Pisces moon . Do you ever tell the lesson if they upset you?

I find mine does a bit of silent treatment and almost get upset n I feel his energy n I really don't like it so I end up asking him if he's upset n he says no... even though I can feel it but then it goes away as soon as I acknowledge he's a bit hurt by it.. I feel he's never once come out and tell me if I ever hurt his feelings but he admitted to me he's very very sensitive.. and I am a bit airy so I have to try hard not to upset this being .... so, tell me moon in Pisces peeps, what do u do or react when ur lovenones upset you. And what's your mars venus and mercury? Thank you

Tell the person**

In person is very easy to see and we deal with it right there and then.. lots of gentle touch and head rubbing .. tide cuddles and make up kisses..it's more when we r not togheee than I struggle to fully tell if I upset him unintentionally... he's so Pisces n I'm so airy at times thank you for your help

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And yes, when they do acknowledge that I'm upset for some particular reason, then it really helps, because I know I've been understood and it just goes away. Or on the other hand, the acknowledgement instantly takes me to this part that I feel guilty and I try to get over it.

OH MY GOD you sound so MUCH LIKE HIm

passive aggressive to the max.. its very tricky dealing with you guys like you guys are the most beautiful creature and very very very sensitive...

i try hard not to upset but now i feel like i'm walking on eggshells..

i feel like, he's never once told me hes upset but i can tell he is upset...but everytime i acknowldge if he's upset...he becomes a normal self again..



😢

i wish i was dealing with a more straight forward moon man...

I let them know but first I think about what I'm going to say .. libra mars, Aqua Venus, Pisces Mercury

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And yes, when they do acknowledge that I'm upset for some particular reason, then it really helps, because I know I've been understood and it just goes away. Or on the other hand, the acknowledgement instantly takes me to this part that I feel guilty and I try to get over it.

As a matter of fact, I noticed that if you acknowledge you were actually wrong, you find it difficult to admit it openly. Being understood eases the transition to normality for both parties, but you still hold it back. This is the reason for which I do not react when my Aqua is upset out of the blue. I know it's not serious and we shouldn't make a drama out of it. If he sees me upset, he pulls back and silently resents it too, more than me. We never discuss the issue when it's "hot", we let it cool down a little and then calmly talk about it, without being aggressive to each other, but rational. And the thing never gets repeated.

He is Aqua sun, Pisces moon, Sag Venus, Aqua Mars and Mercury.

Just learn what triggers him and avoid doing it 🙂

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And yes, when they do acknowledge that I'm upset for some particular reason, then it really helps, because I know I've been understood and it just goes away. Or on the other hand, the acknowledgement instantly takes me to this part that I feel guilty and I try to get over it.

As a matter of fact, I noticed that if you acknowledge you were actually wrong, you find it difficult to admit it openly. Being understood eases the transition to normality for both parties, but you still hold it back. This is the reason for which I do not react when my Aqua is upset out of the blue. I know it's not serious and we shouldn't make a drama out of it. If he sees me upset, he pulls back and silently resents it too, more than me. We never discuss the issue when it's "hot", we let it cool down a little and then calmly talk about it, without being aggressive to each other, but rational. And the thing never gets repeated.

He is Aqua sun, Pisces moon, Sag Venus, Aqua Mars and Mercury.

Just learn what triggers him and avoid doing it 🙂

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yeah thank you...i feel like i'm walking on pisces egg shells with so much pisces going on...

i notice the silence first..he's very passive aggressive which i have explained this to him today...

it will never bluntly tells me what he needs and get upset if i do not understand him the way he wishes to be understood.. ofcoz this has gotten better with time...so i ask more questions to understand him better..yet sometimes i feel like, he's not being fully honest or direct because he does not want to upset me..

it becomes the i do not want to upset you because if you are upest then i get upset...so lets just pretend everything is ok and just go silent... thats where i pick up something is off...

in person is ok..in distance isn't so much

also i find he seems to be the want to be chased type so no matter how much he may want to see me, he wants me to speak up and invite him around which i struggle to do sometimes... but i learnt, someone has to get the ball rolling here.. i think he's sensitive if he asks me and i say no then he feels completely rejected..if i don't ask him he then asks if i dont miss him...

pisces wave ...

pffffff

i wish he has aqua mars ...he will b more straight forward and sag venus

i think he's the type whrere if he gets upset he will withdraw and give the silent treatment prob not to hurt me but to deal and reflect on his feelings...where i may want to sort it out right there and then ..hehe

its ok though, i am learning to adapt to his pisces energy way

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i think he's the type whrere if he gets upset he will withdraw and give the silent treatment prob not to hurt me but to deal and reflect on his feelings...where i may want to sort it out right there and then ..hehe

its ok though, i am learning to adapt to his pisces energy way

My Pisces moon guy friend is like how u are describing your man .. u must really be into him to pay that close attention to details like that .. I'm sure he appreciates that

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Posted by saweetz1988
i think he's the type whrere if he gets upset he will withdraw and give the silent treatment prob not to hurt me but to deal and reflect on his feelings...where i may want to sort it out right there and then ..hehe

its ok though, i am learning to adapt to his pisces energy way

My Pisces moon guy friend is like how u are describing your man .. u must really be into him to pay that close attention to details like that .. I'm sure he appreciates that

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🙂 yeah i do love him a fair bit. He's extremely

Sweet and attentive to me in person and I noticed from the beginning my airy way(Aqua moon, venus in gem and mercury in venus and mars in aqua) have hurt his feelings in the past.. it took me a big while to fully understand him.... I think he puts up with a lot with me too .. so I think we both just trying to understand each other better. In person we work like a great team and it's amazing coz I can nature him with my Taurus sun side n he loves it but in distance it's like he secretly craves my affection that he becomes more fearful of expressing any needs.... he's also very scared of rejection so I'm not sure if that's Pisces energy saying or?

Pisces mooners a very beautiful people... and sometimes I feel like he's been taken advantage of a lot in the past that makes him hide all that amazing beautiful soul underneath that he now covers it all up with his massive wall... 😢 but I can see a very gentle soul underneath... but because the past makes him learn that being mean get women better lol or playing hard to get or be a bad boy always attract more women.. but that's not really his true self ... am I making sense ?? Do you experience that too? you need to find someone that will truly appreciate the beauty of your energy ...

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Pisces mooners a very beautiful people... and sometimes I feel like he's been taken advantage of a lot in the past that makes him hide all that amazing beautiful soul underneath that he now covers it all up with his massive wall... 😢 but I can see a very gentle soul underneath... but because the past makes him learn that being mean get women better lol or playing hard to get or be a bad boy always attract more women.. but that's not really his true self ... am I making sense ?? Do you experience that too? you need to find someone that will truly appreciate the beauty of your energy ...

I think we are aware of our super sensitive nature, so we try to not to expose ourselves too much because of how deeply we can be hurted. That sounds really dramatic, heh. Um, since we know we are sensitive people, we often don't speak up our feelings in order to not look like a victimistic person. Also, at least in my case, telling someone that they hurted me makes me feel insecure. Maybe he feels this way too?

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Pisces mooners a very beautiful people... and sometimes I feel like he's been taken advantage of a lot in the past that makes him hide all that amazing beautiful soul underneath that he now covers it all up with his massive wall... 😢 but I can see a very gentle soul underneath... but because the past makes him learn that being mean get women better lol or playing hard to get or be a bad boy always attract more women.. but that's not really his true self ... am I making sense ?? Do you experience that too? you need to find someone that will truly appreciate the beauty of your energy ...

I think we are aware of our super sensitive nature, so we try to not to expose ourselves too much because of how deeply we can be hurted. That sounds really dramatic, heh. Um, since we know we are sensitive people, we often don't speak up our feelings in order to not look like a victimistic person. Also, at least in my case, telling someone that they hurted me makes me feel insecure. Maybe he feels this way too?

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yeah.... I understand totally what you meant by this.... and I think you guys are very careful of who you let close... perhaps he is insecure with that ? But I don't see it as hiim bein insecure at all if he speaks up. I'm slowly telling him that exposing himself to vulnerability and voice out his feelings are actually courage not weakness.... that will take sometimes as as a man having Pisces moon can be tricky. The society expect men to toughen up and be a man... and he is a man.. just with a beautiful fishy sensitive soul .. hehe

As an Aqua moon and mercury in gem... I have been learning this week how to be more sensitive to him.. and so far wow it's totally shifted our relation... he's coming on stronger and even sweeter.. it's like * omg she knows and gets me...* haha... it's becoming easier to understand him.... now I have to re type my message a few times lol... like I know saying lol to him will prob hurt him a bit coz that's a very insensitive word for a loved one.. haha... like I think he thinks and care about other people deeply and put in efforts of others feelings first and when others forget to do the same for him he gets hurt inside..😢

As an Aqua moon and mercury in gem... I have been learning this week how to be more sensitive to him.. and so far wow it's totally shifted our relation... he's coming on stronger and even sweeter.. it's like * omg she knows and gets me...* haha... it's becoming easier to understand him.... now I have to re type my message a few times lol... like I know saying lol to him will prob hurt him a bit coz that's a very insensitive word for a loved one.. haha... like I think he thinks and care about other people deeply and put in efforts of others feelings first and when others forget to do the same for him he gets hurt inside..😢

Are you the same?

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i think he's the type whrere if he gets upset he will withdraw and give the silent treatment prob not to hurt me but to deal and reflect on his feelings...where i may want to sort it out right there and then ..hehe

its ok though, i am learning to adapt to his pisces energy way

My Pisces moon guy friend is like how u are describing your man .. u must really be into him to pay that close attention to details like that .. I'm sure he appreciates that

🙂 yeah i do love him a fair bit. He's extremely

Sweet and attentive to me in person and I noticed from the beginning my airy way(Aqua moon, venus in gem and mercury in venus and mars in aqua) have hurt his feelings in the past.. it took me a big while to fully understand him.... I think he puts up with a lot with me too .. so I think we both just trying to understand each other better. In person we work like a great team and it's amazing coz I can nature him with my Taurus sun side n he loves it but in distance it's like he secretly craves my affection that he becomes more fearful of expressing any needs.... he's also very scared of rejection so I'm not sure if that's Pisces energy saying or?

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My ex is an Aqua moon , we got along well .. that doesn't sound like just Pisces energy .. where is his mars & Mercury ?

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i think he's the type whrere if he gets upset he will withdraw and give the silent treatment prob not to hurt me but to deal and reflect on his feelings...where i may want to sort it out right there and then ..hehe

its ok though, i am learning to adapt to his pisces energy way

My Pisces moon guy friend is like how u are describing your man .. u must really be into him to pay that close attention to details like that .. I'm sure he appreciates that

🙂 yeah i do love him a fair bit. He's extremely

Sweet and attentive to me in person and I noticed from the beginning my airy way(Aqua moon, venus in gem and mercury in venus and mars in aqua) have hurt his feelings in the past.. it took me a big while to fully understand him.... I think he puts up with a lot with me too .. so I think we both just trying to understand each other better. In person we work like a great team and it's amazing coz I can nature him with my Taurus sun side n he loves it but in distance it's like he secretly craves my affection that he becomes more fearful of expressing any needs.... he's also very scared of rejection so I'm not sure if that's Pisces energy saying or?

My ex is an Aqua moon , we got along well .. that doesn't sound like just Pisces energy .. where is his mars & Mercury ?

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Aw what happened? you r Aqua sun right? His mars in Pisces and Capricorn mercury ..

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i think he's the type whrere if he gets upset he will withdraw and give the silent treatment prob not to hurt me but to deal and reflect on his feelings...where i may want to sort it out right there and then ..hehe

its ok though, i am learning to adapt to his pisces energy way

My Pisces moon guy friend is like how u are describing your man .. u must really be into him to pay that close attention to details like that .. I'm sure he appreciates that

🙂 yeah i do love him a fair bit. He's extremely

Sweet and attentive to me in person and I noticed from the beginning my airy way(Aqua moon, venus in gem and mercury in venus and mars in aqua) have hurt his feelings in the past.. it took me a big while to fully understand him.... I think he puts up with a lot with me too .. so I think we both just trying to understand each other better. In person we work like a great team and it's amazing coz I can nature him with my Taurus sun side n he loves it but in distance it's like he secretly craves my affection that he becomes more fearful of expressing any needs.... he's also very scared of rejection so I'm not sure if that's Pisces energy saying or?

My ex is an Aqua moon , we got along well .. that doesn't sound like just Pisces energy .. where is his mars & Mercury ?

Aw what happened? you r Aqua sun right? His mars in Pisces and Capricorn mercury ..

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Personal issues in his life .. I'm Aries sun .. there are no hard feelings between us .. still love there .. your bf sounds like a nice guy