I wanted to know if any of my scorpio moons or anyone who's dealt with one - been told that we are out of control with anger and can be verbally abusive?
Scorpio Moon Temper
I think that might be more of a Mars related issue...
Not sure,
all the Scorp moons I know are a cold, consuming anger, mostly directed internally- think self abuse rather than directed at a loved one for example.
Not sure,
all the Scorp moons I know are a cold, consuming anger, mostly directed internally- think self abuse rather than directed at a loved one for example.
For me it all depend how long a spacific person had it coming. When people piss me off I can normally pretend like it doesn't matter, but then when I'm alone the memory of it creeps up and I start remembering how bad it truly upet me. Then i start running a bunch of scenarios though my head. Like what the outcome would have been if I actually expressed how bad it made me feel. These add up over time, coming back to haunt me at random times till eventually they get what they had coming but times 10.
I will look more into my Mars and Mercury. I fo know i have a Mars in Pisces. On top of my moon. I'm not the bst person to deal with when angry. All over think scenarios too. Actually I over think everything and it causes me to create things that may not be all true. I Can be cold, manipulative I know that much. Having scorpio moon placement is not ideal but we are the strongest of the moons in my opinion. Although we get bad reps about how we go about things.
I have a blade for a tongue... I don't internalize.. for the sake of what?? ...Ppl's feelings?? Should have thought carefully before provoking me...
Once I start, it finishes pretty badly.. because I've already studied (ie: memorize) all the weaknesses (of my victim)...THEN I unleash.
Once I'm done, I'd need a few days to recover..and during those days I mentally scroll through what I said, I either feel really bad, kick myself for what I DIDN'T say,
or I laugh at my own cleverness & wit.
Rising Gemini
Sun Taurus
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Gemini
Mars Libra
Once I start, it finishes pretty badly.. because I've already studied (ie: memorize) all the weaknesses (of my victim)...THEN I unleash.
Once I'm done, I'd need a few days to recover..and during those days I mentally scroll through what I said, I either feel really bad, kick myself for what I DIDN'T say,
or I laugh at my own cleverness & wit.
Rising Gemini
Sun Taurus
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Gemini
Mars Libra
I'm a Scorpio Moon and a Scorpio Mars with a Libra Mercury and I have a temper. It doesn't rear it's head often, but it typically builds slowly over time. When I explode, you'd think I'd planned when to strike. Or maybe I'm subconsciously timing it for an opportune time? People that know me aren't shocked. At the very least, my reactions aren't completely out of proportion. When people talk about what they should've said or should've done, that suggests there was a part of them that was able to pull the emergency brake and get off that ride before they did something they might regret. But once my temper takes off, I can't find an emergency brake.
I have been thinking about the times when my temper shows up much sooner. When I feel vulnerable, I lash out too quickly. That can hurt and confuse people because they're not even sure what they did wrong sometimes. I'm not small, I'm 5'7" but when I'm feeling vulnerable, it doesn't take much to make me feel tiny. Self-censorship goes out the window.
I have been thinking about the times when my temper shows up much sooner. When I feel vulnerable, I lash out too quickly. That can hurt and confuse people because they're not even sure what they did wrong sometimes. I'm not small, I'm 5'7" but when I'm feeling vulnerable, it doesn't take much to make me feel tiny. Self-censorship goes out the window.
no no no..... we are all about peace and communication......
Posted by LoboIf only...
no no no..... we are all about peace and communication......
lol.........
I am a Scorpio moon n I am cold when I am angry,I do slow burns....but watch out for the explosion which takes a loooong time to show up.
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a Scorpio moon woman..... (sigh).....
a Scorpio moon woman..... (sigh).....
Posted by blackphaseYou would be an exception!
Nah, I am actually very good at controlling my temper.
Posted by wagtail+1 only scorpio moons I've known well are my ex fiance and his mother. he is scorpio sun, her aries sun. his libra mars kept him extremely levelheaded and collected. he was never abusive and yes i believe the anger was directed internally. his mother however, when he was a child, used to beat him when she was upset and verbally abuse his pisces sister. im not sure her mars but those two scorpio moons are both way intense in totally different ways...
I think that might be more of a Mars related issue...
Not sure,
all the Scorp moons I know are a cold, consuming anger, mostly directed internally- think self abuse rather than directed at a loved one for example.
I've come a long way in regards to my temper, my last episode was February this year and I just spat toxic venom at my family then went to my room an up ended everything in a screaming, incoherent rage, there have been times where I get so angry everything turns white and I nearly faint, it's probably from me not breathing,
The more stressed I get the more rigid my body becomes, I tense up everything and hold my breath and my blood starts turning to acid and it's a very claustrophobic feeling because I've been running so many bad scenarios in my head and just roiling in my own acidity and venom, when it comes time to pop my cork I know it's gonna be good as it's very therapeutic but I realise that it's not good to bottle things up anymore and this year has been a lot about letting myself cry freely when I want and letting people gave it the second they piss me off, actually I've just been blocking them off Facebook when they piss me off then explain why when they ask me in person
The more stressed I get the more rigid my body becomes, I tense up everything and hold my breath and my blood starts turning to acid and it's a very claustrophobic feeling because I've been running so many bad scenarios in my head and just roiling in my own acidity and venom, when it comes time to pop my cork I know it's gonna be good as it's very therapeutic but I realise that it's not good to bottle things up anymore and this year has been a lot about letting myself cry freely when I want and letting people gave it the second they piss me off, actually I've just been blocking them off Facebook when they piss me off then explain why when they ask me in person
Posted by Rambunctious76well with the information i have from way back when looks like she would be mars in pisces, however i might add vital information that she was emotionally unstable while he was growing up especially when she began to go through multiple sclerosis. so this is to say she has/had an imbalance. she has not laid a hand on him since he was a boy, but continues some verbal abuse. she doesnt really realize she does it. so people let it slide til one day someone pops off at her bc of it and she gets all butthurt... you can tell she really doesnt realize how she talks to people...Posted by AbbyNormalDo you know the mother's mars?Posted by wagtail+1 only scorpio moons I've known well are my ex fiance and his mother. he is scorpio sun, her aries sun. his libra mars kept him extremely levelheaded and collected. he was never abusive and yes i believe the anger was directed internally. his mother however, when he was a child, used to beat him when she was upset and verbally abuse his pisces sister. im not sure her mars but those two scorpio moons are both way intense in totally different ways...
I think that might be more of a Mars related issue...
Not sure,
all the Scorp moons I know are a cold, consuming anger, mostly directed internally- think self abuse rather than directed at a loved one for example.
I'm Aries sun/Scorpio moon but I internalise my anger a lot and sometimes guilt comes into the picture as well. I would rather walk away first than lash out.
I think the house your moon falls in also plays a part.click to expand
Some of these people you all are describing have personal psychological issues...violent people come in all signs...I know people with Scorpio moons who wouldn't hurt a fly...unevolved people hurt people on purpose
Posted by LadyCapriciousYes. Leeb mom and brother, both Scorp moons.
I wanted to know if any of my scorpio moons or anyone who's dealt with one - been told that we are out of control with anger and can be verbally abusive?
I am not a fan of Scorp moon
Posted by busyeyes88Well, not to offend or anything, but isn't Taurus/Scorpio an axis of control? That's the nature of the beast. Most charts with heavy fixed energy would pobably bid high on control.Posted by RamOfPeaceMe neither..Posted by LadyCapriciousYes. Leeb mom and brother, both Scorp moons.
I wanted to know if any of my scorpio moons or anyone who's dealt with one - been told that we are out of control with anger and can be verbally abusive?
I am not a fan of Scorp moon
Very controlling I found them to be.click to expand
I have a Scorpio moon and an Aries mars, when pushed to the limit I'm volcanic but it starts off as a slow burning fuse at first. I tend to forgive people pretty easily if its not an emotionally driven issue.
When I'm emotionally hurt I have internalized anger that builds until I can't keep it bottled up any longer. I either don't release it as anger and become really depressed, or get angry and say something that I later regret and feel guilty for (even if my anger was justified toward the person).
When I'm emotionally hurt I have internalized anger that builds until I can't keep it bottled up any longer. I either don't release it as anger and become really depressed, or get angry and say something that I later regret and feel guilty for (even if my anger was justified toward the person).
Ok I've written this on here before but I think it belonged here.
Last New Years my friends and I went north to Brisbane for New Years, I had this piscean friend who has been really manipulative to me and my boyfriend, she's admitted to using people in the past and I was ok with it until she started using me and my boyfriend, my BF was her dealer and at start would give her good deals and drive the stuff over to her, then she would ask for lifts here and there and she would get us to take her to parties and she would just run off and leave us with random strangers and expect us to have fun, anyways my lovely boyfriend didn't realise anything that's going on and I'll admit I said nothing to her because I don't open up and tell what's bothering me because I don't like to show if something is bothering me.
Anyways she tells my BF that we should go to Brisbane and I said no and then she goes on telling me that we would go to movie world and all the theme parks and do amazing shit and we arrived there and all we did was smoke bongs at my friends house and I spent so much money leading up to new years because she HAD to be there on Tuesday, and my money pretty much dried up on booze cigs and food, so New Years comes around and I'm wasted and toOK a pill and Saturday I'm hung over as fuck, Sunday the bitch wants to do shopping and so does my BF even though both knew I had no money, so I'm stuck in a shopping mall packed with people, coming down on a pill while my BF and ex friend are treating themselves and I'm depressed as fuck, they all got themselves a coffee without me even though I was the first to ask and they forgot about me, they offered to get me one but I was so shitty I said no, then my BF said "if you want me to feel sorry for you I'm not" infront of everyone and they laughed at me
So after shopping we take the 5 hour trip home and I just wanted to get sleep but they are talking shit in the car saying how next year they want to do the same thing again and in my head I'm like are they just saying this to make me more angry? They know I'm upset and teary because I'm depressed , we stop at a gas station and I'm so acidic from pent up anger I try to tell my boyfriend in the car about everything I'm pissed about while ex friend is inside getting a drink, she comes to the car and he instantly tells her I'm pissed off because I didn't get a coffee, and before that I told him this isn't about the coffee, I sacrificed a New Years performance slot that we were all supposed to be doing for their shitty New Years
Last New Years my friends and I went north to Brisbane for New Years, I had this piscean friend who has been really manipulative to me and my boyfriend, she's admitted to using people in the past and I was ok with it until she started using me and my boyfriend, my BF was her dealer and at start would give her good deals and drive the stuff over to her, then she would ask for lifts here and there and she would get us to take her to parties and she would just run off and leave us with random strangers and expect us to have fun, anyways my lovely boyfriend didn't realise anything that's going on and I'll admit I said nothing to her because I don't open up and tell what's bothering me because I don't like to show if something is bothering me.
Anyways she tells my BF that we should go to Brisbane and I said no and then she goes on telling me that we would go to movie world and all the theme parks and do amazing shit and we arrived there and all we did was smoke bongs at my friends house and I spent so much money leading up to new years because she HAD to be there on Tuesday, and my money pretty much dried up on booze cigs and food, so New Years comes around and I'm wasted and toOK a pill and Saturday I'm hung over as fuck, Sunday the bitch wants to do shopping and so does my BF even though both knew I had no money, so I'm stuck in a shopping mall packed with people, coming down on a pill while my BF and ex friend are treating themselves and I'm depressed as fuck, they all got themselves a coffee without me even though I was the first to ask and they forgot about me, they offered to get me one but I was so shitty I said no, then my BF said "if you want me to feel sorry for you I'm not" infront of everyone and they laughed at me
So after shopping we take the 5 hour trip home and I just wanted to get sleep but they are talking shit in the car saying how next year they want to do the same thing again and in my head I'm like are they just saying this to make me more angry? They know I'm upset and teary because I'm depressed , we stop at a gas station and I'm so acidic from pent up anger I try to tell my boyfriend in the car about everything I'm pissed about while ex friend is inside getting a drink, she comes to the car and he instantly tells her I'm pissed off because I didn't get a coffee, and before that I told him this isn't about the coffee, I sacrificed a New Years performance slot that we were all supposed to be doing for their shitty New Years
I told him if you think for a second that I am angry over a coffee then you have no fucking clue about my character at all and it hurts, the second my ex friend comes to the car he blurts out to her "he's fucking angry because he didn't get a coffee" I couldn't take it anymore I got my shit and started walking the highway even though it was 5 hours home, I walked 30 minuites till they realised where I was and drove to get me, I gave them the finger and kept walking till I realised I should get in the car because we need to get home, so I'm sitting in the back and my ex friend is now in the front and they know I'm really pissed and have been crying. What do they do? They turn the music up and start belting songs, my ex friend is a soprano with fucking annoying tone to her voice, at this point I'm at boiling point and my breaking point was exactly when the bitch decides to hit her high note and all the emotions I had bottles up came out like uncontrollable vomit in the form of fists hitting the back of chairs and roof, my feet nearly going through the seats and me screaming stop, stop, stop shut the fuck up shut up shut up shut up, just repeatedly like a fuckign crazy guy and my BF pulled the car over and I had a melt down of crying fit and they were speechless, they've seen me angry before but haven't seen me melt and they were so scared to get into the car with me because I nearly killed us all on the highway, I hadn't slept well at all the whole time I was there and it all caught up with me in the car with their shitty selfishness. At that point I felt so vulnerable and scared of myself I tried to break up with my boyfriend telling him it's not going to work, I got my bag put on some nice jeans and shoes and and hitch hiked home
This is what I wrote to her on Facebook
Ok just so YOU know, I arranged a spot for ALL of us at tropical fruits NYE so that WE would be fabulous. YOU had other plans that involved YOU and joshie so I Thought that since it's going to be me and beatties first New Year's Eve together that I'd drop the drag act and focus more on him. He comes to me and tells me he wants to go to bris after you have spoken to him and I wasn't too sure till you told me that movie world had this amazing super hero gallery thing and you really talked it up and I fell for it. We arrive on Tuesday and did absolutely nothing other than what we already do in your house which is smoke cones. I really wanted to make this trip good in the beginning I REALLY TRIED to be happy and I was, I was happy to sleep on a bed with springs and not wake up restful each night, I was happy to sleep in a room that smelled of bong and other things, I was happy to relax and spend all of the $ 400 that I had on booze cigs and food and pretty much nothing.....What I was not happy about is you kicking up a stink about me keeping you awake on your comfy bed where u slept above the shit that we were amongst, I kindly told you to not come for me bumblebee.....then you and Beattie said that WE are going shopping knowing well that I have zero money, so obviously I'm sulking and upset because the whole time we were there you said "we need to do the shopping with joshie because he wanted to be a part of it this and that" the whole time. Then we do the last day and I'm left out WE'RE going shopping!? Or is it just YOU and B? So obviously I'm coming down from my pill because I bought one at the party even though you josh Beattie and Greg all got given one, I went to go halves with Beattie only to find out that you all had taken your pills together....so I'm coming down on Sunday in a huge complex with people who don't give a fuck about me and the only thing I asked for was a coffee and you all bought yourselves coffees and didn't sort me out, then Beattie said "if he thinks I'm gonna feel sorry for him I'm not" and you all LAUGHED at me. I also asked NICELY can we please not go to crystal fucking castles because obviously I'm not in the right head space and I get the biggest eye roll from you.....I SAY. OBVIOUSLY because I made it clear that there was something wrong with me but you all decided to rub my face in it and COMPLETELY disregard my feelings by being obnoxious fucks in the car the first time and I tried to leave and you guys caught up to me and I thought I had made my point clear........so after all that drama that had just happened and I'm clearly crying and upset what do you do— You guys turn the music up and start belting.....I am not a fucking violent person and I don't know what happened to me in the car, yes it's my fault, I shouldn't have taken a pill, I should have been more vocal about what I was upset about but I really made an attempt to not be a wet blanket, it was only when we we
Ok just so YOU know, I arranged a spot for ALL of us at tropical fruits NYE so that WE would be fabulous. YOU had other plans that involved YOU and joshie so I Thought that since it's going to be me and beatties first New Year's Eve together that I'd drop the drag act and focus more on him. He comes to me and tells me he wants to go to bris after you have spoken to him and I wasn't too sure till you told me that movie world had this amazing super hero gallery thing and you really talked it up and I fell for it. We arrive on Tuesday and did absolutely nothing other than what we already do in your house which is smoke cones. I really wanted to make this trip good in the beginning I REALLY TRIED to be happy and I was, I was happy to sleep on a bed with springs and not wake up restful each night, I was happy to sleep in a room that smelled of bong and other things, I was happy to relax and spend all of the $ 400 that I had on booze cigs and food and pretty much nothing.....What I was not happy about is you kicking up a stink about me keeping you awake on your comfy bed where u slept above the shit that we were amongst, I kindly told you to not come for me bumblebee.....then you and Beattie said that WE are going shopping knowing well that I have zero money, so obviously I'm sulking and upset because the whole time we were there you said "we need to do the shopping with joshie because he wanted to be a part of it this and that" the whole time. Then we do the last day and I'm left out WE'RE going shopping!? Or is it just YOU and B? So obviously I'm coming down from my pill because I bought one at the party even though you josh Beattie and Greg all got given one, I went to go halves with Beattie only to find out that you all had taken your pills together....so I'm coming down on Sunday in a huge complex with people who don't give a fuck about me and the only thing I asked for was a coffee and you all bought yourselves coffees and didn't sort me out, then Beattie said "if he thinks I'm gonna feel sorry for him I'm not" and you all LAUGHED at me. I also asked NICELY can we please not go to crystal fucking castles because obviously I'm not in the right head space and I get the biggest eye roll from you.....I SAY. OBVIOUSLY because I made it clear that there was something wrong with me but you all decided to rub my face in it and COMPLETELY disregard my feelings by being obnoxious fucks in the car the first time and I tried to leave and you guys caught up to me and I thought I had made my point clear........so after all that drama that had just happened and I'm clearly crying and upset what do you do— You guys turn the music up and start belting.....I am not a fucking violent person and I don't know what happened to me in the car, yes it's my fault, I shouldn't have taken a pill, I should have been more vocal about what I was upset about but I really made an attempt to not be a wet blanket, it was only when we we
left did I realise that you fucking used us to get your ass up there to smoke cones with josh..
I'm just completely in awe of you Stephanie You really are a Pisces (yes I really went there lol)
And one other thing......
3 years ago I was in Sydney and Luke and Beattie were supposed to meet me in the city for my birthday and both stood me up and I cried walking the streets and I made a promise to myself that next year I would have a fabulous birthday and the following year I was in port Macquarie with you and Bec and I came second in a drag comp and I fulfilled my wish, I will get you back for ruining my New Years, I am going to have a fabulous New Years with my boyfriend and my fabulous gay friends and we won't have any straight bitches who roll their eyes and say "eww that's gross" when I'm kissing my boyfriend.
To which the fucking bitch replies "nice"
So I write back and btw I think I should owe you an apology. - and I see that she's seen the message and I leave her waiting for 10 minuites thinking I'm writing a lengthy apology to which I reply..
But I think you've taken enough already.
Fucking cunt she is and I'm still angry at my boyfriend even though we've broken up, we've been mediating and doing yoga every day since trying to get back to normal.
I'm just completely in awe of you Stephanie You really are a Pisces (yes I really went there lol)
And one other thing......
3 years ago I was in Sydney and Luke and Beattie were supposed to meet me in the city for my birthday and both stood me up and I cried walking the streets and I made a promise to myself that next year I would have a fabulous birthday and the following year I was in port Macquarie with you and Bec and I came second in a drag comp and I fulfilled my wish, I will get you back for ruining my New Years, I am going to have a fabulous New Years with my boyfriend and my fabulous gay friends and we won't have any straight bitches who roll their eyes and say "eww that's gross" when I'm kissing my boyfriend.
To which the fucking bitch replies "nice"
So I write back and btw I think I should owe you an apology. - and I see that she's seen the message and I leave her waiting for 10 minuites thinking I'm writing a lengthy apology to which I reply..
But I think you've taken enough already.
Fucking cunt she is and I'm still angry at my boyfriend even though we've broken up, we've been mediating and doing yoga every day since trying to get back to normal.
Sorry but I had to get it out there.
Oops I meant to say that I haven't broken up with my BF
Posted by RumiLoveI thought moon would express anger, tempermental because moon sign are your emotions right?
^^ Yeah...it's mars and also mercury related..
I become very VERY cold though. Only my parents saw this side of me on rare occasions (3-4 times) .. I become so cold and just the way I look at them... They feel very bad. Because I'm usually all warm, cuddly, docile, a doormat, I'm the one that apologizes and all tries to mend things.
I've also noticed that I get a sort of enjoyment tormenting my parents in such times.. I am very terse and telegraphic but say things to hurt them. It hurts them badly because I'm never like that...people cannot imagine I would be "angry" forget about going cold.
I once hurt my mother a lot..she was too shocked lol. My parents keep asking about it(after I get over it) "did we/i hurt you so much ?? " and blah blah blah.. Yeah, I too can get hurt.. Just because I'm always trying to overlook and hug, behave like nothing ever happens, accept their whims, be ready to apologize just so that things will be normal... it doesn't mean I'm never hurt. It's annoying to me.
I get mercury is how you communicate but how does mars come into play?
What if the two signs are conjunct and what if it's squared...how would that play into someones temperment?
Your moon are your instincts and intuitive behaviour and pretty much how you act, your sun sign is who you will become and destiny, don't always think that your sun is your personality because it's not
Posted by KoniuchaI feel like this makes much more sense.Posted by GreenteaI'd say moon and Mars. Moon is the emotion and Mars will dictate the action taken.Posted by RumiLoveI thought moon would express anger, tempermental because moon sign are your emotions right?
^^ Yeah...it's mars and also mercury related..
I become very VERY cold though. Only my parents saw this side of me on rare occasions (3-4 times) .. I become so cold and just the way I look at them... They feel very bad. Because I'm usually all warm, cuddly, docile, a doormat, I'm the one that apologizes and all tries to mend things.
I've also noticed that I get a sort of enjoyment tormenting my parents in such times.. I am very terse and telegraphic but say things to hurt them. It hurts them badly because I'm never like that...people cannot imagine I would be "angry" forget about going cold.
I once hurt my mother a lot..she was too shocked lol. My parents keep asking about it(after I get over it) "did we/i hurt you so much ?? " and blah blah blah.. Yeah, I too can get hurt.. Just because I'm always trying to overlook and hug, behave like nothing ever happens, accept their whims, be ready to apologize just so that things will be normal... it doesn't mean I'm never hurt. It's annoying to me.
I get mercury is how you communicate but how does mars come into play?
What if the two signs are conjunct and what if it's squared...how would that play into someones temperment?click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaKoniucha, do you mind explaining more about your dad's wife's personality? My boyfriend has the EXACT placements, except his Mars is in Aries :-/
My dads wife is a Scorpio moon and she is psychotic. I hate to blame a placement, especially since I am Scorpioand watery.
Her other placements are Cap Sun, Sag Mercury, Aqua Venus, Sag Mars.
Was she different in the beginning than she is now?
Posted by cheekyfaeriecheeky-what do you think and how do you behave in a relationship where you feel insecure? what do you think and how do you behave in a relationship whenever you feel secure? do you ever feel secure and comfortable enough to "let yourself go"? Could your Aqua Venus influence you to stop caring about someone out of the blue?Posted by Rambunctious76/throws shoePosted by cheekyfaerieCaps are boring af...even the ones with Scorpio moon..Posted by KoniuchaThat was flippant of me to say. Just meant us Cappies tend to function at a different level, so to speak. Ha. We seem miserable to a lot of people. It's what our normal looks like.Posted by cheekyfaerieI have a moon - Pluto aspect, so I do get it.Posted by KoniuchaThat I can't relate to, but every Scorp moon I've ever known has had an animal inside them and the rest of their placements decided how it came out.Posted by cheekyfaerieI know it's just her, but my goodness. She Just seems very miserable with life.Posted by KoniuchaThink it's something about that combo. Cap sun, Scorp moon and Aqua Venus. Been working on myself for a long time, where anger's concerned. Ha. Feels kinda like when Oz, from Buffy, went off to learn how to control being a werewolf.
My dads wife is a Scorpio moon and she is psychotic. I hate to blame a placement, especially since I am Scorpioand watery.
Her other placements are Cap Sun, Sag Mercury, Aqua Venus, Sag Mars.
/runs away
The article was a good read. I'm Scorp rising too and all of it together makes me a rather polarizing figure. People initially either really like me or really don't. The article also mentioned our shadow side. It's why the sun/moon/Venus combo I mentioned can be a real pisser. Their cold can be especially so.click to expand
My boyfriend is sweet and considerate to me HOWEVER there are times that he gets quiet, private and brooding even. I'm hoping that he is not just putting on an act just to get me and then he'll stop with "the act" with me if we become long term. He can definitely be moody at times, but since I have a water moon also, I understand it. Violence and verbal abuse is something that I would not tolerate at all.
I've read that Scorpio people feel most comfortable whenever they can be their authentic selfs. So their tendency to present themselves in a fake manner to get whatever they want is slim?
I've read that Scorpio people feel most comfortable whenever they can be their authentic selfs. So their tendency to present themselves in a fake manner to get whatever they want is slim?
Posted by cheekyfaeriecheeky - thank you for the feedback! I just hope that what he's showing me is really what I'm getting. We're good friends, open and honest, so I hope that I won't be thrown for a loop down the line if his feelings change and I've gotten in too deep.
@WateryVirgo
As I've gotten older, I catch myself better and make myself take a pause, but insecure or wronged me's first instinct is still to hurt the other person as much as they've hurt me.
I can smell deceit like a fart in a car. Really good instincts. I have been wrong, of course, but ya never know either way until the end. If I thought something was up, I'd drive myself and them crazy until I was satisfied. I'm sure you can see how there isn't always satisfaction to be had there.
I thrive in secure relationships. My guard's all but completely gone. That's why it hurts so bad if I find out I was wrong to feel secure. It makes me feel stupid. Nobody likes to be made a fool of.
It's scary how fast my feelings can change. More often than not tho, I've been internalizing things for a while and just never let on until it was too late. Communication isn't our strong suit.
That combination is confusing and contradictory at times. It can make us come off mental on a good day.
Posted by cheekyfaeriecan you provide an example of when someone made you feel like you had to stew in silence and not be willing/fearful of communicating?Posted by WateryVirgoIf you have a history of good communication, I'd not be *too* worried. The Boy and I can talk about anything and it's great, but I've been in relationships where my voice was shut down and it made me less likely to try in future, for fear of being shut down again.Posted by cheekyfaeriecheeky - thank you for the feedback! I just hope that what he's showing me is really what I'm getting. We're good friends, open and honest, so I hope that I won't be thrown for a loop down the line if his feelings change and I've gotten in too deep.
@WateryVirgo
As I've gotten older, I catch myself better and make myself take a pause, but insecure or wronged me's first instinct is still to hurt the other person as much as they've hurt me.
I can smell deceit like a fart in a car. Really good instincts. I have been wrong, of course, but ya never know either way until the end. If I thought something was up, I'd drive myself and them crazy until I was satisfied. I'm sure you can see how there isn't always satisfaction to be had there.
I thrive in secure relationships. My guard's all but completely gone. That's why it hurts so bad if I find out I was wrong to feel secure. It makes me feel stupid. Nobody likes to be made a fool of.
It's scary how fast my feelings can change. More often than not tho, I've been internalizing things for a while and just never let on until it was too late. Communication isn't our strong suit.
That combination is confusing and contradictory at times. It can make us come off mental on a good day.
Always had a tendency to hold on to wrongs. To let them build resentment. I'd stew on that and start keeping "score". Or I'd identify a wrong and try to work at it on my side, but not verbalize anything. If I realized there was a problem and we're both adults here, shouldn't they have realized it too? We say a lot with our silence and it's usually not good. •click to expand
one thing I like about us is that we are both intuitive people; we can since what kind of mood the other is in, instantly. I realize that there will be miscommunication in these types of relationships (we're both introverts too), just wanting to keep it to a minimum :-)
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@WateryVirgo
If my voice was continually ignored, I'd eventually stop confiding, because what's the point? If I expressed something honest and got my ass unnecessarily chewed out, I'd think every time I shared something real, it would mean a fight and who wants that? If they took my words and twisted them to use against me at a later time, I'd stop giving them ammunition. Unhealthy relationship type stuff.
They are also jealous and possessive but don't realize it sometimes until you point it out. An example, my ex went to go see a friend when we had a fight, and because I needed someone to talk to I called a friend of mine in California (who happens to be a Scorpio sun) so I could get some sort of light shined on what they were thinking. During this time, he tried to call several times, unbeknownst to me, and got mad that I was talking to someone else. In my response I said "Shame on you! You can go to a friends when your mad at me, but I am not allowed to call mine!? Where do you get off?" They quickly backed down. My Gem sun and Leo moon won't tolerate that shit.
I forgot to say as well, they like to manipulate situations to make them work in their favor and they can't stand it when you have a sharp mind and can catch them in the act and call them out on it. Or they are being secretive as to what they are up to and how dare you ask.
Posted by aquabeam
I have a Scorpio moon and an Aries mars, when pushed to the limit I'm volcanic but it starts off as a slow burning fuse at first. I tend to forgive people pretty easily if its not an emotionally driven issue.
When I'm emotionally hurt I have internalized anger that builds until I can't keep it bottled up any longer. I either don't release it as anger and become really depressed, or get angry and say something that I later regret and feel guilty for (even if my anger was justified toward the person).
This is strange but whenever I get angry.. I try not to say a word (I keep mum and walk away) because if I do say something which is most of the times not even as bad as the person did.. I still regret it later.. I hate my guilt sometimes.. I always thought its because of the good values we get from our parents make us feel guilty .. did not know it also depends on our signs..
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