Moon and Relationships: Then there was Venus and Mars

Hi All,

Ok so questions...

I hear the top 5 planets when determining if a relationship will be successful is Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars.... Venus and Mars standing out more.

I'm coming across guys who have harmonious and compatible Suns with "perfect match" Moon signs, however, their Venus and Mars are So-So matches or inconjuct.

So since the Moon sign ruling over emotions is (in some cases) just as strong as your sun sign, does it over power Venus and Mars?

Does anyone have any successful experiences with dating anyone who's Moons are perfect matches, but other signs aren't so compatible?

What if the moons are the same? Would that trump Venus and Mars?

Unpopular opinon I think moon is more important than the Venus and sun.. If you see to incompatible signs as loves or even friends most of the time their moon match...

Venus is the way that we show love and the way we want to be show love most of the time I think people can adjust that

I believe the mars is important sexual compatible and how you fight

And merc is the way you communicate

My husband has a pisces mars, I have a sag mars. Could be more compatible but it works great 🙂 he has scorp venus and I have a cap venus- perfect match.

Posted by Blue_Froggie

Posted by Caplove

Posted by Blue_Froggie
Without Saturn contacts to act as glue or some strong Angle/planets/nodal contacts, it rarely lasts long.

What about if there are no/very few Saturn contacts in synastry but they're in composite? I always wondered about that.

I really can't comment without having looked at all the charts 😢

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I love that you are always offering help. You're a good person.

My SO is Taurus Sun which trines my Virgo Sun. Same Sag moon. We have Venus and Mars conjunction in Gemini. We have what seems like a metaphysical bond. However, it doesn't always feel that we're both on the same page. I'm not sure if it's related to current transits or if it's the mantra that no relationships are 100% easy. At times I want to leave the relationship and see what else is out there. Having great aspects can still feel like a trial on patience.