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My Taurus coworker is lazy af. I literally got him the job, so a little bit of effort would be nice.

He’s also a very large man. Over 6ft and just big, so he’s hot all the time and therefore thinks he has dominion over the thermostat in the lab we work in. So basically I’m freezing cold or have to deal with him sweating and huffing and puffing all day.

Typical me vs Taurus men shit. They think they are in charge and they are in fact not
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The weekend was rough. Sunday was the worst, because I knew I had to wake up early Monday and do a ton of work. Every single time I have something serious to deal with the next day after any period away from work, my chances of sleeping are 0% . Its what I call pretend sleep. Thats when you lay there with your eyes closed for 3 to 6 hours, but never actually fall asleep. Then the second you might actually achieve deep sleep, it's time to get up. So it's whatever, and something quite common for me after a weekend. So I got everything done Monday and thought "I'm going to go home, and sleep a good 12 hours." Which I could have actually achieved, but right before I passed out I thought to myself I should probably eat something today. So I ordered something from Subway on my phone. I know that's not the best place to eat, but I didn't want greasy fast-food, and God knows I wasn't about to cook anything. My fridge is empty anyway, and I'm tired of egg sandwiches. So I ordered my 700 calorie sub, and ate it. Then laid down extreamly fatigued ready to sleep. Then my throat started to feel like it was swelling shut. Idk if I have some type of food allergy I don't know about, or if I actually got food poisoning. All I know is every time I was about to fall asleep, I'd either fully awake again from not breathing, or hear myself semi snoor instantly throwing me out of the sleeping loop. That mixed with excessive sweating, which turned into intense anxiety. So now I'm fully awake on dxpnet, and if I went to sleep now, would get a little over 6 hours. I'm so pissed because I wanted a good 12 hours of sleep. I'm going to be absolutely fucked tomorrow. I'm hungry af, there is no fucking food anywhere, and I can't fucking sleep.

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Posted by nanochip
My Taurus coworker is lazy af. I literally got him the job, so a little bit of effort would be nice.


He’s also a very large man. Over 6ft and just big, so he’s hot all the time and therefore thinks he has dominion over the thermostat in the lab we work in. So basically I’m freezing cold or have to deal with him sweating and huffing and puffing all day.


Typical me vs Taurus men shit. They think they are in charge and they are in fact not


I used to work with a giant Taurus. 6'9 and 330lbs. Nothing hot about him though. He looked just like Morgan freeman.
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Posted by nanochip
My Taurus coworker is lazy af. I literally got him the job, so a little bit of effort would be nice.

He’s also a very large man. Over 6ft and just big, so he’s hot all the time and therefore thinks he has dominion over the thermostat in the lab we work in. So basically I’m freezing cold or have to deal with him sweating and huffing and puffing all day.

Typical me vs Taurus men shit. They think they are in charge and they are in fact not

I used to work with a giant Taurus. 6'9 and 330lbs. Nothing hot about him though. He looked just like Morgan freeman.
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Oh wait my bad. I thought you meant he's hot as in sexy hot. Come to think of it, you don't see many hot Taurus men these days. John Cena probably.
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My Aries work colleague has been complaining to me about a lot of work-related stuff - most of which requires patience and resolve to see them through.


I don't mind providing a shoulder to lean on but, today especially, it has been draining.


aries are super involved at work from what i've seen. must've been pretty stressful for her to bring it up.
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My Aries work colleague has been complaining to me about a lot of work-related stuff - most of which requires patience and resolve to see them through.

I don't mind providing a shoulder to lean on but, today especially, it has been draining.
aries are super involved at work from what i've seen. must've been pretty stressful for her to bring it up.
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Oh, so you're being civil to me now?


Yes and no. What she's experiencing is nothing unfamiliar but she's afraid of talking to our boss about it. It makes no logical sense, as she has confessed far more personal details to our boss in the past.


I suppose that's one of the downsides of being an extrovert - in her situation, I would have dealt with the issues alone without drawing other people in unnecessarily.

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why? we're not talking about capricorn men rn silly goose.
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It was an emotionally exhausting day and to be fair, I could very well be the asshole in this situation. But.. I think my best friend has main character syndrome. She never once said, so. How's life, how's work. I understand her difficult situation but sis... C'mon. The fact that she's made me feel guilty for being a "bad friend" just adds more fuel to the fire. Not once in the past two years has she said, "don't worry about, I'll drive us there, I'll pick you up.. let me take care of it." And yet I'm trekking halfway across town on a workday to do something she really needs.

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I'm frustrated with a female friend I want more of. I brought this up and got copeout excuses. Either she is being dishonest to me or herself. Those excuses she gave me I know for a fact aren't true. I've seen how she is with others and I understand her to a degree that I have a good idea what she is keeping from me. The latter I take offense to because that means she doesn't trust me. I told her repeatedly I would accept and understand so long as it was the truth. Even one of her excuses is her supposed greatest fear, her level of intensity which is something I want and welcome.

Sure, both our lives are a bit of a mess but where there is a will there is a way. Life's too short for excuses. We are only her for so long.

All of This together leaves me in a bad spot.

She is one of if not thee most important person to me and my feelings are on par with that. I'd like to have a honest conversation with her and hash it out because having this up in the air, screws with me immensely. Anything can be hashed out and I'm open to ways of things being, other then what they currently are.

Something has to change.

If that doesn't happen, for my own mental health, I have to decide without real input for her.

Follow the advice I give others myself.

I let it go take her off my priority list, stop chasing & reduce engaging so I don't get caught up again. Put my energy and focus into other areas of life. See what happens later down the road.

Imposse and force the issue to get it resolved now. Get the truth and go from there. I can honestly live with, accept, and work with whatever that is. Because she is worth it even if it's not what I want. I'm open to anything that will work for the both of us.

Last option, I go traditional relationship structure with her. I go normie.

I accept the excuses she gave me. I write her off and say it's not meant to be. Treat her like everyone else and at the level of friendship she treats me.

She is a life time relationship to me. Very important in my life. I just want to find what works for us both in that same spirit.

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He's trying to tell me what to wear, where to go, what to do and then tries to set things straight as if nothing happened. It's not really just a slight inconvenience. Damn I wish I had a place to stay on my own for a while and not talk to anyone at all. Ok I'm lying I'd still want to talk to my Gem bestie.

Ten years ago I was a major fool for giving up on my own place...and I hate it when my mom turns to be right...who also annoys the crap out me all the time😅

Oh and I forgot calling me out on spending MY own money and asking why am I buying so many clothes
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is it a capricorn?
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He's trying to tell me what to wear, where to go, what to do and then tries to set things straight as if nothing happened. It's not really just a slight inconvenience. Damn I wish I had a place to stay on my own for a while and not talk to anyone at all. Ok I'm lying I'd still want to talk to my Gem bestie.

Ten years ago I was a major fool for giving up on my own place...and I hate it when my mom turns to be right...who also annoys the crap out me all the time😅

Oh and I forgot calling me out on spending MY own money and asking why am I buying so many clothes
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is it a capricorn?
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Virgo 🤦‍♀️ sorry😅 I know Virgals are nothing like this, so believe me I'm not putting you all in same basket. It's really just a characteristic of all Earth sign men only, Taurus and Cap were similar, Virgos are just more casually putting it out there, while the other two demand it lol
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meh i've never dated a fellow virgo but i did flirt with one who ended up sending me pics about some BDSM stuff he's obssessed with.
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He's trying to tell me what to wear, where to go, what to do and then tries to set things straight as if nothing happened. It's not really just a slight inconvenience. Damn I wish I had a place to stay on my own for a while and not talk to anyone at all. Ok I'm lying I'd still want to talk to my Gem bestie.

Ten years ago I was a major fool for giving up on my own place...and I hate it when my mom turns to be right...who also annoys the crap out me all the time😅

Oh and I forgot calling me out on spending MY own money and asking why am I buying so many clothes
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is it a capricorn?
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Virgo 🤦‍♀️ sorry😅 I know Virgals are nothing like this, so believe me I'm not putting you all in same basket. It's really just a characteristic of all Earth sign men only, Taurus and Cap were similar, Virgos are just more casually putting it out there, while the other two demand it lol
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meh i've never dated a fellow virgo but i did flirt with one who ended up sending me pics about some BDSM stuff he's obssessed with.
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They are oddly comfortable to do such things for sure 😅 one I went out with brought a gun on the first day - what kind of impression can that leave on me ffs lol another one got extremely comfortable within just few talks going straight to sex topics and asking very personal stuff - which we would never even get into obviously cause he lived in UK lol third one looked very peculiar and had such taste in music as well, but he was extremely soft and sensitive for my taste. This one literally invited himself to my home lol so they can be super weird sometimes
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virgo men are pretty random to me like they could be like super funny (comedians), then they could be into stuff like BDSM, cannibalism fantasies or they're just dudes who wanna spoil you, make you tea whatever. or they could straight up just wanna hangout with prostitutes. or they could just be super cold or they could be just super gentlemanly or they could be obssessed with watching melodramas.

real box of chocolates but i just never really dated one. hell i'm with a pisces tho i think he's a 6th houser tho.