No contact rule ?!?!?

Is it dumb or does it really help you forget someone quicker —

I'm not talking about getting ex's back in talking about using it for the way it was intended to help you heal and all that shit —


I need to move on and quick

Posted by Nemilicious

Posted by Tinxy
Is it dumb or does it really help you forget someone quicker —

I'm not talking about getting ex's back in talking about using it for the way it was intended to help you heal and all that shit —


I need to move on and quick

It is a good lesson in self discipline. Make yourself proud. The focus becomes more directed to ones own needs and wants. Which might in return help you heal.

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Thank you , I love challenges once I'm decided for good about anything I go for it .. Ride or die stuff lol

I will make myself proud.

🙂

Posted by scorpio19
Do not contact, respond no matter how tempting it is.

It's the way of saying 'it's good in life not to give a SH**'.

Thank you

No contact helps me a lot. It helps the person to fade away if they're not being a constant reminder. Sometimes i do it for short periods of time (a few weeks) to get some breathing space and other times it needs a permanent cut off. So no, it's not stupid. Whatever works for you.

Posted by Tinxy
Is it dumb or does it really help you forget someone quicker —

I'm not talking about getting ex's back in talking about using it for the way it was intended to help you heal and all that shit —


I need to move on and quick

It really does.

You're beginning a new way of doing things EVERY moment

you're doing it, without that person.

Starting new patterns, new memories, and likely, building

new pathways in your brain which will only get stronger

with time.

🙂