Trying to figure out Libra thinking

Starting with, the dating is over, and that’s fine. I’m just trying to understand his mentality. Was dating a libra guy briefly. I felt like I was always being critiqued. We recently went out with a large group for the first time.Totally fine he was hanging with other people since that was the whole purpose, but he was way less affectionate and it seemed like he may have been avoiding me. We ended up arguing at the end of the night and I said something on the aggressive side out of frustration and being in a shitty mood. According to him, he doesn’t want to date anymore because of that and because I moved my body away from him when he finally did make an attempt at some form of affection.

The thing that I’m trying to understand is how is something (that I see) so little, be such a big deal. I wasn’t happy with how he treated me and felt very disrespected all night long, but I viewed it as let’s have a discussion and figure it out. He hadn’t even realized I was upset during that time.

Sounds like he wasn't that into you from the beginning tbh. What happened gave him an excuse to end it.

Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Posted by Timone

Sounds like he wasn't that into you from the beginning tbh. What happened gave him an excuse to end it.

This is exactly what I was thinking!

Posted by alexscaries

Depends what you said. If he said he had tiny penis or was a boring cunt. He's going to take offence.

More of like “I would have killed your for doing that”. It’s a super common phrase where I’m from. You don’t actually mean you are going to kill anyone, but used to share how angry you would be/ are.

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Posted by alexscaries

Depends what you said. If he said he had tiny penis or was a boring cunt. He's going to take offence.

More of like “I would have killed your for doing that”. It’s a super common phrase where I’m from. You don’t actually mean you are going to kill anyone, but used to share how angry you would be/ are.

It's sometimes used in England as well. Did he really take offense to that?

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He claimed to…said he didn’t appreciate being spoken to like that. I should also say that I didn’t accept an apology from him either. He apologized as a question and didn’t even attempt to figure out (ask me) why I had been upset.

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Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

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Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

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Posted by Cclion

Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

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You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

Posted by Timone

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Cclion

Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

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Correct it's not the same. You are more then just sun sign though.

What I said is based off of observations of myself, my study of people and astrology mainly synastry. My interactions with people with strong Libra placements. The effects of synastry in real time with others in my life.

I naturally get a long with Libra because I get them. Always fast friends or otherwise.

What I said is a combination of all o the above. It is not just my opinion. There will be variations based on the individuals but in general it's accurate.

As to what you said about fnding a reason to break up, yes

Not feel like the bad guy is accurate as well. Without more info and or knowledge of their synastry and his placements not going to assume he wasn't actually interested in her. It doesn't matter really because this behavior is also a deal breaker in general for a librans. It's also forgivable too.

If they have been dating a long while and got to know each other well, you would be right and this was the excuse he needed. . I have a feeling this isn't the case. Early dating phase or 20s shenanigans. People still learning themselves and what their needs and wants in a relationship are.



I would also like to point of not once she mentioned how she feels about him. She doesn't seem upset at all.

Just wants to know what went wrong and I told her and how to handle social Libras in the future. Actually this applies to any relationship with a s/o, regardless of status and dating stage.

Timone is right, he was still weighing her up and it was nothing serious but her actions which appeared out of nowhere and threw him off balance is what called it!

We don’t like conflict and this was shown way too early.

How many dates had you been on?

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Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

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I was actually still trying to figure out what I wanted with him. What actually bothered me was he would be touchy in public other times, but Appleseed to me to basically avoid me.

I did go up and start conversations multiple times. I feel like something was off before hand. You are right, at least it was early on. I will keep the information for a later date if I ever talk to another libra again! Thanks for sharing!

Posted by Timone

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Cclion

Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

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I get the feeling that’s the way he does things. I had asked him about previous relationships and he said the girls “were mean”. I’m assuming I’m probably on his list now😆. I know I can be sassy and blunt, but I am a very loving and kind person.

I feel like he was critical from the beginning. Told me he wanted more affection, I said something via text that was misinterpreted (which I see how after he explained it). I told him it was a little too early for demands because that stuff would come in time as we got to know each other. I did enjoy spending time with him. He did compliment me a lot, which I wasn’t sure if it was sincere or not, so it always threw me off. He was physical when we went out other places together, just not that time. I still say something was off before.

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Posted by alexscaries

Depends what you said. If he said he had tiny penis or was a boring cunt. He's going to take offence.

More of like “I would have killed your for doing that”. It’s a super common phrase where I’m from. You don’t actually mean you are going to kill anyone, but used to share how angry you would be/ are.

It's sometimes used in England as well. Did he really take offense to that?

No surprise, Libra can be far more word sensitive than say Virgo. Not the most intelligent people always as they live in some idealized fantasy rather than being straight forward.

Love you Libra's, just saying.

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I like straight forward. I liked his personality a lot. I would date another libra if I come across one.

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Posted by ScorpioDreams

When the Libra and I first started dating it was kinda the opposite for us. When we would go out with a group of people he would be all over me….holding hands, hand on my back, stealing a kiss etc. Yet at home he wasn’t as touchy/feely. He would still socialize and flirt with the other women there which I’m not gonna lie bothered me a bit. I did bring it up to him and he took it the wrong way. He got very upset and took it as me trying to control him and who he could and couldn’t socialize with. I learned not to bring it up again. It was quite an adjustment for me being the over jealous Scorpio that I am. It’s just how Libras are though. They like to be free to socialize with whomever they want.

Everything is for the show with Libra, they believe they are the cat walkers, that it is their job to look good in the streets, terrible people behind closed doors though where the mask drops with 90% of them I would say.

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Interesting! What traits do you think make them terrible?

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Posted by Timone

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Cclion

Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

Correct it's not the same. You are more then just sun sign though.

What I said is based off of observations of myself, my study of people and astrology mainly synastry. My interactions with people with strong Libra placements. The effects of synastry in real time with others in my life.

I naturally get a long with Libra because I get them. Always fast friends or otherwise.

What I said is a combination of all o the above. It is not just my opinion. There will be variations based on the individuals but in general it's accurate.

As to what you said about fnding a reason to break up, yes

Not feel like the bad guy is accurate as well. Without more info and or knowledge of their synastry and his placements not going to assume he wasn't actually interested in her. It doesn't matter really because this behavior is also a deal breaker in general for a librans. It's also forgivable too.

If they have been dating a long while and got to know each other well, you would be right and this was the excuse he needed. . I have a feeling this isn't the case. Early dating phase or 20s shenanigans. People still learning themselves and what their needs and wants in a relationship are.



I would also like to point of not once she mentioned how she feels about him. She doesn't seem upset at all.

Just wants to know what went wrong and I told her and how to handle social Libras in the future. Actually this applies to any relationship with a s/o, regardless of status and dating stage.

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I was still trying to figure out what I wanted. It was still new and I was enjoying spending time with him. He was intelligent, chill, and fun. It’s not that I didn’t like him, but respecting his decision. Obviously it bothers me a bit otherwise I wouldn’t have posted lol. I also felt like he was hyper critical of me right away, but still also very complimentary.

I could see if that was an all the time behavior, but I don’t think once justifies anything. I view that as a time to set boundaries (which he did), but work through and possibly build something stronger. I was pissed about a few things that night, but I didn’t make a scene, but did stand up for myself. Part of my theory is that he didn’t like being called on his behavior.

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Timone is right, he was still weighing her up and it was nothing serious but her actions which appeared out of nowhere and threw him off balance is what called it!

We don’t like conflict and this was shown way too early.

How many dates had you been on?

5 or 6. It’s funny because he said he could handle a fiery woman, yet when it shows he is thrown off.

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Depends what you said. If he said he had tiny penis or was a boring cunt. He's going to take offence.

More of like “I would have killed your for doing that”. It’s a super common phrase where I’m from. You don’t actually mean you are going to kill anyone, but used to share how angry you would be/ are.

It's sometimes used in England as well. Did he really take offense to that?

No surprise, Libra can be far more word sensitive than say Virgo. Not the most intelligent people always as they live in some idealized fantasy rather than being straight forward.

Love you Libra's, just saying.

I like straight forward. I liked his personality a lot. I would date another libra if I come across one.

They can be different, I quite like the Mars placement regardless of it being in detriment.

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What exactly does being in detriment mean in astrology?

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When the Libra and I first started dating it was kinda the opposite for us. When we would go out with a group of people he would be all over me….holding hands, hand on my back, stealing a kiss etc. Yet at home he wasn’t as touchy/feely. He would still socialize and flirt with the other women there which I’m not gonna lie bothered me a bit. I did bring it up to him and he took it the wrong way. He got very upset and took it as me trying to control him and who he could and couldn’t socialize with. I learned not to bring it up again. It was quite an adjustment for me being the over jealous Scorpio that I am. It’s just how Libras are though. They like to be free to socialize with whomever they want.

Everything is for the show with Libra, they believe they are the cat walkers, that it is their job to look good in the streets, terrible people behind closed doors though where the mask drops with 90% of them I would say.

Interesting! What traits do you think make them terrible?

For Libra it is about being the head of the party and being out and being seen, it is about self adoration yet possessing none themselves, they rely on what other perceive them as and form groups around made up subjective opinions.

At home they can let their mask drop and the uglier side is let loose, they tend not to work on this side of themselves and it can be a massive drain on relationships, this is why the Sun is in it's fall in Libra, the self that they are is dependant on everyone else, the Moon placement is also just as cold and emotionally devoid, needs others to keep them from their sorrows.

Saturn exalts in Libra for a very good reason and they are an inanimate object.

However, if I wanted someone who could actively keep my team from killing each other and find new strategies of accomplishing goal projects, Libra can be some of the best people.

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He was good at communication (or from what I could tell) and he definitely had a charm to him. It was interesting though because my friends that met him that night all said they couldn’t see me with someone like him. This was before the argument even happened.

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Depends what you said. If he said he had tiny penis or was a boring cunt. He's going to take offence.

More of like “I would have killed your for doing that”. It’s a super common phrase where I’m from. You don’t actually mean you are going to kill anyone, but used to share how angry you would be/ are.

It's sometimes used in England as well. Did he really take offense to that?

No surprise, Libra can be far more word sensitive than say Virgo. Not the most intelligent people always as they live in some idealized fantasy rather than being straight forward.

Love you Libra's, just saying.

I said to one "you're temporary amnesia isn't cute". He said "neither is you acting like a brat". I said "the ladies love it".

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😆

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Posted by DanWard84

I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

Do they understand themselves? And is critique the same as hate? 🙂

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The level of self-awareness people are at is up for debate.

No. Critiquing is not the same as hating or putting someone down. It really depends on motive and context as to which it is honestly.

Lets use clothing as a example. Ideally and within your means, dress to display your personality using clothing and your body type. As a form of self expression.....and some times mood. This is universal truth with the spin of social norms...to those who choose to follow those at least.

For example look at how people dress that are happy or comfortable with their body. People who work out. People who are not afraid to display a lot of skin.

Tight fitting cloths.

Choice of colors says a lot too.

I have critiqued too and myself. I am close to a woman who is absolutely beautiful to me inside and out. I love it when she shows these things off and see her shine so to speak. It's all about how you say it though and that comes from a place of intent. Looking down on some for the way they dress or putting them down or making fun of them is hating.

"This or that looks amazing on you" is critiquing. Something that brings out who they are and shows that off. That is critiquing.



On that note, Why does a woman going on a date choice sexy underwear instead of the most comfortable? What is she motive?🙃

What effect does it have on her? It's not always about trying to impress the other. Makes her feel more confident and shine in my opinion. Confidence people tend to naturally gravitate towards things that display said mentality.

Yes it's really none of someones business how someone dresses and acts. Got to respect peoples individuality. When you critique someone you have to consider from what place you are doing it from. Or you just hating.

🙇When you pay attention and ask why we do the things we do....we really are very interesting wonderful complex creatures. Wish people were more appreciative of each others. From a place of understanding and respect too. Our relationships with each other would be more enjoyable and smother.

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Depends what you said. If he said he had tiny penis or was a boring cunt. He's going to take offence.

More of like “I would have killed your for doing that”. It’s a super common phrase where I’m from. You don’t actually mean you are going to kill anyone, but used to share how angry you would be/ are.

It's sometimes used in England as well. Did he really take offense to that?

No surprise, Libra can be far more word sensitive than say Virgo. Not the most intelligent people always as they live in some idealized fantasy rather than being straight forward.

Love you Libra's, just saying.

I said to one "you're temporary amnesia isn't cute". He said "neither is you acting like a brat". I said "the ladies love it".

I think Libra are a more colder version of Leo, Leo want to be seen for their merits, there is nothing wrong with that, but Leo can generate endlessly from the inside, this is the Suns domicile after all.

Libra wants that but has to manipulate to be rebuilt since their sense of self is based in how people see them, so they have to be a pleaser..

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Interesting perspective. I am a Leo and I agree with what you said.

Manipulate who, themselves or others?

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

Do they understand themselves? And is critique the same as hate? 🙂

The level of self-awareness people are at is up for debate.

No. Critiquing is not the same as hating or putting someone down. It really depends on motive and context as to which it is honestly.

Lets use clothing as a example. Ideally and within your means, dress to display your personality using clothing and your body type. As a form of self expression.....and some times mood. This is universal truth with the spin of social norms...to those who choose to follow those at least.

For example look at how people dress that are happy or comfortable with their body. People who work out. People who are not afraid to display a lot of skin.

Tight fitting cloths.

Choice of colors says a lot too.

I have critiqued too and myself. I am close to a woman who is absolutely beautiful to me inside and out. I love it when she shows these things off and see her shine so to speak. It's all about how you say it though and that comes from a place of intent. Looking down on some for the way they dress or putting them down or making fun of them is hating.

"This or that looks amazing on you" is critiquing. Something that brings out who they are and shows that off. That is critiquing.



On that note, Why does a woman going on a date choice sexy underwear instead of the most comfortable? What is she motive?🙃

What effect does it have on her? It's not always about trying to impress the other. Makes her feel more confident and shine in my opinion. Confidence people tend to naturally gravitate towards things that display said mentality.

Yes it's really none of someones business how someone dresses and acts. Got to respect peoples individuality. When you critique someone you have to consider from what place you are doing it from. Or you just hating.

🙇When you pay attention and ask why we do the things we do....we really are very interesting wonderful complex creatures. Wish people were more appreciative of each others. From a place of understanding and respect too. Our relationships with each other would be more enjoyable and smother.

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

Correct it's not the same. You are more then just sun sign though.

What I said is based off of observations of myself, my study of people and astrology mainly synastry. My interactions with people with strong Libra placements. The effects of synastry in real time with others in my life.

I naturally get a long with Libra because I get them. Always fast friends or otherwise.

What I said is a combination of all o the above. It is not just my opinion. There will be variations based on the individuals but in general it's accurate.

As to what you said about fnding a reason to break up, yes

Not feel like the bad guy is accurate as well. Without more info and or knowledge of their synastry and his placements not going to assume he wasn't actually interested in her. It doesn't matter really because this behavior is also a deal breaker in general for a librans. It's also forgivable too.

If they have been dating a long while and got to know each other well, you would be right and this was the excuse he needed. . I have a feeling this isn't the case. Early dating phase or 20s shenanigans. People still learning themselves and what their needs and wants in a relationship are.



I would also like to point of not once she mentioned how she feels about him. She doesn't seem upset at all.

Just wants to know what went wrong and I told her and how to handle social Libras in the future. Actually this applies to any relationship with a s/o, regardless of status and dating stage.

I was still trying to figure out what I wanted. It was still new and I was enjoying spending time with him. He was intelligent, chill, and fun. It’s not that I didn’t like him, but respecting his decision. Obviously it bothers me a bit otherwise I wouldn’t have posted lol. I also felt like he was hyper critical of me right away, but still also very complimentary.

I could see if that was an all the time behavior, but I don’t think once justifies anything. I view that as a time to set boundaries (which he did), but work through and possibly build something stronger. I was pissed about a few things that night, but I didn’t make a scene, but did stand up for myself. Part of my theory is that he didn’t like being called on his behavior.

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If what you said here and the other one recently is the case then chalk it up as a natural process of the relationship. Boundaries and expectations. The learning process of each other in a relationship. Lol now that he has been called out. lets see what he does about it. Whether or not he is willing to acknowledge this or at least silently change his behavior🍿

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

Correct it's not the same. You are more then just sun sign though.

What I said is based off of observations of myself, my study of people and astrology mainly synastry. My interactions with people with strong Libra placements. The effects of synastry in real time with others in my life.

I naturally get a long with Libra because I get them. Always fast friends or otherwise.

What I said is a combination of all o the above. It is not just my opinion. There will be variations based on the individuals but in general it's accurate.

As to what you said about fnding a reason to break up, yes

Not feel like the bad guy is accurate as well. Without more info and or knowledge of their synastry and his placements not going to assume he wasn't actually interested in her. It doesn't matter really because this behavior is also a deal breaker in general for a librans. It's also forgivable too.

If they have been dating a long while and got to know each other well, you would be right and this was the excuse he needed. . I have a feeling this isn't the case. Early dating phase or 20s shenanigans. People still learning themselves and what their needs and wants in a relationship are.



I would also like to point of not once she mentioned how she feels about him. She doesn't seem upset at all.

Just wants to know what went wrong and I told her and how to handle social Libras in the future. Actually this applies to any relationship with a s/o, regardless of status and dating stage.

I was still trying to figure out what I wanted. It was still new and I was enjoying spending time with him. He was intelligent, chill, and fun. It’s not that I didn’t like him, but respecting his decision. Obviously it bothers me a bit otherwise I wouldn’t have posted lol. I also felt like he was hyper critical of me right away, but still also very complimentary.

I could see if that was an all the time behavior, but I don’t think once justifies anything. I view that as a time to set boundaries (which he did), but work through and possibly build something stronger. I was pissed about a few things that night, but I didn’t make a scene, but did stand up for myself. Part of my theory is that he didn’t like being called on his behavior.

If what you said here and the other one recently is the case then chalk it up as a natural process of the relationship. Boundaries and expectations. The learning process of each other in a relationship. Lol now that he has been called out. lets see what he does about it. Whether or not he is willing to acknowledge this or at least silently change his behavior🍿

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We will never know lol.

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

Do they understand themselves? And is critique the same as hate? 🙂

The level of self-awareness people are at is up for debate.

No. Critiquing is not the same as hating or putting someone down. It really depends on motive and context as to which it is honestly.

Lets use clothing as a example. Ideally and within your means, dress to display your personality using clothing and your body type. As a form of self expression.....and some times mood. This is universal truth with the spin of social norms...to those who choose to follow those at least.

For example look at how people dress that are happy or comfortable with their body. People who work out. People who are not afraid to display a lot of skin.

Tight fitting cloths.

Choice of colors says a lot too.

I have critiqued too and myself. I am close to a woman who is absolutely beautiful to me inside and out. I love it when she shows these things off and see her shine so to speak. It's all about how you say it though and that comes from a place of intent. Looking down on some for the way they dress or putting them down or making fun of them is hating.

"This or that looks amazing on you" is critiquing. Something that brings out who they are and shows that off. That is critiquing.



On that note, Why does a woman going on a date choice sexy underwear instead of the most comfortable? What is she motive?🙃

What effect does it have on her? It's not always about trying to impress the other. Makes her feel more confident and shine in my opinion. Confidence people tend to naturally gravitate towards things that display said mentality.

Yes it's really none of someones business how someone dresses and acts. Got to respect peoples individuality. When you critique someone you have to consider from what place you are doing it from. Or you just hating.

🙇When you pay attention and ask why we do the things we do....we really are very interesting wonderful complex creatures. Wish people were more appreciative of each others. From a place of understanding and respect too. Our relationships with each other would be more enjoyable and smother.

A woman on a date should wear no underwear. Simple.

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Starting with, the dating is over, and that’s fine. I’m just trying to understand his mentality. Was dating a libra guy briefly. I felt like I was always being critiqued. We recently went out with a large group for the first time.Totally fine he was hanging with other people since that was the whole purpose, but he was way less affectionate and it seemed like he may have been avoiding me. We ended up arguing at the end of the night and I said something on the aggressive side out of frustration and being in a shitty mood. According to him, he doesn’t want to date anymore because of that and because I moved my body away from him when he finally did make an attempt at some form of affection.

The thing that I’m trying to understand is how is something (that I see) so little, be such a big deal. I wasn’t happy with how he treated me and felt very disrespected all night long, but I viewed it as let’s have a discussion and figure it out. He hadn’t even realized I was upset during that time.

Why do you people always post shit in the Libra forum. Nobody knows wtf is going on in his head but him. We don’t share his views/life experiences because of his fucking birth date. If I could read minds I’d charge for that.

I do not see why you made the thread if things have ended. Move on lmao. I try reading these posts and not snapping but y’all are dumb as fuck. Just move on lmao. You’re worried about nonsense if this is “over”.

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Starting with, the dating is over, and that’s fine. I’m just trying to understand his mentality. Was dating a libra guy briefly. I felt like I was always being critiqued. We recently went out with a large group for the first time.Totally fine he was hanging with other people since that was the whole purpose, but he was way less affectionate and it seemed like he may have been avoiding me. We ended up arguing at the end of the night and I said something on the aggressive side out of frustration and being in a shitty mood. According to him, he doesn’t want to date anymore because of that and because I moved my body away from him when he finally did make an attempt at some form of affection.

The thing that I’m trying to understand is how is something (that I see) so little, be such a big deal. I wasn’t happy with how he treated me and felt very disrespected all night long, but I viewed it as let’s have a discussion and figure it out. He hadn’t even realized I was upset during that time.

Why do you people always post shit in the Libra forum. Nobody knows wtf is going on in his head but him. We don’t share his views/life experiences because of his fucking birth date. If I could read minds I’d charge for that.

I do not see why you made the thread if things have ended. Move on lmao. I try reading these posts and not snapping but y’all are dumb as fuck. Just move on lmao. You’re worried about nonsense if this is “over”.

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Totally fair opinion. This was more me trying to got possible perspectives and processing as it just happened.

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

Do they understand themselves? And is critique the same as hate? 🙂

The level of self-awareness people are at is up for debate.

No. Critiquing is not the same as hating or putting someone down. It really depends on motive and context as to which it is honestly.

Lets use clothing as a example. Ideally and within your means, dress to display your personality using clothing and your body type. As a form of self expression.....and some times mood. This is universal truth with the spin of social norms...to those who choose to follow those at least.

For example look at how people dress that are happy or comfortable with their body. People who work out. People who are not afraid to display a lot of skin.

Tight fitting cloths.

Choice of colors says a lot too.

I have critiqued too and myself. I am close to a woman who is absolutely beautiful to me inside and out. I love it when she shows these things off and see her shine so to speak. It's all about how you say it though and that comes from a place of intent. Looking down on some for the way they dress or putting them down or making fun of them is hating.

"This or that looks amazing on you" is critiquing. Something that brings out who they are and shows that off. That is critiquing.



On that note, Why does a woman going on a date choice sexy underwear instead of the most comfortable? What is she motive?🙃

What effect does it have on her? It's not always about trying to impress the other. Makes her feel more confident and shine in my opinion. Confidence people tend to naturally gravitate towards things that display said mentality.

Yes it's really none of someones business how someone dresses and acts. Got to respect peoples individuality. When you critique someone you have to consider from what place you are doing it from. Or you just hating.

🙇When you pay attention and ask why we do the things we do....we really are very interesting wonderful complex creatures. Wish people were more appreciative of each others. From a place of understanding and respect too. Our relationships with each other would be more enjoyable and smother.

A woman on a date should wear no underwear. Simple.

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Stick to girls during their sexual exploration stage then.

This is a no go with most woman I know unless they are messing with their s/o's head.

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

I get the feeling that’s the way he does things. I had asked him about previous relationships and he said the girls “were mean”. I’m assuming I’m probably on his list now😆. I know I can be sassy and blunt, but I am a very loving and kind person.

I feel like he was critical from the beginning. Told me he wanted more affection, I said something via text that was misinterpreted (which I see how after he explained it). I told him it was a little too early for demands because that stuff would come in time as we got to know each other. I did enjoy spending time with him. He did compliment me a lot, which I wasn’t sure if it was sincere or not, so it always threw me off. He was physical when we went out other places together, just not that time. I still say something was off before.

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OK I think I interpreted it wrong when you said he was critical. I was thinking he was critizing you as a person or anything else than wanting more affection. Now it seems you're the one being critical. 😅

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

I get the feeling that’s the way he does things. I had asked him about previous relationships and he said the girls “were mean”. I’m assuming I’m probably on his list now😆. I know I can be sassy and blunt, but I am a very loving and kind person.

I feel like he was critical from the beginning. Told me he wanted more affection, I said something via text that was misinterpreted (which I see how after he explained it). I told him it was a little too early for demands because that stuff would come in time as we got to know each other. I did enjoy spending time with him. He did compliment me a lot, which I wasn’t sure if it was sincere or not, so it always threw me off. He was physical when we went out other places together, just not that time. I still say something was off before.

OK I think I interpreted it wrong when you said he was critical. I was thinking he was critizing you as a person or anything else than wanting more affection. Now it seems you're the one being critical. 😅

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I actually never criticized him. I was unsure of it since it was early. After one date he told me he wanted more affection. I asked him to give me some time and that I would definitely show him more as we got to know each other better. He brought it up again shortly after again. I was actually just starting to get to that point where I was feeling more comfortable about that with him. It wasn’t anything he did, but because I haven’t always been treated well in the past and it takes time for me to gauge and trust.

But I did feel criticized because, though he was never mean, it seemed like I didn’t meet his expectations and a timeline he had. I’m not sure if that was really his thinking, but it how I perceived it. Like it seemed his was in a rush in some ways. I don’t know how better to explain it.

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

I get the feeling that’s the way he does things. I had asked him about previous relationships and he said the girls “were mean”. I’m assuming I’m probably on his list now😆. I know I can be sassy and blunt, but I am a very loving and kind person.

I feel like he was critical from the beginning. Told me he wanted more affection, I said something via text that was misinterpreted (which I see how after he explained it). I told him it was a little too early for demands because that stuff would come in time as we got to know each other. I did enjoy spending time with him. He did compliment me a lot, which I wasn’t sure if it was sincere or not, so it always threw me off. He was physical when we went out other places together, just not that time. I still say something was off before.

OK I think I interpreted it wrong when you said he was critical. I was thinking he was critizing you as a person or anything else than wanting more affection. Now it seems you're the one being critical. 😅

I actually never criticized him. I was unsure of it since it was early. After one date he told me he wanted more affection. I asked him to give me some time and that I would definitely show him more as we got to know each other better. He brought it up again shortly after again. I was actually just starting to get to that point where I was feeling more comfortable about that with him. It wasn’t anything he did, but because I haven’t always been treated well in the past and it takes time for me to gauge and trust.

But I did feel criticized because, though he was never mean, it seemed like I didn’t meet his expectations and a timeline he had. I’m not sure if that was really his thinking, but it how I perceived it. Like it seemed his was in a rush in some ways. I don’t know how better to explain it.

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Yeh seems you were on different levels.

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

I get the feeling that’s the way he does things. I had asked him about previous relationships and he said the girls “were mean”. I’m assuming I’m probably on his list now😆. I know I can be sassy and blunt, but I am a very loving and kind person.

I feel like he was critical from the beginning. Told me he wanted more affection, I said something via text that was misinterpreted (which I see how after he explained it). I told him it was a little too early for demands because that stuff would come in time as we got to know each other. I did enjoy spending time with him. He did compliment me a lot, which I wasn’t sure if it was sincere or not, so it always threw me off. He was physical when we went out other places together, just not that time. I still say something was off before.

OK I think I interpreted it wrong when you said he was critical. I was thinking he was critizing you as a person or anything else than wanting more affection. Now it seems you're the one being critical. 😅

I actually never criticized him. I was unsure of it since it was early. After one date he told me he wanted more affection. I asked him to give me some time and that I would definitely show him more as we got to know each other better. He brought it up again shortly after again. I was actually just starting to get to that point where I was feeling more comfortable about that with him. It wasn’t anything he did, but because I haven’t always been treated well in the past and it takes time for me to gauge and trust.

But I did feel criticized because, though he was never mean, it seemed like I didn’t meet his expectations and a timeline he had. I’m not sure if that was really his thinking, but it how I perceived it. Like it seemed his was in a rush in some ways. I don’t know how better to explain it.

Yeh seems you were on different levels.

That's the problem with bunk beds.

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😂😂

Lesson learned: Don't date Libras.

I think whatever you said or didn't, if he's keen he's staying. If he's not, he's moving on. You can't try to rationalise it in your head because at the end of the day, he's free to do as he pleases and end it the way he wants. Don't waste your energy even thinking about it. The answer isn't in his chart or his sign. It's how he was feeling.

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Starting with, the dating is over, and that’s fine. I’m just trying to understand his mentality. Was dating a libra guy briefly. I felt like I was always being critiqued. We recently went out with a large group for the first time.Totally fine he was hanging with other people since that was the whole purpose, but he was way less affectionate and it seemed like he may have been avoiding me. We ended up arguing at the end of the night and I said something on the aggressive side out of frustration and being in a shitty mood. According to him, he doesn’t want to date anymore because of that and because I moved my body away from him when he finally did make an attempt at some form of affection.

The thing that I’m trying to understand is how is something (that I see) so little, be such a big deal. I wasn’t happy with how he treated me and felt very disrespected all night long, but I viewed it as let’s have a discussion and figure it out. He hadn’t even realized I was upset during that time.

Why do you people always post shit in the Libra forum. Nobody knows wtf is going on in his head but him. We don’t share his views/life experiences because of his fucking birth date. If I could read minds I’d charge for that.

I do not see why you made the thread if things have ended. Move on lmao. I try reading these posts and not snapping but y’all are dumb as fuck. Just move on lmao. You’re worried about nonsense if this is “over”.

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Yeah I know. But try to have compassion because not everyone can move on as fast as Libras.

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I think whatever you said or didn't, if he's keen he's staying. If he's not, he's moving on. You can't try to rationalise it in your head because at the end of the day, he's free to do as he pleases and end it the way he wants. Don't waste your energy even thinking about it. The answer isn't in his chart or his sign. It's how he was feeling.

Nice response! I agree! I had a few days of mulling it through, but I’m over it. It was new and hadn’t had a time to really get invested. Thanks!

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I'm guessing you are a water sign?

Or is the lion meaning you are a Leo? duh prob

Well anyway, he is being a Libra, that is what they do, go out and mix with everyone and not consider you two together as a unit, it's a free for all. then at the end of the night he (prob) goes home with you. Freedom for him, maybe it doesn't feel good for you but that's why Libras are known for being flirty and social

As soon as he feels you putting a dampener on that it's going to be a red flag

I can see that if it were an all the time thing, but it was literally once and he wasn’t even aware until the very end. His loss!

Hold up you got it all wrong. Don't listen to these circle jokers in these threads tell you what you want to hear and fluffing you.

I love leo energy and I have Libra Venus. Here is the deal. You just started dating and socializing. You are not paired yet. As in serious. He is not going to be showing you off and the relationship yet. Again dating getting to know each other.

It's not your fault you got upset because you. Didn't realise you wanted more from him this soon. It's cool.

That blow up is a red flag to a Libra. It's early though so it's cool.

In the future with a librian be a bit more assertive. We are social creatures. Step in next time and show him what you expect and need in a relationship by acting on it in that scenario. As a Libra Venus what melts me is a woman who will show this with style and confidence. Treat me the way she wants to be treated and I will take note. It's why I like Leo woman. They are not shy with this😍

In that scenario instead of being a wall flower step in and check up on him or assert your status. Walking up to him and putting your hand on him in a relationshipy way. Give him a kiss and walk away and you do you. Pull him away to do something together. Be friendly to who he is talking to too. In a sense mark your territory woman. He may not introduce you as girlfriend....yet may even fumble but when he does introduce you as GF he is serious.

To the Libra haters out there, how about understanding them instead of judging them?

You're not a libra are you? Libra venus is not the same as libra sun. If he's being critical towards her and not that affectionate and then end things with her over a stupid argument that fast it means he never was that into her. Libra men are passive and will go great length to avoid conflicts such as breaking up things when they're no longer interested. I think he saw it as an opportunity here to end it without completely coming out as the bad guy.

I get the feeling that’s the way he does things. I had asked him about previous relationships and he said the girls “were mean”. I’m assuming I’m probably on his list now😆. I know I can be sassy and blunt, but I am a very loving and kind person.

I feel like he was critical from the beginning. Told me he wanted more affection, I said something via text that was misinterpreted (which I see how after he explained it). I told him it was a little too early for demands because that stuff would come in time as we got to know each other. I did enjoy spending time with him. He did compliment me a lot, which I wasn’t sure if it was sincere or not, so it always threw me off. He was physical when we went out other places together, just not that time. I still say something was off before.

OK I think I interpreted it wrong when you said he was critical. I was thinking he was critizing you as a person or anything else than wanting more affection. Now it seems you're the one being critical. 😅

I actually never criticized him. I was unsure of it since it was early. After one date he told me he wanted more affection. I asked him to give me some time and that I would definitely show him more as we got to know each other better. He brought it up again shortly after again. I was actually just starting to get to that point where I was feeling more comfortable about that with him. It wasn’t anything he did, but because I haven’t always been treated well in the past and it takes time for me to gauge and trust.

But I did feel criticized because, though he was never mean, it seemed like I didn’t meet his expectations and a timeline he had. I’m not sure if that was really his thinking, but it how I perceived it. Like it seemed his was in a rush in some ways. I don’t know how better to explain it.

What do you mean he asked for affection?! Are you usually perceived as a cold person or is it just code for sex?

One thing libras hate the most is losing your shit and make a scene in front of other people, talking is the key, communication if they're not willing to do that just move on with your life but there's no need to be all aggressive in public.

As a Libra what I usually like about Leo is they're very affectionate people so maybe that is why he was asking for that cause that's the side he liked about you the most, you're very independent yet caring you take care of the people you love, your clingy side though can ruin things for you with Libras, you need to leave when you have to, keeping a hold on someone will not necessarily make them love you.

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I think both. I definitely felt like he was trying to rush sex in order to feel like I was interested and wanted. I think I can sometimes have an attitude, but people often tell me how friendly and easy to talk to I am!

I definitely didn’t make a scene. Everything happened via text, unfortunately. I don’t think libras are for me lol. Anyways, It’s way done and over and I hope he finds someone that matches his personality.

I appreciate your insights and questions! Thank you!

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He might have his Mercury in Virgo or Moon in Virgo or Venus in Virgo. God help you if he had his Venus in Virgo and it's in the 6th house. If you have a hot female friend, chances are he wants to smash her.

Lol. So, is Virgo Venus and sixth house know for cheating?

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He might have his Mercury in Virgo or Moon in Virgo or Venus in Virgo. God help you if he had his Venus in Virgo and it's in the 6th house. If you have a hot female friend, chances are he wants to smash her.

Lol. So, is Virgo Venus and sixth house know for cheating?

Depends on the aspects like, their Venus can be in Virgo AND OR Mars can be in Virgo as well, but if the house placement is 5th house which is ruled by Leo, then they will tend to have a lot of crushes. Also if he or she has Venus Square Uranus or Mars Square Uranus. (like I do), they will tend to have a lot of partners and even bang a stranger they just met. I can initiate sex with a girl on the spot with my Venus and Mars squaring Uranus because I know how to spark the excitement. Then the sensual touch and static locked eye contact comes in with my Lilith in Taurus. If the female has Mars in Taurus conjuncting my Lilith, then it's EASY for me to unleash all of Lilith's sexual power on her because she is already very attracted to my seductive subtlties.

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Very interesting