How do I make my twin flame fall for me?

Or will they just fall for me if they are my twin flame??And If I don't like the ones that do ..how can i find a better one— :-P

Posted by blackphase
Huh? If they are in fact your twin flame.. you shouldn't have to "make" them do anything.. Have you read about twin flames?

You can't just simply go out and find them.. I wouldn't put so much emphasis on this though.. as twin flames are more of an idea than an actual thing.. But if you had found yours.. you'd know, and so would they.. you wouldn't have to come here and question it.

I am guessing if they are your soulmate ...they and you just know. And if you don't just know....you ain't shit to each other....right? :-)

Posted by OceanBoy88
Twin flames aren't always about true love, well from what I read. Forgot where I saw the topic online...

Oh well I mean soulmates.

Are "twin flames" always opposite gender?
Are "soulmates" always the opposite gender?

Posted by LillyPetal
Are "twin flames" always opposite gender?
Are "soulmates" always the opposite gender?

I was talking in that sense solely ...well I was not talking seriously actually. But if you are ..no of course not. :-)

But if the other does not feel the re-pour of any relationship type..it is not actually there.

Yes, I'm actually not into over-thinking those concepts. I prefer to just let them organically be without classifying what it is and restricting it to parameters. With labels there comes a certain amount of expectation; it's like reading a novel backwards, in a way.

Posted by LillyPetal
Yes, I'm actually not into over-thinking those concepts. I prefer to just let them organically be without classifying what it is and restricting it to parameters. With labels there comes a certain amount of expectation; it's like reading a novel backwards, in a way.

Understanding an intuitive notions rather than a clear definition? I guess you leave the understanding of it to the people involved.

I don't often hear people talk about their twin flame or soulmate in actual life though. Not even in marriages.

So maybe it's an invention of poetry and the troubadours.

Posted by BlondeAmbition

Posted by LillyPetal
Yes, I'm actually not into over-thinking those concepts. I prefer to just let them organically be without classifying what it is and restricting it to parameters. With labels there comes a certain amount of expectation; it's like reading a novel backwards, in a way.

Understanding an intuitive notions rather than a clear definition? I guess you leave the understanding of it to the people involved.

I don't often hear people talk about their twin flame or soulmate in actual life though. Not even in marriages.

So maybe it's an invention of poetry and the troubadours.

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I guess it's how I experience my world. I'm an INFJ, so "feeling" is a big part of how I understand and find meaning. It's difficult for me to verbalize intuition, I suppose. Sometimes people ask me to justify why I feel or think the way I do, and I struggle to articulate myself.