when ur partner only likes you,not love you....

This is not my case , but I've been in a relationship where my gf didn't love me , just like me, she didn't say that exactly but I think you feel when your partner doesn love you......... QUESTION IS : Why do this type of people want to keep someone they don't love ?
AND THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION , Why this people never tell you clearly that they don't love you ? I know some people are going to say that they just want somebody to not being alone , it might be true , but when you face these people and ASK them , they really insist that they love you and they sound very convincing .... or is it that they are very dumb to realize they don't love us ? or is it that they expect that their feelings towards us is going to increase with time? what should a person do in this situation? you wait till your partner loves you?

All very good questions.
Alas I have no real answers, so I'm interested too...

"is it that they are very dumb to realize they don't love us ?" LOL

There are those who are willing to enter a relationship lightheartedly. The "let's do this and just see where it goes" types. And then you have those who want or need to be certian of their feelings prior to entering a relationship. When these two mix, questions like these arise. They might not be sure if they love you yet, but that doesn't mean that they're indifferent. Ater all, they're in a relationship with you for a reason. If you constantly keep pressuring them with questions like - "Do you love me?", you're cornering them. Forcing them to lie. Relax and work your charms.

Posted by Impulsv
People settle because they believe safe is better, security etc. In actually some men have acknowledged that in this forum. But I wonder most why people stay knowing they aren't loved?

+100000

people stay because they're lonely, but it's better to be alone and lonely than be with someone you don't feel much for.
you get more love and security from your own family. Why bother with someone who feels like a complete stranger?

Posted by Theatrum
"is it that they are very dumb to realize they don't love us ?" LOL

There are those who are willing to enter a relationship lightheartedly. The "let's do this and just see where it goes" types. And then you have those who want or need to be certian of their feelings prior to entering a relationship. When these two mix, questions like these arise. They might not be sure if they love you yet, but that doesn't mean that they're indifferent. Ater all, they're in a relationship with you for a reason. If you constantly keep pressuring them with questions like - "Do you love me?", you're cornering them. Forcing them to lie. Relax and work your charms.

interesting !, well now question is : Has you or anyone on this forum ever met a couple with this two type of people in which feelings of the 'let's see what happens ' person have grown succesfully ?well , I never met one , sometimes the feelings grow a little , but never how it should be

Because they're dumb and selfish.

Posted by DonJohnson
women are cats in temperament and monkeys in reality. they are emotional. they are dependant. but they have no loyalty.

you will never truly have the love of a woman. unless she's a taurus or cancer.


they are always monkey branching. if you are good enough for now, they'll loosely hang onto you like a leech. have you pay for most of the things UNTIL a taller, better looking and more dominant male shows interest in her. Then she'll swing to him without a second thought. she will keep repeating this until she's out of her prime and her options greatly diminish.


that's why you should always

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Very true. Just ended a couple friendships with people beause they were speaking baldy of my libra bff. That's a no no In my book. Loyalty on 3000% 😉

Badly * haha

Posted by mrwang

..... she didn't say that exactly but I think you feel when your partner doesn love you......... QUESTION IS : Why do this type of people want to keep someone they don't love

First of all, this is all suspicion on your part. The person expressed this to you.

Second, you can't quantify how someone regards you, based on your definition of love ... that makes love conditional to you, and every person in here who responded accordingly.

Every person you have ever met is regarded in a different way. People are loved on many levels.

So, if you believe in unconditional love, and I know several people who responded in here has mentioned somewhere that they do ... then you're hypocrites. In this theory you all seem to agree with, the other person has to feel as you expect them to, to be considered love.

* never


The person never expressed this to you.

like but not love? good. love takes time to grow and bloom properly. i think it would be strange if my partner decided they loved me too quickly.

i like to move slow in these matters. the only sure way not to be blinded by love.

Posted by LadyYin
like but not love? good. love takes time to grow and bloom properly. i think it would be strange if my partner decided they loved me too quickly.

i like to move slow in these matters. the only sure way not to be blinded by love.

strange? why