Gemini mooners and affection!?

Soo I was interested in how those guys develop bonds because the gemini mooners I know seem emotionally unavailable and hard to see through to me, like for example:

- They're not the kind of friends I can openly hug and show affection to because they always seem uncomfortable (physical but also emotional affection, like reassuring)

- When talking I feel like they don't like deep and meaningful conversations to the point that I don't even know if they are capable of going deep or if they just don't want to and are uncomfortable with that too

- The romantic relationships they have had also did not show much affection (from my outside viewpoint), rather seemed like 'just hanging out'

Now is all this emotional 'easiness' real? Because every time I see them I feel like there is much more to it and that they maybe only show affection and open up to very specific people.

I'm curious what you guys have to say 🙂

Soo I was interested in how those guys develop bonds because the gemini mooners I know seem emotionally unavailable and hard to see through to me, like for example:

- They're not the kind of friends I can openly hug and show affection to because they always seem uncomfortable (physical but also emotional affection, like reassuring)

- When talking I feel like they don't like deep and meaningful conversations to the point that I don't even know if they are capable of going deep or if they just don't want to and are uncomfortable with that too

- The romantic relationships they have had also did not show much affection (from my outside viewpoint), rather seemed like 'just hanging out'

Now is all this emotional 'easiness' real? Because every time I see them I feel like there is much more to it and that they maybe only show affection and open up to very specific people.

I'm curious what you guys have to say 🙂

(posting this here again because it fits to the topic)

dating a gem moon.. and what you stated is correct.. only thing keeping me is his Taurus sun shows actions to his emotions or affections... he is rather flighty always into other things. i just let him do whatever.. the only thing im weary of is, if i ever find out he's cheating im out of there... do whatever you want but cheat and i will run. apart from that i say you're dead on.

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Posted by TaurusInShania
dating a gem moon.. and what you stated is correct.. only thing keeping me is his Taurus sun shows actions to his emotions or affections... he is rather flighty always into other things. i just let him do whatever.. the only thing im weary of is, if i ever find out he's cheating im out of there... do whatever you want but cheat and i will run. apart from that i say you're dead on.

My ex brother in law is that combo. Faithful loving and devoted. Gemini moons can actually be very faithful when committed. That being said, he did cheat on his wife but part of that was mostly due to her pushing him around and nagging him and completely trying to control every aspect of his life. He couldn't breathe and I could tell he got tired of it. Plus she wasn't in tip top shape and unfortunately Gemini moonies, suns, etc can be shallow in the looks department.

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Very great insight! That spoke to me on so many levels... thank you.

Posted by bittercupcake
Geminis have a repution for being superficial. I don't think that's the case, it's just that they don't wish to delve into emotional pursuits because it brings them down.

As far as Gemini moons , I am one. I'm not comfortable with physical or emotional affection or PDA in public. I can be extremely timid and even so much as seeing it makes me feel uneasy. I feel like it's a private thing that should be shared between two people - in private. I believe that if you have something great you don't have to show off to the world or prove a point.

If I don't feel like having deep conversations with you, it's either 1 im not interested in you enough possibly because 2 I find you a bore or not intelligent enough, or brain savvy for me or 3 I need to mentally wind down as I become drained very easily - which is very common with Gemini energy

As far as being romantic it's usually done privately. I have a few Gemini family members and friends and hey like buddy type of relationships but in private are actually very romantic. I'm guilty of that. To me it should be expressed to my partner as it's private and between 2 people. That and I'm timid.

My dad was actually VeRy romantic towards my mom. He wrote love letters of love profession and devotion - but to us it seemed like he was very nonchalant and aloof towards her. When he found out we were so shocked and we teased my dad about it. He blushed and laughed off and joked about it, because to him it was a very bashful instance for him.

I'm also friends with other Gemini moonies and know that publicly it makes them bashful to love displays but are loving, romantic, and HuGe teases. They love getting a kick of it.

That sucks I do notice this sign gets bored easily. I remember one made me feel like the stupidest person in the whole universe. I felt so low like I was making so much effort but always feeling put down because my knowledge wasn't as high as he wanted I guess.

Ok...so I am a Gemini Mooner and my ex was a Gemini mooner. Together for years. We actually had a VERY very affectionate relationship. It was very lovey dovey. He had no problem telling me how much he loved me all day long. I was the same way back. When you first meet my ex, he seems very macho, very stoic. But when he fell in love, aaaaallllll the gushy came out. He was a big softy. We would not have worked if he was not that way - I NEED to be with an affection and expressive man.

I think in the context of relationships, it helps to look at Venus as well. Venus really shows their love " style ". I think Gemini mooners are more private in their affections. I know I am. I mean, a little PDA is cute. But mostly I am behind closed doors. I am extremely expressive. I actually think Gemini moon makes me very communicative of my feelings.

I LOVE HAVING DEEP CONVERSATIONS. Love it.

Sadly, we did not work out. He had some very bad drinking issues. He always had a tendency to take more than he gave in other ways. But that was probably his selfish Aries sun. Haha. No, Im kidding. But he begged me to come back for months and months, he took the breakup extremely hard. Extremely.



😢

So to answer your question....YES GEMINI MOON CAN BE VERY AFFECTION WHEN THEY LOVE YOU!!

Posted by hbbrnaqua
Soo I was interested in how those guys develop bonds because the gemini mooners I know seem emotionally unavailable and hard to see through to me, like for example:

- They're not the kind of friends I can openly hug and show affection to because they always seem uncomfortable (physical but also emotional affection, like reassuring)

- When talking I feel like they don't like deep and meaningful conversations to the point that I don't even know if they are capable of going deep or if they just don't want to and are uncomfortable with that too

- The romantic relationships they have had also did not show much affection (from my outside viewpoint), rather seemed like 'just hanging out'

Now is all this emotional 'easiness' real? Because every time I see them I feel like there is much more to it and that they maybe only show affection and open up to very specific people.

I'm curious what you guys have to say 🙂

(posting this here again because it fits to the topic)

My husband is a Gemini sun, Gemini moon and he is completely loving, loyal and always want to make love. I am a Libra so maybe we are just compatible that way.

Posted by Scorpino
This is an old topic, so I'm not sure if you're still interested or not; However, as a gemini mooner, I'm not certain if I represent all gemini mooners or not but I am indeed so uncomfortable with my emotions! They're so complex and complicated to me, I'm 22 years old and a scorpio sun/venus but I've never ever ever been able to fully open up to anyone ever, not even my trusty best friend, it's like I'm more comfortable and at peace working on my feelings alone and internally lol.

I did get physically sick on many occasions in the past from bottling my emotions when I didn't know how to manage my feelings but now I got way emotionally smarter, I just don't want to open up to anybody and it doesn't mean I'm not close to the person if I didn't share my emotions with them, I prove my friendship and view it as how much I'm helping the person in their worst days, not the emotional growth/sharing or talking about feelings at all. 😅

It's like the moment someone demands for an emotional bonding/conversation about feelings (especially about myself, I don't really mind listening to people and helping them) I think about ways to avoid that lol.

Haha yes still interested, still mysterious to me.

That's perfect haha, thanks for the insight.

But how do you behave in romantic relationships? Do you not wish to create this emotional bond then, or what are you looking for in that case?

Posted by TheTinMan
It seem like nobody don't really know what to make of people who has their moon sign in Gemini. Only those ones closest and fearing to us.

apparently not even their closest friends know what to make of them 😄

Posted by Scorpino

Posted by hbbrnaqua

Posted by Scorpino
This is an old topic, so I'm not sure if you're still interested or not; However, as a gemini mooner, I'm not certain if I represent all gemini mooners or not but I am indeed so uncomfortable with my emotions! They're so complex and complicated to me, I'm 22 years old and a scorpio sun/venus but I've never ever ever been able to fully open up to anyone ever, not even my trusty best friend, it's like I'm more comfortable and at peace working on my feelings alone and internally lol.

I did get physically sick on many occasions in the past from bottling my emotions when I didn't know how to manage my feelings but now I got way emotionally smarter, I just don't want to open up to anybody and it doesn't mean I'm not close to the person if I didn't share my emotions with them, I prove my friendship and view it as how much I'm helping the person in their worst days, not the emotional growth/sharing or talking about feelings at all. 😅

It's like the moment someone demands for an emotional bonding/conversation about feelings (especially about myself, I don't really mind listening to people and helping them) I think about ways to avoid that lol.

Haha yes still interested, still mysterious to me.

That's perfect haha, thanks for the insight.

But how do you behave in romantic relationships? Do you not wish to create this emotional bond then, or what are you looking for in that case?

You're very welcome 💙

I've never had a romantic relationship before tbh, it's almost like I love the idea of having a relationship but when I notice the emotions forming I run for my life. I look like I'm ungrateful for the love a lot of people have for me to some friends and they make sure to tell me to stop being a brat and to get in a relationship already but I'm like "no!". I always avoid the chance of having a great potential romantic relationship simply because I don't want to lose my single life privileges, I mean at this point I'm not sure if it's really only the effect of my moon or also the fact that I have a sag ascendant. It's like I love forming deep friendships more than relationships! But maybe when the right person comes along all this would change somehow, who knows lol.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Oh I understand, that's why I was wondering in the first place why all of the gemini mooners I know have romantic relationships that don't look deep or emotionally fulfilling from the outside (but they are also in their early 20s so those bonds would probably look different than from gemini mooners that have had a relationship for many years)

I'd rather have no relationship than what those look like, so I get you 🙂

When I was younger it was really hard for me to show affection. I also grew up in a house with a very cold mother, my dad was very affectionate and it made me uneasy when Id visit him. Even when other relatives would try and hug me goodbye at family functions, id cringe. So weird.

Now that im older and have gotten more comfortable in my own skin, im actually really, really affectionate.

I feel bad for anyone who dated me before 28. Honestly.

Posted by Oak
Just recently started seeing a gem moon and he's affectionate af. Very upfront and clingy(lolwhat).

I've noticed he likes to try and get possessive/jealous responses from me, but i have to kindly remind him that i have a cap moon:





Does this placement like to try and get a rise out of their partner usually or is that his aries venus?

also i think this placement is extremely playful! aka they are pranksters at heart.



Pisces sun/Gem moon/Taurus rising.

Huh that's funny I have a guy friend with this placement and pisces mars and aries venus always checking on me and getting jealous, but never ever making a move.

We've been friends for a year and he always kept staring at me and befriending my friends but he would never admit he has feelings or something, so now I'm dating someone else and it drives him crazy. 😄

What's your placement?