Does Virgos plays mind games in order to make someone fall in love with them?

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Greylatern, The Laughing Heart
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So this Virgo guy in my life shown me unbearable love and affection and when I was seeking unbearable love from him too, he cutted off ties with me. I don't know what happened. He suddenly disappeared from my life and not coming back still. Should I wait for him to come back or Should I approach him by myself?

Be more direct without ultimatums.

Ultimatums can be done much later when you have established a serious relationship & connection and have serious milestones under your belt....and being dodgy commuting still๐Ÿ™ƒ
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Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
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If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
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Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
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Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?
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Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?
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Nope.
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Posted by smiley_smiles
Posted by smiley_smiles
Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

Nope.
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What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?
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Posted by smiley_smiles
Posted by smiley_smiles
Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

Nope.

What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?
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Literally dozens.

Virgos will take alot without saying anything.

Anything from lack of reciprocation of affection to being used. Maybe at some point he felt it was no longer worth the effort.

I am certain there is a bigger story here but does no good to speculate.
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Posted by smiley_smiles
Posted by smiley_smiles
Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

Nope.

What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?

Literally dozens.

Virgos will take alot without saying anything.

Anything from lack of reciprocation of affection to being used. Maybe at some point he felt it was no longer worth the effort.

I am certain there is a bigger story here but does no good to speculate.
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Now what can I do? Wait for him or move on?
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Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
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this guy gets it