Can two alphas work relationships/friendships?

I've come to realize I get bored unless I am interacting with other alpha types. Sag Sun/Aries Moon.... Typically what happens is I overly dominate, and end up being the pack leader. That doesn't normally work in romantic relationships though I've come to realize (most recently with an Aqua Sun/Aries Moon).... We were sitting discussing a trip to Mardi Gras this year and my good friend of a decade who is older a Cancer Sun/Gemini Moon was shutting down quite a bit of what the Aqua was saying and the aqua got quiet until we got outside and just went off about her. How she's selfish, doesn't listen, know it all etc etc... I laughed and was like what just like you? She started seething but I was trying to tell her You have to learn and adapt to deal with alphas or you will get marginalized.

Other than compromising in your romantic relationships (taking turns making decisions, etc) . Do you see alpha-alpha relationships as the most compatible for long term success? how do you deal with friends like this?

Interesting…

There’s gotta be polarity somewhere.

So it was two females and the Cancer female socially dominated the Aquarius female?

I wanna go to Mardi Gras with you guys!!!!!

Oh! Nvm. I see it already happened 😔

Oh boy, aqua alpha is a different monster altogether. They will insist on being right, sometimes like a bulldozer if they're extra stubborn. Anyway. Glad to know you like aries mooners. 😉

Out of curiosity - why exactly do you call yourself an alpha? 🤔

Are you some big gang leader, a master chef, some official appointed in a position of leadership - like the chief of police or a general of the army, or at least a millionaire - while running a competitive business? Do you have any title like that to show for - in real life - that is (walking the talk)? 🤨

Must like to do the chores the other person despises. That’s all I got

Posted by hellosaggy

I've come to realize I get bored unless I am interacting with other alpha types. Sag Sun/Aries Moon.... Typically what happens is I overly dominate, and end up being the pack leader. That doesn't normally work in romantic relationships though I've come to realize (most recently with an Aqua Sun/Aries Moon).... We were sitting discussing a trip to Mardi Gras this year and my good friend of a decade who is older a Cancer Sun/Gemini Moon was shutting down quite a bit of what the Aqua was saying and the aqua got quiet until we got outside and just went off about her. How she's selfish, doesn't listen, know it all etc etc... I laughed and was like what just like you? She started seething but I was trying to tell her You have to learn and adapt to deal with alphas or you will get marginalized.

Other than compromising in your romantic relationships (taking turns making decisions, etc) . Do you see alpha-alpha relationships as the most compatible for long term success? how do you deal with friends like this?

Humans aren't dogs.

Nah I'm just wondering what you call a man who doesn't really care about being a leader and would rather be dominated. Would that make me a beta male?

Cus according to what I read about myself (astrological-wise) I'm suppose to be the dominate male but somehow I don't see where.

Is "being alpha" still a thing? I thought that was part of the last (millennial) generation

“speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.”

Being loud , obnoxious doesn’t really work for most.

You're double fire... don't get me wrong, I have a lot of fire placements as a Scorpio sun. I love all three fire signs and even had a sag boyfriend for five years. I have and have had the best friendships with Leo women and men. Aries are flawless... but your ego is your enemy as my Pisces boyfriend would say... I as a Scorpio could kill you... your not alpha. No one is scared of you! You're not the leader of the pack. It's your imagination. Just stop. Because I will deflate your ego. Get rid of it... or we can tango, respond

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Nah I'm just wondering what you call a man who doesn't really care about being a leader and would rather be dominated. Would that make me a beta male?

Cus according to what I read about myself (astrological-wise) I'm suppose to be the dominate male but somehow I don't see where.

That's just a Gemini mate. I'm the same

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True dat! I'll be back to respond further to this. I'm about to head out for some caffeine and some more dipping snuff. Without those two the world feel like its coming to an end for me.

Posted by rabidtalker

Is "being alpha" still a thing? I thought that was part of the last (millennial) generation

sigma is the new alpha