DXP is as less ruthless as the real world. Probably more!

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by quirkycrabbygirl on Saturday, September 9, 2017 and has 35 replies.

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The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

So you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers

Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?

Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion

Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback

So fuking weak

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Its not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.

Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.

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8 Years

Posted by xghy
What do you find negative

A. Different opinion

B. Mild sarcasm but no harm

C. The delivery

As in not having an opinion regarding the matter. But will have to comment something. So lets start calling names.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

So you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers

Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?

Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion

Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback

So fuking weak

Its not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.

Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.

True. But it emphasizes things

Being gentle and kind takes too long

Saying you're insane is quick and to the point

Calling you a bytch shows annoyance

Calying you insane how dumb you are

It's all short cuts to the same conclusion

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Trust me when I say that I have no problem with you telling me that i was sounding insane. Coz I know I was. Overanalysing things.

But name calling? People can really save it for those who really deserve it.

My point is "dont have an opinion? Then just avoid the thread. Please dont include those useless sarcastic name calling for the sake of it"

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Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

well i dont hang out there in the real world much, and if i do, i hang out at the retirement home, library and with my mother in law at the gym. i dont get out much and if i do, i am with my family hanging out, or just chilling with my husband.

if there are cruel people out there, it's because they are so miserable in life. so they gotta make others misreable too. it's the "misery loves company" syndrome.

it's like this:

old crue man #1 : "look at those stupid darn whippersnappers, dumb ole kids and the damned government is making the prices of stamps go up again. Did you hear about them stupid ass blahblbah blah...oh and dumb ole broad at home. she's as stupid as bricks"

old cruel man #2: "i hear ya, old man, stupid ass people these days, i hate them all, fuck them, if the North korean gets a wild hair up their butts we should blahg lbha blah"

old cruel man #3 "What's going on in here? can i join?"

old cruel woman #1 "You dumb ass stupid dumb old farts!! get off my property or i'll have your asses hauled away"

lady down the street at the Burger joint, can hear her screaming at a young man in a car, "I'm video taping your ass cause you drove my car!!!"

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Most people just want to have fun. If that means being a crazy negative idiot then just let them. Don't let people get to you. You can let it bother you till the day you die, but it won't change a thing in their minds. Just keep doing your thing if it truly makes you happy. If that means messing with people and going out of your way to hurt them, then prepare to get the same in return.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

So you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers

Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?

Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion

Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback

So fuking weak

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Oh! It's that nutso? Do you think she shot his friend yet?

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Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

So you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers

Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?

Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion

Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback

So fuking weak

Its not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.

Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.

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So find a forum where there are daisies and butterflies...and fk their brain with your unsolicited teaching!

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

So you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers

Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?

Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion

Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback

So fuking weak

Its not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.

Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.

So find a forum where there are daisies and butterflies...and fk their brain with your unsolicited teaching!

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lol the entire forum is asking for advice though (in the relatinships)

there's even room here for happy happy folks, as well, as sadness and doom and gloom too.

and middle aged women like yourself with a capricorn and scorpio men for backups!! 😄

and JED. 😆

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Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by quirkycrabbygirl
The world is full of unkind people. Wherever you go you will get one such person who will manipulate stuff, or try to put you down, say mean things, spread negativity. Why can't people be simple? Why do they have to complicate each and every thing? Is it so necessary to show your sarcasm expertise at each and every level than to show your kindness?

And on dxp it's even more. People hide behind these anonymous names and fake pictures and spread as much negativity as possible. What do they get out of it? Is it their source of energy to deal with the real world?

Spread kindness wherever you go. Spread positive vibes.

So you can't handle others perception? Don't ask questions if you won't like answers

Do I think you're insane cause you're angry your friend was watching a movie instead of calling you?

Hell yeah I think that's insane. You asked for ppls pinion

Why can't cancers take any kind if feedback

So fuking weak

Its not about handling perceptions. You dont have to put someone down in order to put your point across.

Fyi I am very much open to people giving free opinions. But I am not cool with people calling you names instead of giving opinions.

True. But it emphasizes things

Being gentle and kind takes too long

Saying you're insane is quick and to the point

Calling you a bytch shows annoyance

Calying you insane how dumb you are

It's all short cuts to the same conclusion

Trust me when I say that I have no problem with you telling me that i was sounding insane. Coz I know I was. Overanalysing things.

But name calling? People can really save it for those who really deserve it.

My point is "dont have an opinion? Then just avoid the thread. Please dont include those useless sarcastic name calling for the sake of it"

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Don't you think you taking too much upon yourself telling people what to do when easiest way would be just to leave and let

The door hit your ass because apparently your friend wont'