So this Virgo guy in my life shown me unbearable love and affection and when I was seeking unbearable love from him too, he cutted off ties with me. I don't know what happened. He suddenly disappeared from my life and not coming back still. Should I wait for him to come back or Should I approach him by myself?
Does Virgos plays mind games in order to make someone fall in love with them?

He will be back if he misses you. All men come back. I have a Virgo who I cut off plenty of times cause he kept disappearing and now he wont leave me alone. And I know he will just keep doing it, if I let him.
Ain't nobody got time for the instability.
Ain't nobody got time for the instability.

Posted by smiley_smiles
So this Virgo guy in my life shown me unbearable love and affection and when I was seeking unbearable love from him too, he cutted off ties with me. I don't know what happened. He suddenly disappeared from my life and not coming back still. Should I wait for him to come back or Should I approach him by myself?
Be more direct without ultimatums.
Ultimatums can be done much later when you have established a serious relationship & connection and have serious milestones under your belt....and being dodgy commuting still๐

Nobody leaves for no reason.
Posted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reasonclick to expand
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?click to expand
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
Posted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.click to expand
Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?
Posted by MadTwins80
They do that disappearing thing to work out their feelings
When he comes back it will probably be with a new level of intimacy. So, yes, wait if you want him. I wouldn't try to contact him
Why he will block me on all social medias without any warning? Doesn't he fear losing me to someone else?

if i leave my toothbrush over at your place
and i don't see it exactly where i left it when i come back,
i'll leave and block you everywhere, no explanation
nothing deep about my reasons or motivations
mind gaming requires staying for desired results
virgos are either devotees or trigger-happy to discard
and i don't see it exactly where i left it when i come back,
i'll leave and block you everywhere, no explanation
nothing deep about my reasons or motivations
mind gaming requires staying for desired results
virgos are either devotees or trigger-happy to discard

Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?click to expand
Nope.
Posted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?
Nope.click to expand
What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?

Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?
Nope.
What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?click to expand
Literally dozens.
Virgos will take alot without saying anything.
Anything from lack of reciprocation of affection to being used. Maybe at some point he felt it was no longer worth the effort.
I am certain there is a bigger story here but does no good to speculate.

Post his chart and I'll show you how it's not a Virgo thing.
Posted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.
Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?
Nope.
What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?
Literally dozens.
Virgos will take alot without saying anything.
Anything from lack of reciprocation of affection to being used. Maybe at some point he felt it was no longer worth the effort.
I am certain there is a bigger story here but does no good to speculate.click to expand
Now what can I do? Wait for him or move on?

Posted by WeedsPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Weeds
Nobody leaves for no reason.
I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason
What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?
If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.
Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.click to expand
this guy gets it
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