what, is he thinking ??

Me, again. I really don't know why I let my ex Libra get under my skin but he does.

Apparently, his fianc?e dumped him because I told her that we are having an affair. I told him in all the time we were together he should know me by now. Does he really think that I told her stories? Then he looked at me sheepishly and said no, I don't think that you did.
Then he accused my cousin that is friends with his girl. I told him. I don't think it is her because she really does care about him. Then he was on to some guy that likes me that gym with him.
He was really determined to find someone to blame instead of dealing with the true which is that we are not together.

Then he ask me about a photo of me and my god son. He is getting some big Blah, blah??_ then he says —when are we making our own??.

Then I asked him that I never knew that he wanted kids. Then He got this look like he did something wrong. And he said that he has to go.

What the hell, really. Yes, he didn't say that he wanted kids with me.But what is his problem. He really should think about the things he says.

Hi guys, I am going away for the weekend. I won't be logging in till monday

Is he your Ex? If so why are you entertaining him?

Bella79 this Libra has you wrapped round his insecure lil finger! You need to STOP allowing him to use you the way he does. This guy knows how you feel about him and he certainly knows how to keep you hooked on him... Talking about babies and ish with you when he has asked for another womans hand in marraige.... I mean what's all that about?

He has your emotions all twisted up and hanging on to his 'well you never know, maybe we may just get it together' foolishness, and all this is to ensure he at least knows SOMEONE still cares about him! Think about it girl, your allowing him to come in and out of your life just as he pleases cos he knows you WILL always be hanging around for his return. He doesn't respect you, neither does he care for your feelings, STOP taking his CRUMBS and think HARD about the way this guy is disrespectibg you, time and time again. Tell him to P'OFF and you got to mean it.

My stance on your relationship hasn't changed. You freak the bejesus out of him. I suspect his feelings are really intense for you and so when you say things like the comment about the childs, it freaks him out and he runs away to think. You know about what you said, what he said, what he SHOULD have said, what you should have said, what he should have said to that and roundy, roundy, round.

I think he is overwhelmed and terrified of the potential with you. If you have ever read my posts, you know I NEVER say that. I think this is the one off just because I recognize myself so clearly in his actions.

That being said, I don't know if there is anything you could do to fix it. It might just be one of those intense passions that never turns into a lasting relationship in this lifetime.

Posted by little_sparrow
That being said, I don't know if there is anything you could do to fix it. It might just be one of those intense passions that never turns into a lasting relationship in this lifetime.

First I had a great weekend with friends. Feel so relaxed.

I know that I should not let him get under my skin but he does. We were in the company of other peole and I didn't want to act like a bitter ex. And the photo was in my wallet.

little_sparrow,you are right about the passion between us, BUTI really don't want to be with him anymore.I really had enough of his comimg and going and changing his mind all the time.And he was the one making comments about kids.

He always sid that he didn't want kids So, I was just surprised that he talked like that. And did he want me to say ?

Meant to say:" What did he want me to say? "

Most of the time ignore him.

I agree with little_sparrow he has strong feelings for you...so I believe when he made that comment about you breaking up his other relationship he was being honest; however, he was being deceitful about how you broke up the relationship. I believe he's the one who told his fiance about you because his feelings for you are so strong that he had to....but....

I am in a similar situation however I have a rule for these situations and that is if he doesn't tell you then "his personal problems/issues ain't your red wagon so don't pull it up the hill" Until he is able to either tell you how he feels or deal with his feeling then go on about your life. He'll either figure it out or die with it!

Lately have been having so much fun, must be the holidays.

TruLibra, you are right. He is hinting that we meet but I get the feeling that he wants me to say the words. I guess, that if I changes his mind then he gets to blame me... again.


He saw me with a consultant from out of town . Now he wants to know if it is my boyfriend.

HAve to run ..

Posted by Bella79


TruLibra, you are right. He is hinting that we meet but I get the feeling that he wants me to say the words. I guess, that if I changes his mind then he gets to blame me... again.


He saw me with a consultant from out of town . Now he wants to know if it is my boyfriend.

HAve to run ..

The Libra guy friend I wrote about in my thread tried that with me....he's been acting like a true jackass so I told him...he gets mad and blames me for HIS behavior. He got cussed out for his troubles, and almost got called out of his name. I don't care how strong your feelings for someone are they do not get a free pass to come at you half a $ $ or treat you in a disrespectful manner...to quote my favorite movie of all time, 'What's Love Got To Do With It?'

P.S. I'm one of those different kind of libras....one of the rare ones that really don't give an ish about keeping the peace!

Sorry, had to run to a brief meeting.


Ag, all this attention from him is just games.

He is never going to change .He will always have his eye on the horizone for someone else... That is just how he is.I am sure he just wants me to stroke his ego then he will be gone.

And him asking if the other guy is my boyfriend is just that he thought that I will sit and wait for him.

What you just said is what I would say to him as a response

I am sure that he won't take me seriously. I am sure that he is testing me. I gave into him so much in the past.

and I knw that all this , is just cause he is going through something. But the moment his situation comes right , he wil be MIA.
He has turned into someone I don't even know or like. The jerk that he is now, is not the person I loved.

This guy was my first love and I loved him so completely. And it took me such a long time to get over him.

If he was your first love and had as big of an impact on you emotionally as you say above then you need to protect yourself by moving on with your life.

thanks to all that responded . I am having some much fun being single and I will not to let him under my skin again.

I went out clubbing with friends I saw him with some guys. We greeted eachother. My friends said that he was looking at me a lot. I got home at 03:00 this morning. And I got a call from Libra( he has a private number), wanting to know why I am ignoring him and wanting to know where I am.And wanting to come to my house to see if I went home alone.

I told him that I am in bed with my boyfriend( a guy that he can't stand). I lied. I don't have a boyfriend , but I don't want him anymore.