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You can initiate once. Something playful. Then stand back and see if he reciprocates.
You guys hiked at 7:30 am? Wow, I would be so grumpy that early 😏 especially if I hadn’t had my coffee yet ☕️
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Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
You’re on the scale and being weighed up..
Stop initiating and you’ll get your answer!
Posted by borednbeautifulYou can initiate once. Something playful. Then stand back and see if he reciprocates.
You guys hiked at 7:30 am? Wow, I would be so grumpy that early 😏 especially if I hadn’t had my coffee yet ☕️
Yeah, it was nice. I had coffee before. He gets up super early like 5, so sometimes we will talk early morning and I will reach back out around 2:30- 3:00. I don't want to be overbearing though. I'm an Aries Sun/Libra Moon and can be even if I intend not to lol.
Posted by sweetheartsYou’re on the scale and being weighed up..
Stop initiating and you’ll get your answer!
What do you mean? My last text was at 8 am yesterday morning and nothing. I do know this week has been very dfficult for both of us.
Libra - scales - decision
He hasn’t decided
Posted by sweetheartsLibra - scales - decision
He hasn’t decided
So what should I do if he hasn't decided?
Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulYou can initiate once. Something playful. Then stand back and see if he reciprocates.
You guys hiked at 7:30 am? Wow, I would be so grumpy that early 😏 especially if I hadn’t had my coffee yet ☕️
Yeah, it was nice. I had coffee before. He gets up super early like 5, so sometimes we will talk early morning and I will reach back out around 2:30- 3:00. I don't want to be overbearing though. I'm an Aries Sun/Libra Moon and can be even if I intend not to lol.
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Yeah, don’t be overbearing. You guys matched and met and now it’s up to both of you how to continue. How did you separate (any plans or just casual kiss or see you around or what?)
Whatever it is, it must be mutual. I personally don’t want someone who isn’t enthusiastic about me.
But like you said, he is busy. He might be dating around too.
Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsLibra - scales - decision
He hasn’t decided
So what should I do if he hasn't decided?
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Life!
If you were a definite he’d be all over you. Take a breather and let him decide. You don’t have to cut contract just don’t be all up in his a*** with too much expectation after a couple weeks.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsLibra - scales - decision
He hasn’t decided
So what should I do if he hasn't decided?
Life!
If you were a definite he’d be all over you. Take a breather and let him decide. You don’t have to cut contract just don’t be all up in his a*** with too much expectation after a couple weeks.
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True, but I want to show my interest, too.
Posted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
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We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Posted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
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Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
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I thought so. Yes, we planned to meet again but he is in the middle of trial prep and I'm in finals mode then going to visit my parents for a week or two.
Posted by newtothisI matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.
If I were you, I would give a fuck about my exams and nothing else.
Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
I thought so. Yes, we planned to meet again but he is in the middle of trial prep and I'm in finals mode then going to visit my parents for a week or two.
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It depends on his priorities. Trials require focus and a lot of hard work. You should focus on your finals and go visit your folks. If he doesn’t contact by then, you have 0 connection.
You can also playfully ask how trial preparation is going? But please pace yourself. I have a feeling you want to contact him tonight!
Posted by SandsPosted by newtothisI matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.
If I were you, I would give a fuck about my exams and nothing else.
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Finally something smart from you too. And here I thought you are just a ho…
Posted by SandsPosted by newtothisI matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.
If I were you, I would give a fuck about my exams and nothing else.
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Yeah, I know. Trust me, I am.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
I thought so. Yes, we planned to meet again but he is in the middle of trial prep and I'm in finals mode then going to visit my parents for a week or two.
It depends on his priorities. Trials require focus and a lot of hard work. You should focus on your finals and go visit your folks. If he doesn’t contact by then, you have 0 connection.
You can also playfully ask how trial preparation is going? But please pace yourself. I have a feeling you want to contact him tonight!
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What should I do then?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SandsPosted by newtothisI matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.
If I were you, I would give a fuck about my exams and nothing else.
This. I genuinely refused a threesome because I had an exam.
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A threesome, huh? And here I thought you were genuinely nice and innocent 😇
Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
I thought so. Yes, we planned to meet again but he is in the middle of trial prep and I'm in finals mode then going to visit my parents for a week or two.
It depends on his priorities. Trials require focus and a lot of hard work. You should focus on your finals and go visit your folks. If he doesn’t contact by then, you have 0 connection.
You can also playfully ask how trial preparation is going? But please pace yourself. I have a feeling you want to contact him tonight!
What should I do then?
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If you don’t have the patience (and it sounds like you don’t) go ahead and contact. What’s the worst that can happen? I don’t believe in your turn and my turn and games.
But have some style when you do. Ask about the trial and not when you can see him next. If he sounds lukewarm, drop it. If he seems excited to hear from you, show up in trench coat with nothing but underwear and a bottle of wine. You are welcome.
Posted by sweetheartsYou’re on the scale and being weighed up..
Stop initiating and you’ll get your answer!
As a libra I agree with this. You already put a lot of effort by always being the one initiating. Stop doing that and see if he reaches out. If he doesn't then there's your answer.
Posted by TimonePosted by sweetheartsYou’re on the scale and being weighed up..
Stop initiating and you’ll get your answer!
As a libra I agree with this. You already put a lot of effort by always being the one initiating. Stop doing that and see if he reaches out. If he doesn't then there's your answer.
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No reply = an actual reply
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by TimonePosted by sweetheartsYou’re on the scale and being weighed up..
Stop initiating and you’ll get your answer!
As a libra I agree with this. You already put a lot of effort by always being the one initiating. Stop doing that and see if he reaches out. If he doesn't then there's your answer.
No reply = an actual reply
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Exactly. 👍
Posted by TimonePosted by sweetheartsYou’re on the scale and being weighed up..
Stop initiating and you’ll get your answer!
As a libra I agree with this. You already put a lot of effort by always being the one initiating. Stop doing that and see if he reaches out. If he doesn't then there's your answer.
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True. Thanks!
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by SandsPosted by newtothisI matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.
If I were you, I would give a fuck about my exams and nothing else.
Finally something smart from you too. And here I thought you are just a ho…
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Aspiring ho at best. Lets not give undue credit
As a Libra sun and just a human - we make time for something we want.
Posted by goldenfishAs a Libra sun and just a human - we make time for something we want.
Very true. I need to just move on I guess.
if he is not initiating at all, he is not interested but just being polite.
i agree, the men are flakier than the women. i have a feeling this guy would more than likely just frustrate you in the long run.
Posted by LibraandgenerousMy advice to you as a Libra of you want to impress this guy, get busy with your life, enjoy it and then tell him about it, that's what I mostly like about fire sign people they're always up to sth, you probably need to sit back for a while and let him reach you for once, if he doesn't you can share whatever fun activities you get yourself busy with on social media to him to see, maybe that'll catch his attention or you can simply move on with your life, there's always plenty fish in the sea.
That's good advice. I have a lot on my plate already.
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
If it goes poorly, they'll never find the body.
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Posted by nanobotzPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
If it goes poorly, they'll never find the body.
Maybe I’m just too cynical or paranoid, but I would never ever go to a remote area with a man I didn’t know very well lol
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It wasn't a hike per se, but a long walk at the abortorium in my city. He is on the board there.
Posted by nanobotzPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
If it goes poorly, they'll never find the body.
Maybe I’m just too cynical or paranoid, but I would never ever go to a remote area with a man I didn’t know very well lol
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It wasn't a hike per se, but a long walk at the abortorium in my city. He is on the board there.
Posted by nanobotzPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
If it goes poorly, they'll never find the body.
Maybe I’m just too cynical or paranoid, but I would never ever go to a remote area with a man I didn’t know very well lol
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Of course. But the sad reality is we are rarely safe around the ones we know well too.
Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsLibra - scales - decision
He hasn’t decided
So what should I do if he hasn't decided?
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Suggest switch law school to liberal art or archeology. Should free you both shitload of time.
Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
I thought so. Yes, we planned to meet again but he is in the middle of trial prep and I'm in finals mode then going to visit my parents for a week or two.
It depends on his priorities. Trials require focus and a lot of hard work. You should focus on your finals and go visit your folks. If he doesn’t contact by then, you have 0 connection.
You can also playfully ask how trial preparation is going? But please pace yourself. I have a feeling you want to contact him tonight!
What should I do then?
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Are you sure you have what it takes to be a lawyer?
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscariesPosted by SandsPosted by newtothisI matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.
If I were you, I would give a fuck about my exams and nothing else.
This. I genuinely refused a threesome because I had an exam.
A threesome, huh? And here I thought you were genuinely nice and innocent 😇
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He refused! Typical Aries self control and integrity!🧘♂️
Posted by LibraandgenerousPosted by goldenfishAs a Libra sun and just a human - we make time for something we want.
But also as Libras we don't know what we want
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Idk if this is my Scorpio placements, but I always now what I want and go for it. Indecisive ppl are a turn off.
I find that my indecisiveness is really a No… but I’m trying to find the yes
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by nanobotzPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
If it goes poorly, they'll never find the body.
Maybe I’m just too cynical or paranoid, but I would never ever go to a remote area with a man I didn’t know very well lol
Of course. But the sad reality is we are rarely safe around the ones we know well too.
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Really?
I feel very safe around the people i know well
Don’t you?
I still haven't heard back
Posted by newtothisI still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
Maybe that’s your answer
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisI still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
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Yeah. He also told me this weekend was way overbooked. I have a lot going on myself. Final is Monday night.
Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisI still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
Yeah. He also told me this weekend was way overbooked. I have a lot going on myself. Final is Monday night.
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Good luck on your final! 📚 ✍🏻
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisI still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
Met another guy. That could be an insight. 👨❤️💋👨
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I believe op is an Aries guy and Libra is a guy too.
I can see the push-pull dynamics.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisI still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
Met another guy. That could be an insight. 👨❤️💋👨
I believe op is an Aries guy and Libra is a guy too.
I can see the push-pull dynamics.
Spoke to newtothis before, but about a cancer man. Libras are big flirts, but not sure about cheating.
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I really don’t know. It does suck when someone doesn’t reply. It’s rude.
But I mean…I’ve done it to people and had it done to me as well.
So, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
Posted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisSo, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
You've proven there's other people willing to date you if it doesn't work out. So don't get hung up on it.
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I'm not hung up on it, just curious about the Libra man. Another Libra guy I talked to was super shy and never reached out. It didn't work out because he never shared his opinions about something, even if I disagreed.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisSo, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
You've proven there's other people willing to date you if it doesn't work out. So don't get hung up on it.
I'm not hung up on it, just curious about the Libra man. Another Libra guy I talked to was super shy and never reached out. It didn't work out because he never shared his opinions about something, even if I disagreed.
I think Libra Aries is a difficult combination.
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Why is that? I thought they were a good combination?
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I matched with a Libra guy online a few weeks ago. We talked via text for about a week before we were finally able to meet (at 7:30 AM on a Saturday for a hike). I thought our date went extremely well, but we are both pretty busy right now (he's a lawyer, I'm in law school and next week is finals). He said he wants to meet again. However, I have noticed I seem to be the one to initiate and follow up.
I know we both super busy, so should I keep trying or just ghost a few days and see what happens?
I also know Libras are polite and don't want to ruffle feathers. He is a shy guy, I'm not.