Some more Libra Love

There's a guy and a girl, they have been talking for a bit now??_things are going smoothly. Although she knows not to stress him, at times, she wonders why it is taking so long but keeps it to herself. She realizes that in the past, one of her strengths was to read people and to know how to approach them and what to expect of them, but in his case she has always been clueless. Whenever she thinks she has figured him out, he comes and surprises her once more. She knows that he cares for her in a special way. When alone he treats her like a princess and when in a group, he puts his attention and the focus (compliments) on her.
As far as the famous Libra flirting label goes, he doesn't come off to be like that, then again she hasn't been able to read through him properly so she could be wrong.
You could tell that he isn't comfortable sharing information about himself, he is rather discreet and prude about certain things which is fine, she enjoys the fact that he cultivates a secret garden; everybody is entitled to his or her??s. Conversation always flows??_but what happened yesterday surprised her. What started to worry her in the past few weeks is that they didn't seem to walk past the —friend??s zone??, they had stalled between —friendship city?? and —flirting city—?_??relationship city?? was still far from there but not completely out of sight!

That night??_they had met with some friends and when she was about to leave, he came her way. I guess he knew she was about to leave, they talked about winter activities and other hobbies such as horseback riding??_as they digged deeper in the subject he ended up talking about a trip he had made to the country for a week and had gone horseback riding. He then furthermore explained his trip stating that he had made it with his girlfriend??_stuttering on the fact that it was actually his ex. Yes, you heard right. He stuttered. What followed was a conversation filled with gaps and awkwardness. That is precisely when she decided to say goodbye and leave.

Somehow it is easier to tell a story in the third person.

2 possibilities:

1. Talking about the EX didn't mean anything??_just came along with the story
2. Might explain why he has been —taking his time?? or —unsure?? about me bcuz there was and still is clearly something going on between us. He was and probably still is in a —healing process—?_I mean stuttering on the word girlfriend and then correcting himself

From a Scorp chick to Scorp chick...I would say...ENJOY! You will soon realize that not everyone agrees with me. You say you have more fire in your chart...you do have a slight advantage just be wary of not inflamming yourself in the process.
You say you are good a leaving space for him to breathe...then please do so...you have realized that he was the one who spoke about it and that he sort brought the subject in the conversation. It doesn't mean that the deal is sealed...what it does mean is that he has shared something with you...something that was hard to bring up...after all he could have said that the trip in question was done with a friend or not even go there...he could have simply said that he had gone horseback ridding period! I would say there is definitely something going on...he is doing what Libra does best...taking his time, more so if the previous relationship was hard on him whether he was dumped or had gone through hell...you won't know at least not for now.

From a girl who has experienced Libra, if he comes your way compliment him, always make him feel welcome, DO NOT PLAY games, DO NOT TRY to make him jealous, DO NOT become indifferent thinking it will make him chase you. Libras are not that complicated. If you like him, just be there for him, allowing you to earn his trust!

I wish you all the happiness possible...don't burn him or yourself in the process, be as light and warm as fine summer breeze. In other words, breathe and let him breathe, after all he is an Air sign!!!

xox

ScorpSage is so spot on its ridiculous. I'm getting used to the ebb and flow with Libra. I don't mean disappearing because mine does not disappear but just the general rhythm of the relationship at his pace, not yours. Trying too hard though will be sussed out as desperation, just be real with who you are and how you feel and don't overburden him, whether it is good feelings or bad. Libra doesn't want to be your emotional dumping ground. He is definitely opening up, just go with the flow and allow him too. A Libra open and trusting is a really beautiful sight.