Whats the real differences Libra woman& Libra man

I've met a nice guy and he's Libra cusp, born 22nd Oct 1973. Dont know the time of birth. We have only been on 4 dates and at this stage seem to be very similar and quite compatitable. Just curious as to what is the real differences between a Libra woman and man in relationships. At this stage he is full on and asking all the tough questions like what I think is the ideal situation with us and talking long term...Is this just the Libran male, jump right in there too fast and then think later and back out? I've read up on some in here but never really shown much interest until now.

We live in different countries so maybe he just wants clarity over my thoughts, to the point where the question has been raised as to one moving to be closer in the future. I'm reserved and think we should just be taking it for what it is at this stage a nice friendship that could possibly be more.

As I am the reserved one and not throwing myself at him or pushing the realtionship statis...is that making me more appealing? Is this just the hunt as I did leave without sex, way too soon in my book!

What happened to the Leo? I have no idea. I have never been attracted to a Libra man so I can't help. Just wanted to touch base, say hi, and ask about hte Leo.

hugs sweets

Turned out to be a TOTAL JERK!!! Amazing really how some portray & fabricate themselves on the internet or use for their own personal gain...learnt a very good lesson there!

And then when i wasnt looking out of the blue this guy shows up...almost didnt even give him a chance. it was my girlfriend that had us swap numbers and I'm so glad she did. Think from now I will listen especially to my friends...sometimes we are too involved in what we want to hear and see to actually see what is real. I hope he isnt too good to be true...think i need a break!

Oh no! I am sorry to hear that Sweets. Glad you have a new guy on the hook though. Dating can be tough. I think I am prolonging my getting out there again as much as possible. Sending you a hug.

Thanks LS, actually was quite upsetting but Mr Libra/Scorp has helped to lift me and stop me returning to the "hate men" mode!

Still slowly slowly is the way I'm feelling which is why I want answers to the way he is full steam ahead!

So Hypno, can you give me some clues there on the Scorp nature mixed with Libra? I thought Scorps were supposedly the best...scorp board always has heaps of women chasing & desparate to understand them. I had experience with one but he was so hot & cold! The again wouldn't his character be more Libra? seems to be...

Got ya!

As I said we are in different countries (geez I cant do anything without complicating it!!! (**Shakes head**) It's my home land so definite pull there but happy where I am at the moment.

I guess his logical mind is trying to find out if he is going to be wasting time...he's definitely interesting in pursuing as he has stated that I'm worth that & he would like a relationship with me but I'm thinking he's wanting to know and hoping that I'd be the one moving is what I'm getting...Or that it will be a consideration in time...

Personally, yes I think he'd be great HOWEVER I feel kinda rushed into talking about things that are not normally talked about til a little further on down the track! I have suggested that he slow down with all the questioning and get to know each other more and that perhaps it is better this way as all we have for now is talk time.

I guess after everything I've been through I'm glad we are at a distance as I'd probably throw myself right in there and there is some mending I have to do before anything happens. it would almost feel like a re-bound!

OHHHH, just got the reason behind all the hard questions...he split with a long term partner a couple of months ago and wants to put into perspective what he really wants in his life!

Not sure I know how I feel there...however best he sorts his shit out before I get dragged into it! Libra's and their exs!!

Ohh yeah. You don't want to get involved in a "I'm trying to find myself" senerio. They usually end in heart-ache.

Funny, you say that LS cos i'm starting to finally listen... not only to my inner voice a little more but also to the people that see things a whole lot more clearly than me...being too close to a situation! And rather than being so suspicious and guarded taking on others advice...particularly the ones that are more in the know through their own unfortunate experiences! Tiki is a prime example of someone whom commented on Leo and I didnt really want to hear but she was right on the ball!!!

Oh there are so many differences between the men and women. If you take a Libra woman with all of her flaws (our flakiness, the way we flirt just a little too much, our ability to cut you off and never look back) and times it by 10, that's a Libra man. I dated two and I'm friends with three. They are the funniest men I know, but I could never "go there". They're just no reliable enough for me and they like pretty, shiny things.

Never deal with a Libra that's been in a long-term relationship (and for us, "long" can even mean six months lol) and recently got out of one. I guarantee you he's still trying to win her back or would take her back in a second. He was probably really comfortable and misses that and is searching for affection and validation.

Actually the balls in his court, she wants him back, he was the one that walked because he didnt want what she wanted....but yeah you are right as a Libra myself i know the exs are always in the picture because we never break with them on horrible terms always wanting to be friends after the fact! Friends to suit our own needs and egos! That times 10...Bloody hell REALLY—

a penis !