@Renata25
10 Years
Just a couple Pisces questions
Elaborate more on the forbidden part. Is she still in the closet with her family?
Posted by Renata25
Only thing to keep in mind is that this is a female pisces, and i am a female leo/virgo cusp. Also our "love" is forbidden due to her religious reasons... These are just some basic questions i wanted to ask all of you.1) Is it possible for a pisces not to know they have feelings for someone, but be in love with them?
2) Is it normal for a Pisces to be shy and lie about how they feel about someone when a person asks them?
3) If you tell a Pisces that you like them, but they see you as a best friend... what will they most likely do? Distance or continue with things being the same?
As someone whom used to be best friends with a pisces female who was "straight".but always found herself with at least one gay best friend...including me of 10 years......
1.I would say that pisces women who are actively trying to suppress their sexuality for religious , cultural or family reasons ...always know if they have feelings someone....
But we are masters at deluding ourselves.
This girl and I would exchange love letters and she would often compare me to guys she was dating...saying how they didn't match up.
2.She would openly boast how we were best friends to her other friends and relatives....
not sure if they knew she also for quite some time believed we were soulmates....
anywho when anyone would ask if we were together or who she was talking to the phone...she would tell them that we were best friends ( a title she gave more value too) and it was me but they always thought it was her boyfriend.
3. After I told this girl that I loved her...about a year and half of knowing her and getting really close
......she didn't distant herself from me like I had feared.....instead my confession brought us closer as she was more comfortable expressing her romantic interest me even though she had a boyfriend at the time.
Posted by Renata25
Only thing to keep in mind is that this is a female pisces, and i am a female leo/virgo cusp. Also our "love" is forbidden due to her religious reasons... These are just some basic questions i wanted to ask all of you.1) Is it possible for a pisces not to know they have feelings for someone, but be in love with them?
2) Is it normal for a Pisces to be shy and lie about how they feel about someone when a person asks them?
3) If you tell a Pisces that you like them, but they see you as a best friend... what will they most likely do? Distance or continue with things being the same?
As someone whom used to be best friends with a pisces female who was "straight".but always found herself with at least one gay best friend...including me of 10 years......
1.I would say that pisces women who are actively trying to suppress their sexuality for religious , cultural or family reasons ...always know if they have feelings someone....
But we are masters at deluding ourselves.
This girl and I would exchange love letters and she would often compare me to guys she was dating...saying how they didn't match up.
2.She would openly boast how we were best friends to her other friends and relatives....
not sure if they knew she also for quite some time believed we were soulmates....
anywho when anyone would ask if we were together or who she was talking to the phone...she would tell them that we were best friends ( a title she gave more value too) and it was me but they always thought it was her boyfriend.
3. After I told this girl that I loved her...about a year and half of knowing her and getting really close
......she didn't distant herself from me like I had feared.....instead my confession brought us closer as she was more comfortable expressing her romantic interest me even though she had a boyfriend at the time.
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But did you guys ever fuck? Did she dump her bf? Did she come out to her family?
Or did she give you just enough emotionally to string you along for 10 years...
Idk op, do you want to give 10 years to someone who may never be able to be out and proud about a relationship with you? I know I wouldn't. I want the one I'm with to make me the #1 priority.
Posted by Renata25
Only thing to keep in mind is that this is a female pisces, and i am a female leo/virgo cusp. Also our "love" is forbidden due to her religious reasons... These are just some basic questions i wanted to ask all of you.1) Is it possible for a pisces not to know they have feelings for someone, but be in love with them?
2) Is it normal for a Pisces to be shy and lie about how they feel about someone when a person asks them?
3) If you tell a Pisces that you like them, but they see you as a best friend... what will they most likely do? Distance or continue with things being the same?
As someone whom used to be best friends with a pisces female who was "straight".but always found herself with at least one gay best friend...including me of 10 years......
1.I would say that pisces women who are actively trying to suppress their sexuality for religious , cultural or family reasons ...always know if they have feelings someone....
But we are masters at deluding ourselves.
This girl and I would exchange love letters and she would often compare me to guys she was dating...saying how they didn't match up.
2.She would openly boast how we were best friends to her other friends and relatives....
not sure if they knew she also for quite some time believed we were soulmates....
anywho when anyone would ask if we were together or who she was talking to the phone...she would tell them that we were best friends ( a title she gave more value too) and it was me but they always thought it was her boyfriend.
3. After I told this girl that I loved her...about a year and half of knowing her and getting really close
......she didn't distant herself from me like I had feared.....instead my confession brought us closer as she was more comfortable expressing her romantic interest me even though she had a boyfriend at the time.
But did you guys ever fuck? Did she dump her bf? Did she come out to her family?
Or did she give you just enough emotionally to string you along for 10 years.
Idk op, do you want to give 10 years to someone who may never be able to be out and proud about a relationship with you? I know I wouldn't. I want the one I'm with to make me the #1 priority.
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She tried to several times throughout the years. I was in denial though about the majority of her attempts due to being highly insecure as well as naive.
The first time she tried to hook up with me was after knowing her for about 6 months and hanging out with her a couple of times I invited her to share an edible with me in my dorm. It was my first time. I was so high I was freaking out, I thought her rubbing my hip bone ( the V) for twenty minutes was her trying to calm me down.lol
The last time she tried to do something with me was this past December..the last month we were officially friends.I met up with her after she had been drinking with some friends. We went back to her place and she straddled me in her lace thong and t shirt..and said how I always talk about sex and yet never do anything......
The was one of the only time it was clear to me that she was sexually attracted to me and wanted to do something.
I actually by a miracle got over her about three years into the relationship.She changed a lot within those first two years..which in turn helped me get over her. Moreover I also found out that the love I had for her wasn't erotic as in I really didn't have the desire to have sex with her ever even though she was gorgeous. I found out what I had experienced with her and also with my ex-was limerence.
I have no regrets though. We had a beautiful and healthy friendship for most of those 10 years...especially after that passionate aspect went away.
I wish her luck on her journey to find herself.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Elaborate more on the forbidden part. Is she still in the closet with her family?
So her birthday is March 7th if that helps in anyway and her venus is in aquarius. So she cannot be with me due to religious reasons, as in its against the bible, and her parents follow the word 100% . She may have asked them lowkey what they thought about it, and they said it was wrong because all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and so did her parents. I recently told her I liked her after this night where I was absolutely certain she liked me back, and she said she wasnt gay. However I know she is lying to me. She is moving so we wont even be in the same state for the next year or so, so that could contribute to that, or just not being honest with herself. Either way I am absolutely certain that she loves me. I just do not know why she would lie. I know she told our other bestfriend of her feelings for me because of the way our friend was trying to set us up, and just trying to be a lowkey wingwoman. But we can never be together because of her family.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Elaborate more on the forbidden part. Is she still in the closet with her family?So her birthday is March 7th if that helps in anyway and her venus is in aquarius. So she cannot be with me due to religious reasons, as in its against the bible, and her parents follow the word 100% . She may have asked them lowkey what they thought about it, and they said it was wrong because all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and so did her parents. I recently told her I liked her after this night where I was absolutely certain she liked me back, and she said she wasnt gay. However I know she is lying to me. She is moving so we wont even be in the same state for the next year or so, so that could contribute to that, or just not being honest with herself. Either way I am absolutely certain that she loves me. I just do not know why she would lie. I know she told our other bestfriend of her feelings for me because of the way our friend was trying to set us up, and just trying to be a lowkey wingwoman. But we can never be together because of her family.
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you can never be together not because of her family or because of her religion........
but because of her choice.
Not saying it is easy but if she loved you and more importantly herself she'd be who she was and stand up for herself
How old are you? You're in america? She may br hiding her feelings yes... But it's her choice... If she doesn't want to come out yet thats her bizz..... If my best friend wanted me and i didn't want her id say no but still be friends.. Pretty simple.. Maybe when she matures she'll be more willing to experiment and get away from her family.
Very true! I am 20. I have come to understand now is not the right time. I was just curious so I could put those questions to rest in my mind. You are absolutely right. It is her choice, and that is a very clear response. Thank you
Posted by LadyNeptune
Elaborate more on the forbidden part. Is she still in the closet with her family?So her birthday is March 7th if that helps in anyway and her venus is in aquarius. So she cannot be with me due to religious reasons, as in its against the bible, and her parents follow the word 100% . She may have asked them lowkey what they thought about it, and they said it was wrong because all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and so did her parents. I recently told her I liked her after this night where I was absolutely certain she liked me back, and she said she wasnt gay. However I know she is lying to me. She is moving so we wont even be in the same state for the next year or so, so that could contribute to that, or just not being honest with herself. Either way I am absolutely certain that she loves me. I just do not know why she would lie. I know she told our other bestfriend of her feelings for me because of the way our friend was trying to set us up, and just trying to be a lowkey wingwoman. But we can never be together because of her family.
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LOL you sound like me and my Virgo boy in reverse. He's a Leo/Virgo cusper like you (straight, born in a Christian family), and I'm the gay Pisces (March 8th) who has demolished his defenses and turned him to the dark side.
If she's lying, she's probably protecting her heart because of all the religious nuttery going on. I'm lucky my Virgo boy's family isn't THAT religious. It was a concern of mine for a long time but as it turns out I'm worth bending the rules for.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Elaborate more on the forbidden part. Is she still in the closet with her family?So her birthday is March 7th if that helps in anyway and her venus is in aquarius. So she cannot be with me due to religious reasons, as in its against the bible, and her parents follow the word 100% . She may have asked them lowkey what they thought about it, and they said it was wrong because all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and so did her parents. I recently told her I liked her after this night where I was absolutely certain she liked me back, and she said she wasnt gay. However I know she is lying to me. She is moving so we wont even be in the same state for the next year or so, so that could contribute to that, or just not being honest with herself. Either way I am absolutely certain that she loves me. I just do not know why she would lie. I know she told our other bestfriend of her feelings for me because of the way our friend was trying to set us up, and just trying to be a lowkey wingwoman. But we can never be together because of her family.
LOL you sound like me and my Virgo boy in reverse. He's a Leo/Virgo cusper like you (straight, born in a Christian family), and I'm the gay Pisces (March 8th) who has demolished his defenses and turned him to the dark side.
If she's lying, she's probably protecting her heart because of all the religious nuttery going on. I'm lucky my Virgo boy's family isn't THAT religious. It was a concern of mine for a long time but as it turns out I'm worth bending the rules for.
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Wow, you are lucky! Her birthday is March 7th! Crazy!!!! We aren't even friends anymore. I just realized there had to have been feelings on her end because she just kind of distanced herself from me. Maybe I just never was that important to her, but I KNOW that's not true. She has to be protecting her heart.
Question for you... I sent her this letter since she is moving away, and she replied a week later, had lost her phone and was preparing to go overseas, so she replied apologizing for not being able to reply faster, but was messaging me on the airplane about to leave. WHY DID SHE WAIT TILL LITERALLY THE LAST MINUTE.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Elaborate more on the forbidden part. Is she still in the closet with her family?So her birthday is March 7th if that helps in anyway and her venus is in aquarius. So she cannot be with me due to religious reasons, as in its against the bible, and her parents follow the word 100% . She may have asked them lowkey what they thought about it, and they said it was wrong because all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and so did her parents. I recently told her I liked her after this night where I was absolutely certain she liked me back, and she said she wasnt gay. However I know she is lying to me. She is moving so we wont even be in the same state for the next year or so, so that could contribute to that, or just not being honest with herself. Either way I am absolutely certain that she loves me. I just do not know why she would lie. I know she told our other bestfriend of her feelings for me because of the way our friend was trying to set us up, and just trying to be a lowkey wingwoman. But we can never be together because of her family.
LOL you sound like me and my Virgo boy in reverse. He's a Leo/Virgo cusper like you (straight, born in a Christian family), and I'm the gay Pisces (March 8th) who has demolished his defenses and turned him to the dark side.
If she's lying, she's probably protecting her heart because of all the religious nuttery going on. I'm lucky my Virgo boy's family isn't THAT religious. It was a concern of mine for a long time but as it turns out I'm worth bending the rules for.
Wow, you are lucky! Her birthday is March 7th! Crazy!!!! We aren't even friends anymore. I just realized there had to have been feelings on her end because she just kind of distanced herself from me. Maybe I just never was that important to her, but I KNOW that's not true. She has to be protecting her heart.
Question for you... I sent her this letter since she is moving away, and she replied a week later, had lost her phone and was preparing to go overseas, so she replied apologizing for not being able to reply faster, but was messaging me on the airplane about to leave. WHY DID SHE WAIT TILL LITERALLY THE LAST MINUTE.
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I think that's her romanticizing what's happening. Definitely a hint of her living in lala-land. Does she watch too many soaps? Isn't that what they do? One lover is leaving and the other tries desperately to make a last-effort contact right before the bus leaves or the plane takes off.
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Only thing to keep in mind is that this is a female pisces, and i am a female leo/virgo cusp. Also our "love" is forbidden due to her religious reasons... These are just some basic questions i wanted to ask all of you.
1) Is it possible for a pisces not to know they have feelings for someone, but be in love with them?
2) Is it normal for a Pisces to be shy and lie about how they feel about someone when a person asks them?
3) If you tell a Pisces that you like them, but they see you as a best friend... what will they most likely do? Distance or continue with things being the same?