@boots1313 - I understand your point of view. Its not that there is anything hidden, I am not saying that, her behaviour to me is weird. Theres no issue with being proper friends with no hidden agendas and motives. Being mates means sharing stuff, meeting up and having a laugh but respecting the boundaries.
She is married and I doubt I am an option, I don't want to be one either. Its the advice she gives without me even asking for it lol.