What does this Libra man want?

Hi..so I have this Libra guy who added me on Facebook and we have chatted very few times..the thing that makes me wonder is that he just sends me messages when I post a new photo...complimenting me on my looks and how good I look...other than that whatever interesting stories I post..no comnent from him..

I really want to get to know him better..but whenever he sent a message and I reply then try to know his news or talk to him I feel his answers are cold and i feel thay he is not interested in getting to know me...the next day i post a photo and a new comment is there! Does he only care about looks? Or does he have a communication issue that makes him escape from talking? Is he shy? Although am sure he is not from the way he expresses his love to my looks (he does that in a very decent way)...

Help me try to understand what's going on in this guy's brain...he is a doctor who is very busy by the way but still ..if he finds time to write a comment, he should find time to talk about other things!!

Please help

Have you guys even met in person or is this just purely chatting online?

Dolluxxe we haven't, we live in two different countries, so it's a purely chatting online

just to add, we first talked (or chatted) last year, and when I got bored of his weird behavior chatting one day and disappearing for many days (he was in a different country and his schedule was busier than now by then)...when I reallyyy got bored I removed him from my Facebook, and after 6 months and when he relocated to another country he reached me out again on another social media platfrom few weeks back, here we started talking again..he didn't ask me why I removed him and he is acting as if we were just talking yesterday....i hope i get to understand his intentions from this forum

Timon he is not a total stranger though, he messaged me the first time saying that he found my profile on Linkedin and he liked it...we have a friend in common who i know personally (not virtually), this friend tried to hook us up before by showing him a picture of mine and telling him about me to consider me seriously, but he was with someone else by that time so nothing happened...and when he first chatted he mentioned nothing about my looks at all...asking me about my career, family..etc..that was before i deleted him...after that he was back with this weird behavior commenting on photos all the time...it's like they r two different persons !

so, if I understand, is a guy that compliment your looks on a casual and decent manner every time you post?

I'd say nothing, he just like your looks, I do follow some people on social media for eye candy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ they appear on my wall, and I comment.

and is common to put on some random compliment for what I noticed on Instagram 😆 I doubt people actually stare at those pics for over 10s but they are like "you look amazing!!" and yadayada

eye candy....this is what I fear...oh my God...I wish I didn't accept his friend request again

Posted by Endless

so, if I understand, is a guy that compliment your looks on a casual and decent manner every time you post?

I'd say nothing, he just like your looks, I do follow some people on social media for eye candy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ they appear on my wall, and I comment.

and is common to put on some random compliment for what I noticed on Instagram 😆 I doubt people actually stare at those pics for over 10s but they are like "you look amazing!!" and yadayada

so you think this won't get anywhere? should I just remove him?

My bf is a Libra. He told me that there's a difference between liking a woman's look and actually liking the woman. He said he can probably sleep with any women with a pretty face, but it doesn't mean he will have feelings. He said he needs to feel an intellectual connection with the person. I think his logic is more like, "I am only interested in good-looking women. However, I am not going to be interested in any woman just because she's good looking."

Posted by whatisthisallabout

My bf is a Libra. He told me that there's a difference between liking a woman's look and actually liking the woman. He said he can probably sleep with any women with a pretty face, but it doesn't mean he will have feelings. He said he needs to feel an intellectual connection with the person. I think his logic is more like, "I am only interested in good-looking women. However, I am not going to be interested in any woman just because she's good looking."

and that's totally normal and that's how healthy people think ..that's why am not happy with what's happening, I wish if he can start long serious conversations with me so we can know each other and how we think ..i want him to know that am not just a pretty face! i don't know if that is possible or he will just stop there :/

I agree with @Timon



You really shouldn't take any online chat seriously. Unless you two agree to meet and get to know each other more then you should focus your energy elsewhere. Also, men of all signs are visual so of course he would want to chat with a pretty girl.

Lastly, him popping in and out is just him bored and not having anything else to do.

Posted by MephistoZap

I think at first he liked you when he was asking you questions and being responsive. I’m not sure if he didn’t feel a connection or he was just busy but it seems like his new behavior he isn’t interested. I don’t think you should have deleted him. I know it would tick me of but I would just keep that to myself. I think he’s just bored maybe not “talking” with anyone else and decided to look you up. If he was really interested he would be acting like he did the first time around.

yes this makes sense ..thanks!

Posted by Dolluxxe

I agree with @Timon



You really shouldn't take any online chat seriously. Unless you two agree to meet and get to know each other more then you should focus your energy elsewhere. Also, men of all signs are visual so of course he would want to chat with a pretty girl.

Lastly, him popping in and out is just him bored and not having anything else to do.

I guess this is a rational explanation.. thanks!

Dude comes home from work...he wants to chill...and his deal is liking pics on FB! He is tired...he wants to do what he wants to do...and he is probably liking every nes pic of everybody...

I have a Libra guy friend who is very smart, complimenting so much, but he gets bored easily, especially online, he hates short talk.

Maybe just meet with him ?

Ok guys just an update...He came back again with more attention to give me ...his conversations started to become longer..not only commenting on photos (i stopped posting for couple of days)

Can someone help me how should i attract him more because he has shown me that he is interested to know me more...he comes online, talk to me, like my statuses, and goes offline..

I don't know anything about his intentions but i can say now that he doesn't hate talking to me ..or at least doesn't want to get to know me.

Posted by Luny7

I have a Libra guy friend who is very smart, complimenting so much, but he gets bored easily, especially online, he hates short talk.

Maybe just meet with him ?

The thing is that we live in 2 different countries, he just moved there for a new job so i have to wait ans see if he will do a move during his holiday...i still don't know if he will do that for me...as i don't know what he wants exactly..he wants to talk..he started to create subjects to talk to me... but at the same time his intentions are not known to me...i just need someone to help me know the Libra man character more and reply based on that instead of just saying he isn't interested...he might be interested and he might not..but i need a reply from a libra man or someone who knows a libra man to help me understand him more...thanks

Posted by ViRGoV123

Does he only care about looks?

Yes.

Stop trying to force something to happen because YOU have the lady boner for the dude. If you can't figure out where a dude stands in the interest territory, then he's not into you. Move on and stop being so damned desperate. You got a tiny grain of attention from a random and you're off practically asking the internet if he's potentially your future husband, ffs.

Stahp.

Posted by ViRGoV123

Hi..so I have this Libra guy who added me on Facebook and we have chatted very few times..the thing that makes me wonder is that he just sends me messages when I post a new photo...complimenting me on my looks and how good I look...other than that whatever interesting stories I post..no comnent from him..

I really want to get to know him better..but whenever he sent a message and I reply then try to know his news or talk to him I feel his answers are cold and i feel thay he is not interested in getting to know me...the next day i post a photo and a new comment is there! Does he only care about looks? Or does he have a communication issue that makes him escape from talking? Is he shy? Although am sure he is not from the way he expresses his love to my looks (he does that in a very decent way)...

Help me try to understand what's going on in this guy's brain...he is a doctor who is very busy by the way but still ..if he finds time to write a comment, he should find time to talk about other things!!

A picture is worth a thousand words? but he also seems shallow

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Posted by ViRGoV123

Hi..so I have this Libra guy who added me on Facebook and we have chatted very few times..the thing that makes me wonder is that he just sends me messages when I post a new photo...complimenting me on my looks and how good I look...other than that whatever interesting stories I post..no comnent from him..

I really want to get to know him better..but whenever he sent a message and I reply then try to know his news or talk to him I feel his answers are cold and i feel thay he is not interested in getting to know me...the next day i post a photo and a new comment is there! Does he only care about looks? Or does he have a communication issue that makes him escape from talking? Is he shy? Although am sure he is not from the way he expresses his love to my looks (he does that in a very decent way)...

Help me try to understand what's going on in this guy's brain...he is a doctor who is very busy by the way but still ..if he finds time to write a comment, he should find time to talk about other things!!

A picture is worth a thousand words? but he also seems shallow

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he finally stopped commenting on my pictures and talking about different things..

He's probably checking out everyone's photos and liking the ones he finds pretty. He's probably already involved with someone.

Posted by DonnaLibra

He's probably checking out everyone's photos and liking the ones he finds pretty. He's probably already involved with someone.

probably...he was about to start talking about other topics and initiating contact..but now , we're back to the silence just like before when i removed him from my page...this guys is weird and i really lost interest

@ViRGoV123

he probably likes all kind of pictures of different people

if you are friends, have a look at his other friends and the type of picture he is liking/commenting

you would see that its the same like with you

does he post regularly? what kind of posts or pictures?

also, you can ask your mutual friend if he is in a relationship

I would forget about him and focus on real people you already know

PS. posting every day seems desperate a bit, imho

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Posted by DonnaLibra

He's probably checking out everyone's photos and liking the ones he finds pretty. He's probably already involved with someone.

probably...he was about to start talking about other topics and initiating contact..but now , we're back to the silence just like before when i removed him from my page...this guys is weird and i really lost interest

You already knew the answer, before starting this thread. Stop being a frigging idiot...

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is it that difficult to just give a proper advice or comment without being so aggressive calling people idiots?? if you can't be polite enough then just don't reply, the last thing i want is an advice from someone who can't respect himself & others.

Posted by Pandora101

@ViRGoV123

he probably likes all kind of pictures of different people

if you are friends, have a look at his other friends and the type of picture he is liking/commenting

you would see that its the same like with you

does he post regularly? what kind of posts or pictures?

also, you can ask your mutual friend if he is in a relationship

I would forget about him and focus on real people you already know

PS. posting every day seems desperate a bit, imho

if it was just liking my pictures i wouldn't have thought of anything..but he sends a private message instead...other than that am not posting daily at all...and by the last few weeks he started sending messages commenting about other pictures (not me) that i post and started to initiate conversations more....suddenly he stopped again sending any messages since last week now. he doesn't post...very rarely he posts random videos ..regarding him liking other girls, i tried to check but none was there...unless the girls on his list have their pages in private because i can't see him liking or commenting on any girl...he might have a gf i don't know,,and so does the mutual friend, he lost contact with him since h relocated...so i guess he is a mystery that i don't want to get involved in more, i feel the hurt is coming my way if i continued thinking about him..it's just his latest attention to me which gave me hope..

don't worry people i am mature enough to know, but i just thought this is something in libra men that i should know..

thanks to all the respected people who commented

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Posted by DonnaLibra

He's probably checking out everyone's photos and liking the ones he finds pretty. He's probably already involved with someone.

probably...he was about to start talking about other topics and initiating contact..but now , we're back to the silence just like before when i removed him from my page...this guys is weird and i really lost interest

You already knew the answer, before starting this thread. Stop being a frigging idiot...

is it that difficult to just give a proper advice or comment without being so aggressive calling people idiots?? if you can't be polite enough then just don't reply, the last thing i want is an advice from someone who can't respect himself & others.

I don't show respect or politeness to idiots and deluded twits like you. The world would be such a better place, without you lot around. And to think that some of you fuckers have the audacity to breed...

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God help you...you are sick believe me or maybe just a pathetic kid...it shows from your words...you think you'll live forever? you'll live a miserable life, there is God in this world you don't live by your own rules...life can flip in a second and everything in your life that you think is perfect and u deserve it will be against you and u will be so miserable believe me...people who r not "Humans" like u shouldn't live at all,,,those who don't feel other's and don't think of others feeling ..am sure u r an unemployed teenager who stays at home doing nothing but to answer girls on their problems like girls who enjoy gossips..get a life and go find a job and try to be human..i hope every sadness u cause to people by ur irresponsible words and actions get back to u and to ur loved ones...enjoy being cursed forever

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Posted by DonnaLibra

He's probably checking out everyone's photos and liking the ones he finds pretty. He's probably already involved with someone.

probably...he was about to start talking about other topics and initiating contact..but now , we're back to the silence just like before when i removed him from my page...this guys is weird and i really lost interest

You already knew the answer, before starting this thread. Stop being a frigging idiot...

is it that difficult to just give a proper advice or comment without being so aggressive calling people idiots?? if you can't be polite enough then just don't reply, the last thing i want is an advice from someone who can't respect himself & others.

I don't show respect or politeness to idiots and deluded twits like you. The world would be such a better place, without you lot around. And to think that some of you fuckers have the audacity to breed...

God help you...you are sick believe me or maybe just a pathetic kid...it shows from your words...you think you'll live forever? you'll live a miserable life, there is God in this world you don't live by your own rules...life can flip in a second and everything in your life that you think is perfect and u deserve it will be against you and u will be so miserable believe me...people who r not "Humans" like u shouldn't live at all,,,those who don't feel other's and don't think of others feeling ..am sure u r an unemployed teenager who stays at home doing nothing but to answer girls on their problems like girls who enjoy gossips..get a life and go find a job and try to be human..i hope every sadness u cause to people by ur irresponsible words and actions get back to u and to ur loved ones...enjoy being cursed forever

Typical Virgo - argumentative and always thinking they're right.

When I was a kid, if I said or did something stupid, someone would point it out and I'd learn from it. Nowadays, in the age of political correctness and appeasing libtards, it's not cool to say such things because that person's feelings have to be taken into account. And where has this softly, softly approach gotten us? With a bunch of so-called young adults who are as thick as two short planks (irrespective of academic and professional achievements).

Start owning up to (and learning from) your own shit and maybe, just maybe, you'll garner the respect and politeness you deserve. Because, without any genuine merit, you deserve nothing for your self-entitled, deluded bullshit...

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Looool sorry but u made me laugh so hard...this is the first time I see someone who is explaiing with confidence that he is right for calling people stupid and they dont deserve to live and just want people to totally accept it ...this is something only mentally ill and uneducated people do...ain't gonna waste more time on u, but just a tiny information: no one in this world will accept be called stupid whether he/she is a Virgo or not u astrology freak ..it seems u have no life and nothing to do but living a virtual life in this website..i started to feel sorry for u...also, respecting people should be a habit u get raised with...but this is only if u were raised well and if u ever had parents to teach u the fundamentals of being a good human being...and on another note i dont know why u sound so annoyed with my life and with my question and with my thread? Did ur gf leave u for a Libra? Why do u find this thread so offensive i don't understand loool... if that makes u feel better he texted me today saying that he will visit the country i live in (as a very successful engineer; ) in November and he wants to meet me...u feel better? Or maybe worse? Go find a life plz because i have one that's real outside the internet cage u pathetic unemployed live in ..i got what i want from this website...bye 😉