Libra men and Scorpio women - Doomed for disaster?

As some of you already know. The majority of my partners, relationships, marriage has been with a Libra male. I am single, so obviously they haven't lasted. I swear every time I will never be with another one (don't seem to be good for me or eachother - longterm) I have a couple of great Libra (male) friends (yes without benefits) a brother and a grandfather who are all awesome.
However, it never fails, Libra men always find me wherever I am and I find it so hard to resist them... Hmmm, they are such charmers and maybe though the wishy washiness and aloofness anoys me it might be another thing that keeps me intrigued... Scorpios love challenges and boy one challenge a Libra male can teach you is patience.

OK, Libra men... What's up? Still analyzing. Help me out!!! Should I run when they approach. So darn tempting though!!!

I think u shud run if u hope for a long lasting relationship. There is sure fun with a libran but still i doubt if we are strong enuf to carry the weight of emotional baggage which gets on our shoulder.

I know many scorps around and I have given it a thought if i need to find next scorp. The life in bed thrills me but then i start thinking about the freedom and space i miss with a scorp plus the frustrations i go through when she displays her mysterious nature. I hate secrets but am way curious. and i guess it will be same with other libran guys too. Our interest dies when the mystery is over.

Scorp can get well with pisces or cancer who carry the same wavelength. They appreciate the mysterious nature and loves emotions. May be you should chkout other water signs for a while and see for yourself.

What are your other planets in? Namely Venus and Mars?

I am stealing your thread .... I am a smitten kitten at the moment.

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who are you smitten with, LS?

a boy.

🙂

That's not giving away very much little sparrow!!! come on, fess up!!!

lol!!!

The leo I have a huge crush on called.

thelibran,

I agree. However, I have been with a cancer... Waaaayyyy toooo clingy for my taste and a little whiney. Picses - way too emotional for me... Everything is emotional and dramatic with them... Taurus once, seemed cool (short time) the other couple Libras only.

I dunno, I think little sparrow is right, need to know more about my own sign details to determine. I know I have Sag, Libra and Gimini in my charts, just don't know quite where.

I have no idea how to do my chart. HELP FROM ANYONE WOULD BE NICE!!!

Birth date: October 24, 1971
Birth time: 1:30am
Place?: Connecticut

Dunno, whatelse is needed.

LP....Leo's are great *nods*....that's good news - you'll have to keep us informed 🙂

this is ur chart what i got.

Sun Scorpio 0.09
Moon Sagittarius 24.30
Mercury Scorpio 10.21
Venus Scorpio 15.19
Mars Aquarius 23.26
Jupiter Sagittarius 7.14
Saturn Gemini 5.27 R
Uranus Libra 14.59
Neptune Sagittarius 1.38
Pluto Libra 0.42
Lilith Libra 16.19
Asc node Aquarius 10.42

Ascendant Leo 17.56
II Virgo 10.07
III Libra 7.13
IV Scorpio 9.48
V Sagittarius 15.15
VI Capricorn 18.42
VII Aquarius 17.56
VIII Pisces 10.07
IX Aries 7.13
Midheaven Taurus 9.48
XI Gemini 15.15
XII Cancer 18.42

and this says abt marriage
House VII is the area of one-to-one relationships such as marriage and partnership, and of social and intellectual action.

House VII in Aquarius

A slightly hasty marriage. The relationship between man-and-wife will be very friendly and full of understanding. Both will love their independence, their freedom of action. If one refuses to give this to the other while insisting on it for himself, then a divorce will ensue.

this is ur chart what i got.

Sun Scorpio 0.09
Moon Sagittarius 24.30
Mercury Scorpio 10.21
Venus Scorpio 15.19
Mars Aquarius 23.26
Jupiter Sagittarius 7.14
Saturn Gemini 5.27 R
Uranus Libra 14.59
Neptune Sagittarius 1.38
Pluto Libra 0.42
Lilith Libra 16.19
Asc node Aquarius 10.42

Ascendant Leo 17.56
II Virgo 10.07
III Libra 7.13
IV Scorpio 9.48
V Sagittarius 15.15
VI Capricorn 18.42
VII Aquarius 17.56
VIII Pisces 10.07
IX Aries 7.13
Midheaven Taurus 9.48
XI Gemini 15.15
XII Cancer 18.42

and this says abt marriage
House VII is the area of one-to-one relationships such as marriage and partnership, and of social and intellectual action.

House VII in Aquarius

A slightly hasty marriage. The relationship between man-and-wife will be very friendly and full of understanding. Both will love their independence, their freedom of action. If one refuses to give this to the other while insisting on it for himself, then a divorce will ensue.

OK LS and thelibran, what do you get from this chart? What does it mean?

It means that in love you are looking for an air sign. Those tend to be the men you are attracted to. It also means that you act/advertise yourself differently than what you are at heart.

You are very sensitive and emotional. Take things to heart. You tend to be a bit argumentative and inconsistent.

thelibran : which program did you use to find out all those things, and how do you know what the houses mean?

Wow, LS, how did you get that out of all this crap in this chart. That sounds a bit like me though.

Sorry, the only part I disagree with totally, is

Advertise myself differently than what I am at heart... I am so open, honest and blunt about everything, I scare myself.

Because your Mars is at odds with your Venus. Mars is your action ... so when you are pursuing love you act differently than when you settle into it ... which would be your Venus.

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Wow, maybe? Hmmm, something to think about.

LS, in a way, now that I think about it. Doesn't almost everyone act a little different when they first meet someone until they get a chance to really know them?

the Libran,

Where did you find that chart...I am a scorpio and want to find someone that I can connect with. I have dated mostly Virgos, and they get too needy and bore me after a while. Thanks!

Benjish : chk http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TheHouses.htm . This site has a whole tutorial and am going thru it slowly. quite well written for a beginner.