Why libra has to be nice to gal he don't like?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by AquaAngel on Saturday, June 23, 2012 and has 3 replies.

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@AquaAngel
14 Years

Okay even being a easy-going and friendly aquarius,
this is something I dont get.

1. He would always be there for me when I need a listening hear.
Even it means scarificing a whole night of sleep and next day to work.

2. Always ensuring if I doing grocesories and need help I can call him anytime.

3. Waiting hours for me just to make sure I'm not alone outside at night.

4. He will always buy things he thinks I may need and never want to be paid back anyway.

5. He will take any day, any time off from work just to accompany me.

etc... ...

(i'm aware not many people nowadays do things without a reason to. esp guys being nice all having a reason to becasue they are interested in more)

BUT,

1. Almost 9 out of 10 sms was initiated by me.
Same goes to topic. (after some time i already feel I am the one disturbing his life, we only talk ALOT due to our air sign, we communicate well.)

2. He only have eyes on japanese celebrities thus I'm almost nothing in his eyes.

3. most guys i know of whose interested will show something like morning/ night sms, but he has never show that.

(i know it might not be as crucial to all people, but there's really nothing much I can feel he is really interested in "going" towards me.)

I got a feeling this libra guy is just treating me as what his character is.
Someone please give me another voice to be certain on this before I take it more serious.

Is it true libra is all like that, being nice thats all?

ps: no rudeness please, just wanted real sincere understandings.

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@LibraRose
14 Years

He seems like he is giving you lots of attention. It would please me. I can't stand communicating by sms - hate it. For me it's not real communication so he may not realise how important it is to you. Don't know about the Japanese thing. Sorry.

I think he likes you. Be friendly back and let it take it's natural course.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by LibraRose
He seems like he is giving you lots of attention. It would please me. I can't stand communicating by sms - hate it. For me it's not real communication so he may not realise how important it is to you. Don't know about the Japanese thing. Sorry.

I think he likes you. Be friendly back and let it take it's natural course.

+1

But don't get too attached to what he does for you. It could change in a heartbeat.

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@AquaAngel
14 Years

@Librarose Thankyou so much for your input it's at least helpful to me. At least I've somewhat an idea from someone with experience. Thankyou..

@beautifulsoul74 Thankyou for replying to me as well. I think yesterday I am alreday sensing a different. I dont know would there be a drastic or gradual change but I think I've decided to "move out" from situation like this.

Being there's totally absolutely nothing wrong with him, rather just I dont know how to make things at balance.
I dont know how to be with someone who absolutely caring, nice and able to connect mentally and spiritually so well without being grateful by giving him back more.
So I think if that's all it is that he prefers to be, I shall try to make everything casual and normal.
Trying to balance things is never aquarius strength, we dream and drift alot or we get rather too serious, we either care alot or we dont,.