Thank you my lady for the welcome..🙂 I really wish "from bottom of my heart" someday? somehow ?be honoured to meet you.. At the mean time?..!! I am going to tumble and shake the residents of EVIL on this board? those who shamelessly think that I was killed by some "spits" of inferior insects?.!!! Battle ON?.. 🙂
Ouch.. No problem? Meet up at religion board so we might find up some evil there? Do not wear/bring a cross, holy books/scripts, and no holy water please.
The problem is? I am almost clueless?..everyone knows I don?t believe in GOD/Religion and I am not belong to any sects. And. politically? I am practicing Anarchy?.(hate everything American and their version of freedom and democracy)?nothing new about it? But?!! We can talk about. ? History ? Humans and arts ? Science and technologies ? Semi Science ? Astronomy ? Astrology ? Fortune telling ? Music ? Movies ? Literatures Etc. So pick a topic and wind me up Sure we can find a lot of fun?I'll do it alone so I don?t mind to share the wealth. Let me know 🙂
Hey?. Btw.. I am not a hugging type?body connections make me sick (hug is only for my kids)? I am not joking?.!! And exchanging body fluids?.damn?..yuck?.NEVER AGAIN?.!! What happen to this board..?? You mean everyone become flower boy and girls..?? Hmmm
Ahh ahh.. you should try "having not physical connections" sometimes?? Years ago someone told me about it and I laughed at the idea? today?not laughing.. Practicing it..!! It is not simple to picture it but mind simulations is something that is genuine and very , very interesting indeed. "don?t get me wrong? I am not one of those Hara Krishna guys with Buddha statue in every corner of house"?.lol 🙂
Hmmmmm Qbone come out with it. You averse to squeezing a female? Come on ....
What brought about this aversion to "having not physical connections"? Why are you leaving this discussion half way? And let us into the benefits of pratising it. Maybe you can start a fast track course on how to achieve it. LOL
Let us in on those mind simulations.
By the way Hare Krishna guys are not averse to physical connetions. Krishna is the love god for god's sake 😉
I'll gladly let all know about my point of view about this subject? but not until you or anyone else describe the "enjoyment" and how our brain translate and separate those signals?!!
You are father of 2 children- married for 10 yers I believe and yet you speak like a teenager who needs to be described about the "enjoyment". Dear friend that is instinctual & practice. But holding oneself back needs some education. And I am a creature of nature in this respect. Never know what is this brain translating the signal business.
Ohh no... I wanted to know the versions of enjoyment, there are different level of enjoyments both for female and males alike?!
What is important is the psychology of this translation? we use our bodies as a standard instrument (tool) for this enjoyment, what is happening in our brain is not standard..!! what define between having bad sex and good sex..??
In case of misunderstandings.. I am straight, but have no objection about gays or lesbians. (This discussion brings those in light as well). 🙂
LOL in my post time:9:10:33 A.M in the sentence (What brought about this aversion to "having not physical connections"?) the word not should be ignored. LOL
OK Qbone I too heard b4 that female fake.(I wonder why😢) And here i understand what brain brain interpretations and translations of nerve system signals means. But does this mean that to develop the "having not physical connections" one has to be in company of drop dead put offs to switch of the brain signals towards desire to touch?
Doing things is a sexual outburst as well?. Could be anything? (sense of accomplishments..?).
I personally know some friends at age of 30+ going long time without any sexual engagements, I mean LONG time (about 2+ years) and when I ask HOW is it possible..?? They cursing me because I reminded them.. They are straight and don?t belong to any sects or belief.. Just a normal human beings like you and me?.but when they talking about their accomplishments they fly around like mad in passion like they just had biggest orgasm in their life.! PS! They are not geek hehe
And having "not physical connection in sexual manner" is personal choice, but you can still have (sense of accomplishments) or maybe called (sense of relief) or (tensions out) what ever you name it? Correct translations of signals are very important? it is something that our (traditional mind) are not prepared for it?. Having "sex" has been categorized as animal (primary) instinct.
In orthodox families in any religion based (families) female/male organs are categorized as "reproduction tools". "having sex is taboo"
In our Newage societies they are tools for (relief tensions between different sexes) or (gays or lesbians relations).
So? it must be a "sense" we are talking about?. As long as it is single "sense" then it can be controlled/analysed and recreate it in other form?don?t you think..??
It's all about brain and its perception/translation..!! Still am I sounds like a geek..?? 🙂
In other word.. Sexual engagements is just a frictions between body parts, adding some sensualities (e.g. flirting and talking) then we may have a good intercourse.
But.. in my humble opinion.. having sex is more than this even without those stuff (I m holding back explaining this part?.for some reason that I'll explain it later) 😉
Ah Qbone I think I dont know the meaning of the word geek LOL. You mentioned that you may sound as a geek in your previous post. so i thought you mena tthe way you were asking the public to desribe "enjoyment" made upi a geek. LOL
I get what you are trying to explain. Many thinkers through the ages have been trying ot talk about hannelising sexual energies towards higher level of consciousness. Have you heard about the Hindu philosophy of awakening of chakras? Well i ahve to again read it to explain it's meaning in exact terms. You will have to give me a few days for that. In a nutshell it talks about raising this tremendous energy which is in form of a flower with open petals and the energy through meditation and and visualisation is raised to the top of the brain. While one concentrates on raising the energy form base through abdomen, chest head and the top of the brain- differnt colours hqve to be visualised.And when the individual is able to transform this energy to its ultimate goal( Brain/consiousness), the enlightenment is achieved.
I will give you references ot this exercise once i get my hands on that literature. Perhaps I will even type it out here for everybody.
I have studied the Indian philosophies and Hindu religion for ages, eastern belief system is not alien to me specially Indian, so you do not need to exposing it to me "for my sake".
Noooo?. sweety.....and HI sweety..🙂 Hehe--- I am not avoiding it?.. nor deny it.. just don?t think about it.. I know its difficult to understand, as it was for me earlier.. Practising is the good way for start? 🙂
Hi Sweet-P Tantric Sex is heavenly. Everyone should try it.
Qbone take your time to reveal abotu the "misisng part". Just take care that if you are really intersted in revealing it sometime, dont delay too much or else it will loose its' significance. LOL
I never thought that one could ever need to engage in "sexual engagements" to prove one's sexual behaviour.Each ot his/her own. One has ot recognise one's needs and select which one's need ot be fulfilled. It requires direction hence sex education. I am all for the Kamasutra as it gives the knowledge of various ways of gratification & fulfillemnt but also directs to accept people with different life style . The author of Kamasutra was himself a celibate.
It is often said that high achievers are highly sexed people. I agree with that as they have learned to direct their tremnedous sexual energy into areer enhancements or some intellectual or artistic pursuits.
A topic with scope for high voltage discussion this is. Right guys?
Me thinks that the physical contact is an extension of the deepest feelings that you cna have for the other person ( all types of sexuality included here). An act which binds the two people concerned more closely. The act need nto be an expression of reproductive process. LOL that is just one aspect of physical involvement. Sometiems the physical energy is repressed. This repression creates congestion in the intestines which is agian nto healthy. so invoking this evergy is essential. It begins with invoking htis energy with touch. Then as one becomes more acquainted with ones sensuos self, this can be done in imagery and channelised the energy aroused in higher pursuits.
Now the distance from physical experience has to be a mutual one if hte 2 persons in question are committed. If it si a oneway trip then it builds frustration. A person in pursuit of disegaging form physical involvement is best staying single. If they are lucky to find a liek minded partner, then fine. But doesn't liek mindedness creates the most intense kind of passion? It is instinctual to seek physical toouch. The physical way of giving is the ultimate form of sharing trust between 2 human beings.
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