Trying to get my Libra ex back, What should I do

I am a Libra myself and 2 years ago I went this Libra man. We are both same age.

It was his first serious relationship and it lasted almost 3 years. I broke it off as I was stupid. I did not appreciate what I had. He was so good and consistent. it came across as boring for me at the time as I was in college and as you know.. College party life consumed my life and got the best of me.

I knew the break up was hard for him as we didn't stop talking until 3 months after I broke it off with him.

Me being foolish and stupid at the time, I've moved on quickly and ended up with another guy.

Who eventually cheated on me. I think it was Karma for sure.

Anyhow, long story short. He moved on too. It took him awhile but he ended up going out with another girl.

When he found out my new boyfriend broke it off with me and cheated on me the day I decided to move out.

He came over and helped me move as friends. He wasn't trying anything as I hope he would.

Anyway, I become single since last year and I messaged him few times just to see how things were. He's happy most of the time and replied back to me every time. As time goes by I knew he doesn't have any interests in me anymore as he was happy in his new relationship.

So I wished for us to be friends but we couldn't as he was going out with someone else and I respected that and never talked to him since.

3 weeks ago our mutual friends have informed me that he just became single. so I was concerned as he's such a nice guy. I texted him and asked how he was. He said he's going through tough time as his granddad is sick so he'll be busy for awhile trying to spend time with him.

I asked if he wanted to see me and he said he was busy.

I think he hates me but he really was the best thing in my life.

No one can lived up to him and I really have tried messaging him but I don't think he cares anymore.

What should I do ?

Posted by blackphase
Seriously? He was just dumped and his granddad is sick.. Really inappropriate time to ask if he wants to see you.. And now you are taking it personally. Give him some space and let him reach out when he is ready..

I just wanted to be there for him as when we were going out his granny passed away. But you're right, I need to remember that I'm not his girlfriend anymore.

The one thing that I learned from my Libra is to give him space when he is having a rough time. He prefers to do it alone. For some reason, they feel that leaning on someone is equivalent to burdening them and they hate to be a burden.

Just wait a week or two and send a friendly "hello".

Posted by Deedee86
The one thing that I learned from my Libra is to give him space when he is having a rough time. He prefers to do it alone. For some reason, they feel that leaning on someone is equivalent to burdening them and they hate to be a burden.

Just wait a week or two and send a friendly "hello".

I think I will do that, Thanks for your help

Posted by Deedee86
The one thing that I learned from my Libra is to give him space when he is having a rough time. He prefers to do it alone. For some reason, they feel that leaning on someone is equivalent to burdening them and they hate to be a burden.

Just wait a week or two and send a friendly "hello".

I'm a Libra and I'm like that. My Scorpio best friend always tells me it's okay, it's not a burden. My Fiancé tells me we are team and we can get through things together. But yes, still till this day, I rarely put my problems on others. Those who know me well, know this about me. I'm a strong person and will get through it eventually. Good advice!

That's a lot going on OP. Just let him be. He needs to focus on what is going on in his current life. He will be friendly and back to himself later, you have to realize it's not about you at this point.

Posted by jane84
That's a lot going on OP. Just let him be. He needs to focus on what is going on in his current life. He will be friendly and back to himself later, you have to realize it's not about you at this point.

I think I will do as you said as well. Thank you for your help 🙂

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Posted by Deedee86
The one thing that I learned from my Libra is to give him space when he is having a rough time. He prefers to do it alone. For some reason, they feel that leaning on someone is equivalent to burdening them and they hate to be a burden.

Just wait a week or two and send a friendly "hello".

That's the second time that i see your post and you seem to really understand this sign. It's rare on this board

What is your sun sign ? Scorpio ?

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I'm a Scorpio

Libra Venus may be why I connect with them so much.

Did you really have a Libra that was consistent?

There's Hope after all.

Posted by Shrewdsharp
Did you really have a Libra that was consistent?

There's Hope after all.

I wouldn't call him that lol

He disappears from time to time and gets in his own hide.

He just always made it clear by both actions and words that he loved only me. That's why, when he was gone, I just couldn't let go. I knew in my heart that he would be back.

So you broke his heart on whim, moved onto a more exciting fuckboi and now you want to go back to good old faithful?

I hope for his sake he sees right through you and stays away. Because yeah, you'll get back together but then after a while, you'll get bored again and dispose of him when something more exciting comes along.

That you hoped he would cheat on his then girlfriend with you at the time indicates you're all about the drama, not so much about him.

Posted by Deedee86
The one thing that I learned from my Libra is to give him space when he is having a rough time. He prefers to do it alone. For some reason, they feel that leaning on someone is equivalent to burdening them and they hate to be a burden.

Just wait a week or two and send a friendly "hello".

Yep. THIS. ?