Let's be real...

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by RooSagicorn
Why take her to a $ 200 dinner if you just want sex? Does she owe you sex for a dinner that price?

Jfc

Is that what I asked? No.

Seriously, why is it a man asks this question and is met with some accusitory bull shit? Do ya'll even know me? It's not like I haven't been here for 10+ years. Do ya'll even look to see who proposed the question before you respond?

Sorry I didn’t mean you specifically, it was more a curiosity question when someone takes one out to a $ 200 dinner. Not intended to be accusatory but more to understand the intent of the person paying.

I can’t answer the question for myself since it doesn’t apply. But the type of person you asked the question about maybe they feel it’s expected. I don’t know. I just wanted a bigger picture of the scenario.

That’s crazy... pricer dates don’t have to end in sex.... I just expect them to 🤷🏾‍♂️.

I think women need to be more cognizant of dating situations. When a 200 date is 8 to 10 hours of your persons work. It’s not the same as if it’s 3 hours or 30 hours. Socioeconomics plays a part.

Guys should know their limits too. Don’t try to impress a chick that’s out your price range or if she plays with expectations leave her where you found her.

There is a reason prostitutions been around since the beginning of time also. Don’t dismiss that mans biggest driver for engaging with a woman is lust, not partnership.

I don’t see men running around saying... gosh that Suzy would be great to watch a movie with and cuddle...

As much as people scream gender equality and down with toxic masculinity... gender roles work for a reason. It sets a hierarchy, just make sure you are respecting each other.

I personally feel men should lead and women should manage, and you can still be a team.

Thanks for answering haha expect them to. I have heard some women say they thought they owed it for dinner, so I was curious. I know a little twist from the original question but that’s where my mind went. And yes definitely the amount of money is different to different people of different income levels.

Not all men want sex or are about lust. Some want a relationship & to get to know you first. I personally am not having sex with someone cuz they bought me a nice dinner & really I would rather that type of dinner if we’ve been dating for awhile & sex happens cuz we are together & I want to, not about any material things or if you’re hot or good-looking. It’s more about feelings.

I don’t disagree with gender roles. But I do want a partnership. I haven’t quite figured that out 🤷‍♀️ Too many males being intimidated by a women having a career out there.. or maybe I’m not meeting the right ones! 😉 I need to go back to the city lol

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I agree with partnership. And that’s where the breakdown starts happening and relationships start deteriorating. Being a roommate and being a partner is two different things. People wake up now a days and wonder why they aren’t happy or cheat or whatever. You have individual goals and couple goals. They have to be in sync to make it.

I would love if my partner and I can have careers and a successful relationship. But there still needs to be time put towards our partnership on all levels for it to work.