Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.click to expand