My ex inlaws (her Aunty and Nana) are there for her to lend the cry on shoulder P. My ex mother in law is as good as me for the cry on your shoulder and a really good replacement, funny enough, her and I will say the exact same things.
I don't want to jump and rescue her because I honestly want it over, for her own good. She was supporting his dumb arse and I had them here for a year and a half trying to get him working. If she decides to come home, it has to be over between them because we have been through this once before and it'd be de ja vue at my expense!
I know she has to deal with it and will but it pains me to see her status's on FB about her feelings. Stuff like FML, (took me a while to figure out what that meant!) and I just realised I got his name tattooed on me WTF I feel so stupid. Kids and putting everything on FB!!
Luckily she is well loved and has a few close friends both there and on the phone that she can release to that also keep me posted without letting her know they are. Turns out he was texting and talking with someone on their mobile and she found that out a few weeks ago and hit him up about it.
I've wanted to say something to him but won't because I have nothing positive to say to him and will anger her if I do, so putting it here helps me pull my head in!