I've come to realize I get bored unless I am interacting with other alpha types. Sag Sun/Aries Moon.... Typically what happens is I overly dominate, and end up being the pack leader. That doesn't normally work in romantic relationships though I've come to realize (most recently with an Aqua Sun/Aries Moon).... We were sitting discussing a trip to Mardi Gras this year and my good friend of a decade who is older a Cancer Sun/Gemini Moon was shutting down quite a bit of what the Aqua was saying and the aqua got quiet until we got outside and just went off about her. How she's selfish, doesn't listen, know it all etc etc... I laughed and was like what just like you? She started seething but I was trying to tell her You have to learn and adapt to deal with alphas or you will get marginalized.
Other than compromising in your romantic relationships (taking turns making decisions, etc) . Do you see alpha-alpha relationships as the most compatible for long term success? how do you deal with friends like this?