TWILIGHT ZONE

people popping out babies left and right, desperately trying to create order out of chaos. What ever happened to structure? I feel like I'm living in a twiggliggt zone, a sunken place of foolishness. Life is a blessing but if it's so sacred, why is everybody just dispensing babies with no thought as to how their life will be impacted, what the future holds for these non traditional relationships, etc. I know its corny and I may not want to hold my breath from trying but marriage really should come first.

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people popping out babies left and right, desperately trying to create order out of chaos. What ever happened to structure? I feel like I'm living in a twiggliggt zone, a sunken place of foolishness. Life is a blessing but if it's so sacred, why is everybody just dispensing babies with no thought as to how their life will be impacted, what the future holds for these non traditional relationships, etc. I know its corny and I may not want to hold my breath from trying but marriage really should come first.

Focus on yourself not everyone else and structure just forms when you have concrete wants and direction.

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This is true, however lets not pretend these decisions don't affect other people intimately.

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people popping out babies left and right, desperately trying to create order out of chaos. What ever happened to structure? I feel like I'm living in a twiggliggt zone, a sunken place of foolishness. Life is a blessing but if it's so sacred, why is everybody just dispensing babies with no thought as to how their life will be impacted, what the future holds for these non traditional relationships, etc. I know its corny and I may not want to hold my breath from trying but marriage really should come first.

Focus on yourself not everyone else and structure just forms when you have concrete wants and direction.

This is true, however lets not pretend these decisions don't affect other people intimately.

Not establishing common sense is your own problem and your partners, no communication, lack of general direction, this includes family.

There is always one that will rebel though, that's life.

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My main point is, Children are establishing relationships, used as a crutch and excuse to bound people that never should have been bound vs the other way around.

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people popping out babies left and right, desperately trying to create order out of chaos. What ever happened to structure? I feel like I'm living in a twiggliggt zone, a sunken place of foolishness. Life is a blessing but if it's so sacred, why is everybody just dispensing babies with no thought as to how their life will be impacted, what the future holds for these non traditional relationships, etc. I know its corny and I may not want to hold my breath from trying but marriage really should come first.

Focus on yourself not everyone else and structure just forms when you have concrete wants and direction.

This is true, however lets not pretend these decisions don't affect other people intimately.

Not establishing common sense is your own problem and your partners, no communication, lack of general direction, this includes family.

There is always one that will rebel though, that's life.

My main point is, Children are establishing relationships, used as a crutch and excuse to bound people that never should have been bound vs the other way around.

Lack of control over what is actually shown on TV, advertising.

A lot of things subliminally message to people as their young minds soak it up.

See i learnt through hard times what not to be, and what to be, being pushed around and beaten as a child.. no longer happens, and i have a mighty bite and my love is unreal and loyal.

Just getting some smaller issues gripped and controlled is where i am at now.

Plus on top of this people tend to follow others and their ideas and don't follow their own which causes inner turmoil for them trying to live like someone else, sometimes it's fine though.

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Honestly, you summed it up perfectly and that's why I feel like an Alien. The programming and subliminal messages haven't brainwashed me yet. I'm fighting a loosing battle of tradition and structure vs. popular culture. This stuff is painful and deep. Decisions that changes people's destiny and life path forever. But no one wants to acknowledge the deepness, only their present reality of chaos.