You'd think at #3 you'd be numb by now.
My Capricorn dad had a Leo wife similar. I went to war with her. It almost got violent. But, I'm a Gemini dominant Aries so, I always wind up with excellent strategy. I won the petty battles she started. She actually became of her own games. That year I had to battle two Leo women. The other was a Scorpio male friend's ex-girlfriend. At one time, I was in court with my dad and Scorpio on the same day at the same time about these women.
At the end of the day, I knew possession is 9/10ths of the law and told everyone that she would not tell us when he dies. So, I said my peace, goodbyes in my mind... year by year, moments at a time well before he died.
So, when the day cane and he died, she called three weeks later.explaining to a cousin her grievances and why she did not tell his family....the whole fam knew I was right. I'm sure my dad knew she would do this.
Life is painful. Zoom out. Realize what you hsve power, control over, and let go.
I could say so much more about my analysis of my dad and the Scorpio's parts of this. But, it too much, too deep. Let's just say the knew exactly who they were with and why. It was a window to their character in ways that I really didn't want to know. At some point, I confronted them with my analysis. The Scorpio's was the darkest.