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You guys, just choose a side & state why please. Its a discussion.
Posted by xygeneration
If they're sexy cool but if y'all look repulsive get a room.Im kidding.
PDA should be sweet and cute, no pg 13.
whats acceptable & not?
Posted by Sutekh
On moral grounds, I dont see anything wrong with people taking things to near XXX in publicbut personally Im not big on it.
okay, but what about the minors who'll be watching all that?
Posted by tiziani
As someone that has engaged in all manner of public x rated things and doesn't believe in PDAs, I am proud to announce myself as the greatest hypocrite of all time.I'm not really into any behaviour that makes anyone feel segregated or inferior in a meet-up of friends. That's all I say.
mmm, so what did you get up to, tizzy? You is a freak as the americans put it lol
Posted by xygeneration
No hands going underneath clothing. No private parts showing. No intercourse. No foreplay. No humping.
lol at humping. Personally, i dont like it. Even deep kissing in public is unsavoury because there are kids who'll ask 'mommy, what are they doing?' & parents will be left in an awkward position due to some careless strangers. Im kinda old school lol due to my upbringing & didnt know about the tongue kiss until i was 14 and almost fainted when it happened lol
Posted by Sutekh
On moral grounds, I dont see anything wrong with people taking things to near XXX in publicbut personally Im not big on it.
okay, but what about the minors who'll be watching all that?
good point..
Pg 13. shouldnt be a public porn expo
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what equates pg 13 in your books?
Posted by tiziani
As someone that has engaged in all manner of public x rated things and doesn't believe in PDAs, I am proud to announce myself as the greatest hypocrite of all time.I'm not really into any behaviour that makes anyone feel segregated or inferior in a meet-up of friends. That's all I say.
mmm, so what did you get up to, tizzy? You is a freak as the americans put it lol
Haha all sorts of things.
I think the giveaway into just how far it went was in my second sentence, and that you can assume that everyone in the room felt equal lol
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i like this side of you lol, my inner freak is cheering. high 5!
Posted by xygeneration
As long as no one sees you behind the bush/underneath long-bench chairs/parking lot/library/stairwells then i guess its ok?keep it outta sight..
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said the horse lol. You guys arent afraid to be having an orgy with bugs & other things when ur sexing it up outside? Even sand on the butt is a turnoff...mmm, or maybe not, d/k lol
Posted by ninjafish
Totally a-okay with it. It would be weird if you were with friends or something I guess, but I think I've done it even then although I never initiated in those circumstances. But by PDA here I'm talking affection, not really explicit stuff.I'm totally into public cuddles and kisses 🙂
aww🙂
what kind of kisses thou lol? You'll be massaging his tonsils in full view of people? You guys are brave lol
Posted by xygeneration
I didnt have my first kiss til I was 17. I thought it was the most complicated shit. What lip goes where and how do you turn your head side to side—?
lol! Mine left me nausiated for hours.
Posted by tiziani
😏 High five back!
hey i like that head, how do you make it? Also the shocked one. Geek, teach me some new talent lol
Posted by xygeneration
I didnt have my first kiss til I was 17. I thought it was the most complicated shit. What lip goes where and how do you turn your head side to side—?When people think too much sex sucks 😢
Ive never had a problem with thinking praize geezus. My sun moon,venus let my intuition guide me 😄 I feel may way around
Everyone tends to get over that eventually tho
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lol whatever
Posted by xygeneration
As long as no one sees you behind the bush/underneath long-bench chairs/parking lot/library/stairwells then i guess its ok?keep it outta sight..
I like outdoor sex on a secluded beach I like outdoors dont get me wrong.said the horse lol. You guys arent afraid to be having an orgy with bugs & other things when ur sexing it up outside? Even sand on the butt is a turnoff...mmm, or maybe not, d/k lol
Thats why they have towels 🙂
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k. Still weird thou
What's wrong with kissing in public?
Posted by xygeneration
Or maybe its bc I went to an all girls school that there's more pressure. Girls practised on each other....
hahaha. Me too, all girls secondary school
Posted by ninjafish
Totally a-okay with it. It would be weird if you were with friends or something I guess, but I think I've done it even then although I never initiated in those circumstances. But by PDA here I'm talking affection, not really explicit stuff.I'm totally into public cuddles and kisses 🙂
aww🙂
what kind of kisses thou lol? You'll be massaging his tonsils in full view of people? You guys are brave lolI've mainly been with super fire types, lol. I initiate hugs and stuff but it was always them initiating the 'passionate' style s of kissing or groping, lol. When someone strong takes the lead I don't shy away 😛
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ooh la la 😉
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Kissing's alright but slobbering (with noises) is a bit much imo.
True in direct public view especially on front of friends in family that is going a bit to far ...noises haha!
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
What's wrong with kissing in public?
its gross. Hello btw, nyaa
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Kissing's alright but slobbering (with noises) is a bit much imo.
LOL. fish noises
Posted by xygeneration
As long as no one sees you behind the bush/underneath long-bench chairs/parking lot/library/stairwells then i guess its ok?keep it outta sight..
I like outdoor sex on a secluded beach I like outdoors dont get me wrong.said the horse lol. You guys arent afraid to be having an orgy with bugs & other things when ur sexing it up outside? Even sand on the butt is a turnoff...mmm, or maybe not, d/k lol
Thats why they have towels 🙂
k. Still weird thou
Its fun trust me 🙂 and erotic. Just have to use a beach that's clean which there are plenty.
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i bet it is. I can imagine it, but still not sure if its something id do. Which other public places have you done IT?
Posted by tiziani
😏 High five back!hey i like that head, how do you make it? Also the shocked one. Geek, teach me some new talent lol
Capital H in brackets
I don't know about the other one though
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😏 wicked
Posted by Sutekh
my Venus in Scorpio doesnt want mushy public displays but Im doing everything there could be done to you behind closed doors, kinda hypocritical
hypocritical indeed. Had an nightmarish experience with that placement coupled by a cancer moon. Insane person
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Kissing's alright but slobbering (with noises) is a bit much imo.LOL. fish noises
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I only want to hear fish noises from the pu $ Sy or getting head thats it.
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ooh yuck at a noisy vagine lol. I remember one time sharing a single room with a friend & he BF came over at night, he was a very jealous man. Anyways, i slept on the floor and tried to go back to sleep only to be awakened by her beat boxing vjj in the still of the night. That was super gross
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
What's wrong with kissing in public?its gross. Hello btw, nyaa
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It's gross to even give a peck?
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
What's wrong with kissing in public?its gross. Hello btw, nyaa
It's gross to even give a peck?
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not a peck, but this--> 😛 is lol
Posted by xygeneration
Beatboxing whatttttt lol
yup some vagina got talent lol. I cant describe the noise, but i never wanna hear it again
yes they are pussy farts.... ^.^?
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
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Yes but you can't expect to protect them from that for forever.
And wouldn't rather it be you to be the one to tell them then society?
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Sexually explicit stuff in front of kids would not be cool.
what about in front of pets though
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i think they'll be proud for the simple fact that humans emulate them during sex & not the other way around. Im imagining cats/dogs in missionary position & its fucking hilarious lol
Posted by xygeneration
Yes but its like ppl smoking in public. Its bad for your health. What's bad about sex in public? Its uncomfortable for ppl.Morals are based on how far your comfort zone goes.
exactly & some people arent comfortable seeing that
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Yes but you can't expect to protect them from that for forever.
And wouldn't rather it be you to be the one to tell them then society?click to expand
yes to the Q & im aware that you cant shield them forever, but no 2.3.4.5 or 6 year old should bare witness to some of the things get up to in public..its shameful
Man there is nothing shameful in a kiss.
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Sexually explicit stuff in front of kids would not be cool.
what about in front of pets though
i think they'll be proud for the simple fact that humans emulate them during sex & not the other way around. Im imagining cats/dogs in missionary position & its fucking hilarious lol
I was trying to pull Ninjafish's tail there 😛 lol
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my bad 🙂
Posted by xygeneration
Yeah but really there's nothing wrong with it. Its more about horny ppl being considerate sign should say: THANK YOU FOR NOT SEXING IN PUBLIC. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
lol
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man there is nothing shameful in a kiss.
some people do more than just kissing, ive seen it. Girl sitting on top of a boy in a public park kissing & kids everywhere, thats not right
lol just throw the cat into another room so you don't have to hear it scratching at the door!!
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man there is nothing shameful in a kiss.some people do more than just kissing, ive seen it. Girl sitting on top of a boy in a public park kissing & kids everywhere, thats not right
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K if their are little kids everywhere, then that there is not really appropriate true.
I'm just referring to a kiss... after all you would have to not allow your kid to watch most Disney Films if it were a kiss.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Yes but you can't expect to protect them from that for forever.
And wouldn't rather it be you to be the one to tell them then society?yes to the Q & im aware that you cant shield them forever, but no 2.3.4.5 or 6 year old should bare witness to some of the things get up to in public..its shameful
True. Although if it's a boy and they're like 15 and a son/nephew then just shield their eyes if someone's caught shagging in public haha.
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kids dont forget thou lol. I had a lady who was watching my son when he was close to being 2. She started seeing a mantainance guy at our flat & fucked him at my house. One day i saw my son humping a teddybear & was shocked until somebody told me what was happening while im at work.
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Sexually explicit stuff in front of kids would not be cool.
what about in front of pets though
Lol gross I had an ex who tried this with our cat in the room, no way in hell. I made the ex take him outside and then he was scratching on the door persistently, wanting to come in. Major turn off to have your animal turned on, ughhhhh. Really gross.
lol such a pisces
How? I thought you may have expected me to allow all the animals to join in, in some universal love for all beings thing
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lmao
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man there is nothing shameful in a kiss.some people do more than just kissing, ive seen it. Girl sitting on top of a boy in a public park kissing & kids everywhere, thats not right
K if their are little kids everywhere, then that there is not really appropriate true.
I'm just referring to a kiss... after all you would have to not allow your kid to watch most Disney Films if it were a kiss.click to expand
come on now
Posted by xygeneration
So who has tried it?
tried what? Sorry i spaced out lol
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by xygeneration
Not sure if pdas are based on actual moral grounds. Its more about what people can be comfortable seeing/displaying.Scorp venus *sigh*
when it comes to children seeing that, i think it does. Some parents go out of their way to prevent their kids seeing things like that, so seeing that in a public place no less is not good. Ijs
Yes but you can't expect to protect them from that for forever.
And wouldn't rather it be you to be the one to tell them then society?yes to the Q & im aware that you cant shield them forever, but no 2.3.4.5 or 6 year old should bare witness to some of the things get up to in public..its shameful
True. Although if it's a boy and they're like 15 and a son/nephew then just shield their eyes if someone's caught shagging in public haha.
kids dont forget thou lol. I had a lady who was watching my son when he was close to being 2. She started seeing a mantainance guy at our flat & fucked him at my house. One day i saw my son humping a teddybear & was shocked until somebody told me what was happening while im at work.
Nanny not doing work. "You're fired. Goodbye"
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pretty much lol
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
Not so down with the PDA here. Hand holding and a chaste peck here and there is about all I'm good for. I sure as heck would never be cool with doing anything around children.That being said, I am also a bad, bad hypocrite when it comes to out of the way or at least out of direct sight spaces...
+1 on the 1st part.
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Getting on a high horse here. Go stallion! Hahaha.
Anyways.. on moral grounds, do you think PDA is a right thing to do or think that any form of affection should be left behind closed doors? Whats your stance & how far is too far when in comes to public display of affection?