How do you know?

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There are a bunch of website that give you some things to look for, here's one: http://consciouslifenews.com/ive-found-twin-flame/<BR>
But imo you just know, without a shadow of a doubt you KNOW and no matter how much you try to convince yourself your just some obsessed love sick puppy the thought (knowledge) just persists louder and louder until you give in or do what i've done and drive the person away. I knew my tf was something MORE from day 1 long before I knew what a twin flame was. Only now after learning of twin flames do I finally understand what's been happening.

As I understand it a lot of twin flames are coming into existence at the same time in this lifetime as we are in a pivotal time in our evolution. Still learning though...
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I've also written poetry about it and it explains in detail what I felt. I have to say; that each journey is different. But it's the feeling of knowing; the feeling of recognition; the feeling of being at home not only with them but with in yourself.
You look at their eyes and you recognize them; you don't know from where, but in your gut; in your soul you know you have. Their voice is familiar, you want to know them more; all fears go away at the moment because you for care about them; all you care about is how you feel when your around them.
You listen when they speak; truly listen because your intrigued by what the have to say; where they come from; been, what they have been through. Your open to them; things you would never say , not even to your most trusted friend or family member, you tell them. Your a 100 % honest about everything, when I mean everything, I mean everything.
They see past your flaws and you see past theirs.

And then the hard part comes; you begin to fear they might leave you; walk out of your life; you forget to take things slow; to keep a tight hold, you begin to project your fears of being lied to; being hurt; being abandoned; the confidence you once has is gone. You begin to think about them; dream about them; borderline obsess over them. Even if they tell you to give them a chance to think; to breath; space, you think they are trying to leave you alone to deal with the emotional inbalance you feel. So you lash how; you tell them what they lack( not knowing that you only know because they are a reflection of you), you point out their flaws, you aim to hurt to keep them with you, not knowing that what your doing is hurting them and that causes them to pull, yet you push, and push and push, and push until you can't anymore because they are gone. So what are you left with? Agony; pain; unanswered questions, fear, regret, resentment, yet you love them despite these facts. You try to forget, and thinking of them gets worse.

You feel a push and pull effect. When you pull; he or she will push; if you push; they pull.
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Posted by Sagittarius2315
I've also written poetry about it and it explains in detail what I felt. I have to say; that each journey is different. But it's the feeling of knowing; the feeling of recognition; the feeling of being at home not only with them but with in yourself.
You look at their eyes and you recognize them; you don't know from where, but in your gut; in your soul you know you have. Their voice is familiar, you want to know them more; all fears go away at the moment because you for care about them; all you care about is how you feel when your around them.
You listen when they speak; truly listen because your intrigued by what the have to say; where they come from; been, what they have been through. Your open to them; things you would never say , not even to your most trusted friend or family member, you tell them. Your a 100 % honest about everything, when I mean everything, I mean everything.
They see past your flaws and you see past theirs.

And then the hard part comes; you begin to fear they might leave you; walk out of your life; you forget to take things slow; to keep a tight hold, you begin to project your fears of being lied to; being hurt; being abandoned; the confidence you once has is gone. You begin to think about them; dream about them; borderline obsess over them. Even if they tell you to give them a chance to think; to breath; space, you think they are trying to leave you alone to deal with the emotional inbalance you feel. So you lash how; you tell them what they lack( not knowing that you only know because they are a reflection of you), you point out their flaws, you aim to hurt to keep them with you, not knowing that what your doing is hurting them and that causes them to pull, yet you push, and push and push, and push until you can't anymore because they are gone. So what are you left with? Agony; pain; unanswered questions, fear, regret, resentment, yet you love them despite these facts. You try to forget, and thinking of them gets worse.

You feel a push and pull effect. When you pull; he or she will push; if you push; they pull.



100% on target
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Posted by Sagittarius2315
I've also written poetry about it and it explains in detail what I felt. I have to say; that each journey is different. But it's the feeling of knowing; the feeling of recognition; the feeling of being at home not only with them but with in yourself.
You look at their eyes and you recognize them; you don't know from where, but in your gut; in your soul you know you have. Their voice is familiar, you want to know them more; all fears go away at the moment because you for care about them; all you care about is how you feel when your around them.
You listen when they speak; truly listen because your intrigued by what the have to say; where they come from; been, what they have been through. Your open to them; things you would never say , not even to your most trusted friend or family member, you tell them. Your a 100 % honest about everything, when I mean everything, I mean everything.
They see past your flaws and you see past theirs.





I feel all the above with the person..however i recently have decided to just be his "friend" We are not physical any longer I am okay with that learning to love without sex might just be a great thing for me..I know he and I have a grea

And then the hard part comes; you begin to fear they might leave you; walk out of your life; you forget to take things slow; to keep a tight hold, you begin to project your fears of being lied to; being hurt; being abandoned; the confidence you once has is gone. You begin to think about them; dream about them; borderline obsess over them. Even if they tell you to give them a chance to think; to breath; space, you think they are trying to leave you alone to deal with the emotional inbalance you feel. So you lash how; you tell them what they lack( not knowing that you only know because they are a reflection of you), you point out their flaws, you aim to hurt to keep them with you, not knowing that what your doing is hurting them and that causes them to pull, yet you push, and push and push, and push until you can't anymore because they are gone. So what are you left with? Agony; pain; unanswered questions, fear, regret, resentment, yet you love them despite these facts. You try to forget, and thinking of them gets worse.

You feel a push and pull effect. When you pull; he or she will push