"thrill seeking dare devil who loves to live on the edge.... not really, but I
It's ok. We know everyone thinks we are crazy.
Basically I find it a complete waste of time to speak to someone unless they can help. "talking about things helps" is not part of the Aries vocabulary.
We like to DO things. Sitting around talking seems like a waste of time when we could be DOING something. Can you ask her out for a coffee and brainstorm job ideas. Go through the Want ads together. If she needs a job, she needs a JOB, not some counsellor (unless they have heaps of good ideas.)
Keep being proactive about catching up. If we are in a bad place it is very hard for us to reach out and admit that we are in a bad place and need to know someone cares. It's not one of our super powers.