Tips and things to attract a Libra

I need all info please! I want to know. I have fallen, mostly into lust I will admit, from just the sound of his voice with a Libra man. I am a Scorpio and have yet to come accross any happy couplings with this pairing. He seems beyond reserved and when he talks it sounds beyond thoughtful which I love. ( Like he thinks before he talks and is very logical. The thing is I look for an equal in all things in romanc, and have read far too many negative things about them and that. Please help a lusty girl out! From what I have seen so far I can really like this man

Posted by Malfuria
I need all info please! I want to know. I have fallen, mostly into lust I will admit, from just the sound of his voice with a Libra man. I am a Scorpio and have yet to come accross any happy couplings with this pairing. He seems beyond reserved and when he talks it sounds beyond thoughtful which I love. ( Like he thinks before he talks and is very logical. The thing is I look for an equal in all things in romanc, and have read far too many negative things about them and that. Please help a lusty girl out! From what I have seen so far I can really like this man

Be yourself. If they like you for who you are, they will pursue you. And, you will know once they do. They make it pretty obvious.

true! I'm a libra and I can tell very easily when someone is not being themselves or trying too hard and its a turn off.
To get a libra .. be a little mysterious, give just a little to keep them interested and have good conversation! the way to a libra's heart is his mind.. have interesting fun conversation first! ask him about himself and hobbies ..Also don't forget to smile! 🙂

Posted by rockyroadicecream

I don't know where people get this idea that Libras are so materialistic that shit gets on my nerves if anything we think mostly with our hearts! If someone is down right loving and creative and adventurous I will stay with them if they are broke it is usually actually something that holds me back, but we are all supposed to me mindless materialistic gold diggers I guess.

I think it depends. Many Libra's will even spend a great deal on you if they really like you. Even if you tell them they don't need to.

Posted by Sugarfoot
^^^^

This ain't the Cap or the Taurus board.

lol

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by rockyroadicecream

I don't know where people get this idea that Libras are so materialistic that shit gets on my nerves if anything we think mostly with our hearts! If someone is down right loving and creative and adventurous I will stay with them if they are broke it is usually actually something that holds me back, but we are all supposed to me mindless materialistic gold diggers I guess.

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Astrology OVERKILL..LOL...SOME folks believe everything they read....I've never depended nor expected anyone to pay my way.
I work extremely hard to obtain anything and everything that I have in life..In fact, I'm probably one of the last people on earth to ask anyone for anything!
Guess it's pride, but I will do without before I ask for help or even accept it, so yeah...Astrology dropped the ball on that little characteristic.

Shiny things.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Shiny things.

And luxury.

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by rockyroadicecream

I don't know where people get this idea that Libras are so materialistic that shit gets on my nerves if anything we think mostly with our hearts! If someone is down right loving and creative and adventurous I will stay with them if they are broke it is usually actually something that holds me back, but we are all supposed to me mindless materialistic gold diggers I guess.

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You ASSUME "gold digging."

Libras are known for liking nice, luxurious things. This involves money.

what attracts me is having a good heart. the rest is just window dressing.

Lollll some libras do like nice things, beautiful people and money...but they also will take care of you.

@Everyone thank you for the advice...turns out it wasn't needed. We have gotten closer but I have discovered something shocking. Clearly I need to get my ears checked. I could have sworn he said that he was born Sept 28 turns out it was the 20th....big shock. I haven't had good luck with Virgos but so far very good ^ ^ He's very sweet and even though I turn it down he gives me things ^ ^ I don't like receiving if I can't give something back so it's kind of a fun back and forth lol. Thanks for the advice I used it anyway, the being myself. It's the only way to be if you want to be in a relationship for the long haul ^ ^

Definitely go through the mind first! I love a good-looking man with washboard abs like any woman, but a man who can stimulate my mind and carry on a TRULY witty conversation? Looks don't matter at that point. Also, ask him TONS of questions about himself. We Libras LOVE to talk about ourselves, and often wonder why our dates don't want to know more about us, lol. I thought this was only a female thing, but I recently went out with a Libra guy and he was more than happy to go on and on about himself 🙂.

Be nice, I mean don't say anything which could hurt them or be offensive or is in bad taste unless you're sure about it. People have been talking to me before and they say stuff which just puts me off them, also don't really talk about how much you "hate" this, that and whatever. Try to spread positive messages instead of negative ones, I can't stand talking to people who are "hating" things which aren't bad. Hope this makes sense 🙂