rockyroadicecream
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Slow Libran Guys
omg it worked! It's a miracle!
Make him start addressing his feelings and talking about emotional stuff and you'll see a complete reverse!
Posted by rockyroadicecream
....DOES THIS MEAN THEY'RE NORMAL?? :o
LOL
whats his chart like? Earthy?
Only a few placements are earthy. Has the dun dun dun scorp in Venus. Sag rising, virgo mercury...that's all I remember off the top of my head.
The answer doesn't specifically have to be about him, though. I was just wondering since we hear more about these guys rushing in fast, not going slower.
Though I did have a thought after I'd posted this in regard to him specifically- I sure as hell haven't been rushing this and maybe he's just mirroring me. *shrugs*
The answer doesn't specifically have to be about him, though. I was just wondering since we hear more about these guys rushing in fast, not going slower.
Though I did have a thought after I'd posted this in regard to him specifically- I sure as hell haven't been rushing this and maybe he's just mirroring me. *shrugs*
Maybe.
Sweethearts- that's EXACTLY what's come to mind. I plan on talking to him about the direction in which this is going and I can't help but wonder if I'll see the reverse afterward. :/
And really, people, this question is about libras generally, not just him.
Sweethearts- that's EXACTLY what's come to mind. I plan on talking to him about the direction in which this is going and I can't help but wonder if I'll see the reverse afterward. :/
And really, people, this question is about libras generally, not just him.
Actually I misunderstood what you were saying and thought he was going all gun ho...
If he is taking his time, then he is weighing it all up...so enjoy the time you are having together, he hasn't made a decision one way or the other.
If he is taking his time, then he is weighing it all up...so enjoy the time you are having together, he hasn't made a decision one way or the other.
Liza, has your Leeb told you what he wants for the future...not necessarily with you but in general. is he the marrying type? are you? Are you both on the same page? Your relationship is very young and so many things are going wrong or not going as you expect. Do you think it is time to self assess and also assess together what is going on with you both and if you are heading down the same path together or are you ships passing in the night sharing the some time together.
I think you both need to sit down and make some decisions together because it sounds like there isn't any real communication going on between you both and I mean "real talk"
I think you both need to sit down and make some decisions together because it sounds like there isn't any real communication going on between you both and I mean "real talk"
Posted by size zero superhero
Libras are notorious for being 'fast'.
Truth of the matter is, we act recklessly in instances where the final outcome ain't worth a damn. Ruthlessness and rushing in this arena typically means the true objective is hit-it/quit-it. When this happens and the other party becomes clingy, the Libra might then push away as to say "hey, I never signed up for this $ HlT!"
Alternately when actually concerned with how things play out, we act accordingly.
Interesting way to look at it. Like Tiz said, in this instance, maybe I'm lucky and found a balanced one? I've known a few balanced females, but know far too many unbalanced ones. In regard to guys moving slower- this is a first in my experience directly. Prior to this was two, very fast moving guys, which were textbook.
Posted by Theultra79
Maybe he's just matured? After years of letting myself be rushed into situations I wasn't ready for, I finally understood it's best to go slow. You get burned enough times and eventually you'll see the light.
Off to pm tiki so she can tell you all the reasons you shouldn't have "the talk" with him. lol. :-P
jk
But I don't think you should for real tho. Listen to ur instincts on this one cause they're right!click to expand
He could be. But at 23? :/
I've been reconsidering bringing it up with him because of everything possibly going in reverse afterward. I talked to a libra coworker who's about his age and kind of the same shyness thing going on. He understood why I wanted to bring it up, but said he'd be a bit intimidated if asked that question. I've only thought to bring it up because there were two instances that seemed kinda odd- like he "disappeared" for a few hours late at night and didn't really elaborate on where he was- which he usually does. Didn't really mind, but it had me wondering if he's seen anyone else/hooked up with them. He can do as he pleases, but I won't be sticking around to be one of many at this point. But I don't mind waiting for better timing to bring it up if need be. *shrugs*
Posted by leoliza
oh this is rich..
It sure is. Watch and learn.
Posted by LIBRA1234
"Libras are notorious for being 'fast'. "
Really??click to expand
Yeah really!!
Seriously, google something about libra guys moving fast. The usual story is something along the lines of - oh wow, it's been so intense! I hear from him all the time, he wants to see me all the time, and he just can't seem to get enough!! He's even talking about future plans! Shortly followed with - "then he suddenly backs off, I hear from him less, prince charming is gone, etc. and poof, he's gone/broke up with me!"
This is what you hear a lot about on advice forums, even here. Like I said, to come across one who hasn't been jumping in got me wondering because you aren't hearing much about this type. It's mostly the other. Has me curious indeed.
Thinking about it.my Libra was quick to put a title on us (started telling people I was his girlfriend without discussing it with me!) but his actions wernt moving at the same speed as his words. He was still quite happy to see me once a week. When I asked him about what his deal was (as I like my space but if someone claims to be my boyfriend then they need to be around more then once a week or I'm gonna fit another guy in and drop the title lol) he did a runner!
After quizzing him last night which he hates as he dont like to talk about when we wernt together as it upsets him! He said that he acted like that to begin with because he was scared because he really liked me and didnt.want to lol. After our "break" he sorted his head out and then went full steam ahead and proposed in 3 months! And he's never backed off since
Maybe you need to start looking at wedding venues 😛
Mine also has Venus in scorp but is older he's 28 now
After quizzing him last night which he hates as he dont like to talk about when we wernt together as it upsets him! He said that he acted like that to begin with because he was scared because he really liked me and didnt.want to lol. After our "break" he sorted his head out and then went full steam ahead and proposed in 3 months! And he's never backed off since
Maybe you need to start looking at wedding venues 😛
Mine also has Venus in scorp but is older he's 28 now
Posted by tiziani
Rocky fitting to get wifed up when she least expects it. Ha!
Pfft.
@theultra and sweetlibra- It's been about 4 months in and I haven't really been rushing (taurus in venus, yo). It's less about label and more about not wanting to be played.
The signs are pretty obvious though. I know he likes me and I hear from him on a daily basis. Just a few random things that have me going, "hmm." But like I said, I'm okay with waiting it out. I'll just keep doing my thing and just pay attention.
Anyway, in regard to libras in general-
"Slow," in a sense = taking the person "seriously" and not wanting to screw up.
Being shy also adds to how fast they move along.
They're more balanced than the erratic ones who do tend to move fast.
So like I said, they're "normal??" Amazering. :p
Posted by LIBRA1234
"Seriously, google something about libra guys moving fast. "
Why the fuck would I google anything when i am surrounded with libras males and females; I was with one 10 years and now we are still friends. Imo and first hand experience, libras may move fast when they are initially attracted to you, but once this stage is over they may go pretty slow. The older and more evolved libra is, the slower that libra moves. Don't take everything u find on google at face value. We are all different and we all have different experiences. Also u can't explain someone's behavior just by analyzing his sign
lol. You win a state the obvious award.
If you've been around so many libras, you'd know exactly what I'm talking about and not respond with "REALLY?" I only used that example because it's like, duh, hello? Libra guys are notorious for that behavior. Those are merely examples that others have shared.
Posted by size zero superhero
Libras are notorious for being 'fast'.
Truth of the matter is, we act recklessly in instances where the final outcome ain't worth a damn. Ruthlessness and rushing in this arena typically means the true objective is hit-it/quit-it. When this happens and the other party becomes clingy, the Libra might then push away as to say "hey, I never signed up for this $ HlT!"
Alternately when actually concerned with how things play out, we act accordingly.
Damn ... I'm a cancerian ... and i tend to be quite clingy
What should I do about my slow, reserved, shy and quiet Libra
O_O
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by leoliza
oh this is rich..
It sure is. Watch and learn.
Posted by LIBRA1234
"Libras are notorious for being 'fast'. "
Really??
Yeah really!!
Seriously, google something about libra guys moving fast. The usual story is something along the lines of - oh wow, it's been so intense! I hear from him all the time, he wants to see me all the time, and he just can't seem to get enough!! He's even talking about future plans! Shortly followed with - "then he suddenly backs off, I hear from him less, prince charming is gone, etc. and poof, he's gone/broke up with me!"
This is what you hear a lot about on advice forums, even here. Like I said, to come across one who hasn't been jumping in got me wondering because you aren't hearing much about this type. It's mostly the other. Has me curious indeed.click to expand
And this is ecactly what has happened with me.
Libras are charmers as well ... which is why i feel sorry for them
They lead people on unknowingly sometimes .. when they just want to have fun
How do you keep a Libra who is so fast moving then?
He calls every day and all day ... we meet up regularly in the week too
I'm scared he might just vanish .... like u said "Poof"
If a guy is moving fast, regardless of sign, it's a bit of a red flag.
Posted by leoliza
HAHAH I can't wait to see how this turns out!
I knew you secretly loved libras 😉
...I've mentioned before that I was seeing one?
Posted by leolizaPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by leoliza
HAHAH I can't wait to see how this turns out!
I knew you secretly loved libras 😉
...I've mentioned before that I was seeing one?
That was pure sarcasm. But you skulk around on this board so much that it makes sense. Love..Hate..thin lineclick to expand
I've never once said I "hate" libras. I point out the bs that drives me, and others, crazy, but I've never said I hate them. Also not a fan of many of the female variety, but never have said hate.In fact, I'm pretty sure I've even mentioned I'm fine with the sane ones.
But if you all want to make asses of yourselves and assume as much, fine. Pointing out bullshit doesn't equate hate. Just intolerance for bullshit.
^^I totally agree with this. You should see the women who date scorps, they think scorps are a reincanation of jesus multiplied by whatever # of copies the heavens sent. Balls. To love doesnt = being blind. And they suck to the scorps so much, like doing that is gonna fix their crappy relationships in rl. Please
Posted by size zero superheroPosted by MeowCancerian007
Damn ... I'm a cancerian ... and i tend to be quite clingy
What should I do about my slow, reserved, shy and quiet Libra
O_O
Tread lightly and subdue the clingy factor a bit, at least initially. After some time passes or until you & the Libra have established a comfortable and trusting bond, then feel free to express your desire for closeness.
Waiting as things progress naturally will pay off. That way, your eagerness is unlikely to come off as suffocating and confining, whence you make it known.click to expand
^^^^This
Yes tread lightly. I have a Libra friend in which I am interested in, but he has been hurt in the past. However, we have become GREAT friends. I have noticed though over time he would say little things that made me think that he does care for me and he does like me, but he is not ready for anything serious or at least is afraid of it. Anyway, I had decided to pull away a bit to give him breathing room and also give myself room to not get to attached. I am not always about JUST the sign alone. Life experiences teaches people different things so although the sign is a good guide it is not the be all. What I have read about Libras is that they weigh everything!! They take their time with making decisions and when it comes to a woman they are looking at everything so their approach is slow, but when that decision is made final. They are all in. Patience is a virtue so keep busy if you want to wait him out. Don't let the impatient emotions take over you. Like you said watch the signs and if you are feeling in any way have a conversation. If he is a mature Libra he will be honest with you and if he likes you he will let you know where he is.
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....DOES THIS MEAN THEY'RE NORMAL?? :o