such a difficult time with you all... Libra's can be incredibly intense, wonderfully witty and very flirtatious. For aqua's this combination is HARDDDD to resist and deadly to our well thought out defense system...

Yup! Now you're in the same boat with us... don't 'cha love it ladies!!😉

hehehehe

Chatz...

You're kinda funny!!

Well you have to giggle coz we're all in the same boat here....as you wrote....it can be "torture"....why should us women get all the FUN? lol

Well you have to giggle coz we're all in the same boat here....as you wrote....it can be "torture"....why should us women get all the FUN? lol

oooop sorry it wasn't quite THAT funny

hahaha.. torture seems a nice word. I am not goin out with anyone right now. This libran girl is from my past. I dunno if I have been such a torture to anyone.

quite interestin anyway.

well ok torture isn't really the right word.....I'll find a new one....hmmmm let me see........oh yeah I know.......masochism!!!!

That's it LOL

Okay, see what on earth are you two doing up at 2 and 3 am?? That is too much for me. I knew you two would be good together, night owls...

lol....well Im in Australia (different time zones) and hey, If thelibran and I wanna chat til the wee hours what does it matter— *giggles*